Ngamunye wethu okungenani wabhekana nokucindezeleka nokucindezeleka. Indlela yokunqoba le mizwelo emibi? Ungasusa kanjani ukucindezeleka nokucindezeleka ngokwakho?
Into yokuqala okufanele iyenze, njengoba izazi zengqondo zeluleka, ukuvuka nokumomotheka! Ukumamatheka kuyisibonakaliso somoya omuhle! Uma uzitshele ukuthi inhlanhla ikulindele namhlanje, khona-ke okuhle okuphelele usuku olunikezwa kuwe! Ngisho kangcono, tshela ngaphambi kwesibuko amazwi angempela okuthandana nokuncoma ekhelini lakho, zizwe ukukhangwa. Zizwe uhloniphe wena futhi uhloniphe umzimba wakho, ubonise ukubonga kwakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuhlobene kanjani nokubukeka. Futhi futhi - smile! Gqoka, yenza izinwele zakho, kodwa hhayi njengokungathi njalo: ungangeza inkinobho yezinwele noma ukungabonakali okungavamile. Izinto ezincane ezinjalo njalo zikwenza ukuba unake. Amabhuzu amancane, isikhwama, isikhumba esifushane noma ijaji. Futhi ngempela amafutha! Khetha into ebhekwayo noma okubabayo. Ama-aromas eningizimu eningizimu enza ukuba ungenele olwandle lwezinzwa! Futhi isimo sehlobo sehlobo sizoba nani usuku lonke!
Indlela yokuqeda ngokuphelele ukuthunjwa?
Lokhu kuyothenga! Manje kunezinhlinzeko eziningi emakethe. Thatha intombi nawe. Thayipha ku-boutique ethile yezinhlobo zonke. Futhi ngemva kokuzifihla okujabulisayo, ungakhululeka futhi uye e-cinema noma ku-club. Yiqiniso, kuphela enkampanini yabangane abaseduze. Lokhu kuzosiza ekugwemeni umuzwa obuhlungu wedwa. Ungalahli ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa kwabantu abaseduze, manje usudinga kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili. Ukuxhumana okujabulisayo nokwethenjelwa kungaba yinto ephikisayo yokucindezeleka, futhi ithuba lokukhuluma nokuzwa lizokukhulula ekucindezelekeni. Enkampanini ejabule futhi eqotho uzosusa ukuqina kwengqondo nokungafuni kwentando, uzothola uthando wena nokuphila, futhi uzokwazi ukuletha izimangaliso empilweni futhi uyamangala.
Uma konke lokhu akusizi! Ngineluleka ukuba ushintshe isimo. Ungakwenza kanjani lokhu?
Isithombe sePerekley ekamelweni lokulala. Futhi yimiphi imibala enethonya elihle emizweni? Okuhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nomhlophe kungemibala engathathi hlangothi. Imibala emnyama, emnyama neyibhakabhaka icindezela ingqondo. Olubomvu, ophuzi no-orange - yilokho! Ngeke akuvumele ekucindezelekeni konke ekwindla nasebusika. Yenza imvume. Igumbi kufanele libe nokukhanya okwengeziwe. Shintsha amakhethini. Noma hamba izinsuku ezimbalwa, noma ngisho nezinsuku ezi-10. Iya ehlathini le-shish kebabs, sebenzisa njengendlela yokukhetha, noma ngamakhowe. Nakekela ukunakekelwa. Ubusika obubandayo obukhuni buyokhumbula lezi zinsuku ezingalindeleki!
Yiqiniso, akubona bonke abesifazane abazovumelana neziphakamiso zami. Kubo ngizokwazisa lokhu okulandelayo. Uma ungafuni ukushiya indlu, futhi ufuna ukuchitha kusihlwa endaweni ephephile ekhaya, khona-ke kunesixazululo kuwe - lungiselela isidlo esisha. Noma, mhlawumbe, awukhulumi nanoma ubani isikhathi eside? Shayela umngane noma umngane, bhala ku-ICQ. Thenga umagazini omusha we-fashion. Noma, uma ufuna ukuhlala wedwa, futhi uthanda ukufunda, uboshiwe kanye ne-embroider, bese ukhetha umphenyi ohlekisayo noma umcabango. Izincwadi ezinjalo azivumeli imizwelo emibi ukuzivimbela. Ukuthola noma ukuhlobisa, nakho, kungasetshenziswa ngaphansi kwe-audiobook (ukuhlanganisa okuthakazelisayo okuwusizo).
Futhi kuthiwani uma ukukhathazeka kusalokhu kunamandla, ukungajabuli ngokuphila nokunganaki kubuyela njalo? Khona-ke kungcono ukuba yedwa nawe, ukubheka ekujuleni komphefumulo wakho nokuqonda ukuthi kwenzekani.
Thatha umoya ojulile, bese uphuma kancane. Gxila ekuphefumuleni nasekuthuleni okuzungezile. Izokhululeka futhi ikusize ukuba uzwe izwi langaphakathi. Yimiphi imicabango ewugcwalisa ngokugcwele? Ingabe ingumqondo omubi? Ukuphenya imicimbi edlule, ama-phantoms ezinkingeni zesikhathi esizayo? Zama ukubhekana nazo. Ungavumeli imicabango emibi ikudle. Kungani? Kungumcabango nje! Akunandaba, njengalokho okwenzekayo. Okubaluleke ngempela ukuthi uyibona kanjani!
Izinkinga zangaphambilini asinamandla phezu kwethu! Khohlwa izikhalazo nokuhluleka, ungakhumbuli ukuthi awukwazi ukubuyela nini. Manje konke lokhu kuyisikhathi sakho! Ungazethuli kanye nekusasa, ubhale izinkinga eziyikhulu - eziningi zazo azike zenzeke.
Ukuhlakanipha namandla akho okwamanje. Yamukela njenge-axiom: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi impilo iyini nokuthi yiziphi izenzakalo ezenzeka kuyo, uhlale wenza konke okusemandleni akho ngaphakathi kokuqonda kwakho kokuphila, ukwazi kwakho kanye nolwazi lwakho. Yamukela lokho ongeke ukwazi ukuguqula, kodwa uthole isibindi sokushintsha okungenzeka.
Ungazami ukubalekela empeleni. Ukucwiliswa emcabangweni kugcwele ingozi enkulu, futhi ukuzisola okungapheli kuholela ekukhatheni okukhulu nakakhulu nakakhulu. Futhi empeleni kunezinhlangothi ezinhle. Ngempela, yini ehambelