Sekuyisikhathi eside sifuna ukufunda lesi sifundo: noma yikuphi ukugwema ukuthatha isikhathi sethu esiyigugu. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi ukugwema izinto ezincane ezinjalo kusezimbali. Izinto ezinkulu kakhulu ziqala ngezinto ezincane. Njengoba senze, njengoba kubonakala ngathi, iphutha elincane, singabangela imiphumela embi.
Isibonelo, ukukhokha kwesikhathi sezindleko. Ngosuku olulibaliwe ngalunye, inhlawulo ishicilelwe, futhi lena yimali oyilahlekile. Ukuhlehlisa uhambo oluya kudokotela, sibeka ingozi yempilo, kodwa ngaphandle kokubiza umama wethu, silahlekelwa ithuba lokuxhumana naye, nakuba engeyona encane. Abantu abaphansi bafaka engozini impilo yabo nenjabulo. Kodwa, uma usulungele ukushintsha impilo yakho, ungafunda ukuthi ungasusa kanjani ukuhamba kancane okwamanje.
1. Shintsha IZINDAWO ZOKUQALA NOKUPHUMA
Lapho kuseduze kunomsebenzi onzima okudingeka uxazululwe, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho owesifazane onamandla kunabo bonke futhi onenjongo kakhulu uzokucabanga: "Ngizohamba ngiyogqoka amashiya ami". Esikhundleni sokuthukuthela mayelana nokuphela okude, gxila kwisinyathelo sokuqala. Yebo, uzodinga isikhathi sokucabanga ukuthi uzoqala kuphi. Kodwa ukucabanga ngento ukuqala into. Ukuze uphumelele empini yokulwa nobuvila, thatha amakhefu, ungazitholi ekucindezelekeni. Vele uzibuze: "Ngizoqhubeka nini?"
Iphuzu lokugxila ekuqeqeshweni ukuthi kuzokuvumela ukuba ugweme ukwesaba ukuxazulula inkinga. Kuthiwani uma ngihluleka? Kuthiwani uma umsebenzi wami ungamjabulisi muntu? Mhlawumbe omunye umuntu angakwenza kangcono? Imibuzo enjalo ibonakala ingekho ndawo uma iphathelene nokuhlanza okujwayelekile endlini. Kodwa sonke sifuna ukuthi noma yimuphi umsebenzi esikwenzayo uphelele. Yilapho le mibuzo ivela khona. Okulandelayo, ungabi ozigxeka kakhulu, wonke umuntu unelungelo lokwenza amaphutha. Ukuze ufike ekupheleni, kufanele ubuke izinto, okungukuthi, bheka amakhono akho ngokuhlakanipha. Uma uzohamba ekudleni, cabanga, akusihle yini ukuqala ngesonto elizayo, lapho amaholide eseqedile. Uma kungenjalo, uzohlala etafuleni, wenze zonke izinhlobo zokudla, uhlupheke futhi ekugcineni ulahle. Nansi omunye wemithetho esemqoka: hlukanisa into eyodwa enkulu ngezigaba eziningana. Futhi khumbula: empilweni akukho lutho olungalungile, ngoba kuyohlale kukhona okubi nakakhulu.
2. YENZA UKUHLELA
Vumela okungenani imizuzu emihlanu umsebenzi onzima. Uma ungenakubekezeleleka ngokuphelele, phazamisa okuthile. Into esemqoka ukukwenza lokhu njalo, kodwa ngezigaba ezincane. Yilokho abakwa-psychologists ababiza ama-jerks. Ukusebenzisa le ndlela, ngeke neze ukhathele ukusebenza, ngoba yingakho ngeke ube nesikhathi. Qala ngemibuto: ngizoqala kuphi? Yini engingayenza?
Uma udinga ukudibanisa izinto ku-pantry, thatha imizuzu yokuqala emihlanu ukupakisha amathoyizi amadala. Setha i-timer - imizuzu emihlanu impela. Bese uphazamiseka okuthile, emva kwesikhashana, uhlanza futhi. Futhi ngakho-ke lolu daba luzohamba. Sonke siyazi: into enzima kakhulu ukuqala! Akumangazi bathi: amehlo asaba, kodwa izandla zabo zenza. Inkinga iningi lethu ukuthi asikwazi ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala - kunzima kakhulu. Uma wenza okokuqala, khona-ke lokhu kungumphumela. Singacabanga ukuthi iqhwa seliqale ukuhamba.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungaqala futhi ungayeki, izenzo zizobambelela ngokulandelana. Uzocabangela: kahle, kusukela ngiqale, ngizokwenza futhi lokhu ... Futhi ngaphandle (cabanga nje), emva kwakho konke, imizuzu emihlanu impela kakhulu. Ungase uzibuze ukuthi ungakanani ongakwenza phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Qinisekisa ukuthi akukho okungeke kwenzeke.
3. UNGAKHULU IZINHLELO ZEMIBANDO
Ubani kithi ongazithembi ukuthi uzoqala ukushaja ekuseni? Futhi kwaphela kanjani? Yiqiniso, uhlehlisele njalo: "Ngizoqala ngoMsombuluko. Cha, kungcono kusukela ngoLwesibili ... ", njll Ngalendlela, uvele uzihlulele ukuhluleka. Ngezinye izikhathi sihlehlisa ukuqala kohlelo, silinde isikhathi esithile esihle, kepha lokhu kuyiphutha eliyiphutha. Eqinisweni, sisachitha isikhathi.
Ukuze kube lula nokulawula okuphumelelayo kobuvila, ungazakhela uhlelo lonke lwemisebenzi. Okokuqala, yenza uhlu lwezinto ongayenza ngempela emahoreni angu-24. Esikhundleni sokuthi "Khokhela amarisidi efulethini," bhala: "Thola amaresidi, uwagcwalise, ufake endaweni evelele." Esikhundleni sokuthi "uthenge umbhede omusha ekamelweni lendodana yakhe" - "Shayela ifenisha bese ubuza mayelana nokutholakala kwamabhuleki womntwana, useshe nge-intanethi." Qala kancane. Ukufinyelela phezulu, udinga ukunqoba zonke izindawo.
4. UKUKHULUMA
Ake sithi ufuna ukuhlola i-imeyili yakho. Woza esangweni lakho, kodwa ngokuzumayo uthola isikhangiso: "Izindaba ezivulekile kakhulu zeKirkorov" noma into enjalo, ngokushesha uqala ukuphazamiseka, bese ukhumbule ukuthi ufuna ukubona ama-apula zokupheka, bese ukhohlwa ngokuhlola ibhokisi lemeyili. Ngakho-ke ingahlala isikhathi eside, usuku lonke uzohlala kukhompyutha ufunde izincwadi, kodwa ekugcineni ngeke ukwenze. Kuyini lokhu? Ukukhohlwa? Noma mhlawumbe, ukuhluleka okuyisisekelo ukuhlela isikhathi sabo?
Namuhla, kunezinto eziningi ezisiphazamisa esiyimbangela, kusuka emgomweni wethu, ukusivimbela ekuphumeleleni. Abantu abakaze bephuze kakhulu. Kubonakala sengathi sidinga ukugeza ngokushesha izitsha, kodwa cha, siphazanyiswa njalo, nhlobo, uma kungekho amapuleti ahlanzekile, sinquma ukugeza okungenani eyodwa. Uma uphazamiswa ukukhangisa, vele ufake i-spam block kukhompyutha yakho. Uma ukunakwa kwakho kudonselwa yi-TV, thatha bese uyivala.
5. UKUSEBENZISWA KWE-PLACE YOKUQALA
Ukuphuza kungaholela eqinisweni lokuthi impilo izodlula ingabonwa, futhi ngeke ube nesikhathi sokuyijabulela. Ucwaningo lubonise ukuthi abantu abadlala imidlalo ngokuvamile bachitha isikhathi nabangani, benze imisebenzi yabo ngokushesha kunabo abahlala ekhaya isikhathi esiningi, benza izinto ezincane. Ekuphileni kwalokhu okulandelayo, akukho okwenzekayo. Bavala phakathi kwabo kanye nokuhlukunyezwa okufanako. Futhi yilokho abaningi babo abakushoyo: "Angivame ukuba nokuphumula okuhle. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi ngimatasa usuku lonke futhi ngenxa yalokho ngizizwa ngikhathele okungapheli. Kodwa uma ngifuna ukuphazamiseka ezintweni ezikhathazayo, okwamanje akuveli kulo. "
Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukubeka ukuphumula endaweni yokuqala, hhayi ukusebenza. Kodwa ngakho kwakuwumvuzo wemisebenzi. Vumela ukunyuka ebhajini nabangani kube isipho sakho. Ukuthatha umsebenzi olandelayo, ungakhathazeki ngokuphila, khumbula ukuthi ekugcineni komhubhe ngamunye kukhona ukukhanya, zenzele iholide kaningi. Uma uqala ibhizinisi, uzofuna ukukuqeda ngokushesha uma wazi ukuthi uvuzwa.
6. FUTHA UKUKHATHA KWAKHO
Ukuphuza kwethu kudla ukwesaba ukungabi nakwazi emehlweni abanye. Sesaba ukuthi othile uzongamela ubuntu bethu. Ukwesaba okunjalo kungakwazi ukubeka phakade isikhala esinamandla kwengqondo, futhi ngeke ukwazi ukuzibonakalisa. Uma uzizwa ukuthi ukwesaba, zibuze umbuzo: yini into engaba yinto engenzeka kakhulu kimi? Bese ucabanga ngakho konke okusemandleni akho nokuthi uzokwenza kanjani ezimweni ezihlukahlukene ezibucayi. Uyomangala ukuthi abantu baqaphelisa kangakanani izinkinga zabo.
Ake sithi uyala ukuba wenze isethulo esincane mayelana nenkampani osebenza kuyo. Ake sithi uhlulekile, uhlulekile iphrojekthi. Yini elandelayo? Umphathi wakho uthukuthele futhi ngeke uphuthukiswe. Ngakho ... Futhi uzokwenzenjani? Yebo, uzoqhubeka nokuphila, ukuhleka, ujabule futhi uhlanganyele emisebenzini yansuku zonke. Thembeka wena ngokwakho, ekugcineni uzoqonda: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani (ususiwe, amaqebelengwane owawenzela usuku lokuzalwa kwendodana yakho ayidliwe ... Asinaso isikhathi sokulahlekelwa ama-kilo angaphezu kwama-5 ngaphambi komshado wendodakazi ...), impilo yakho kulokhu ayikho iphelile. Zonke ukwehluleka kuzodlulela, futhi esikhathini esizayo uzozihleka, uzikhumbule lezi zinkinga. Ungesabi ukulwa nobuvila, ukuze uphumelele. Kufanele ube ngaphezu kwalokhu, khona-ke uzophumelela.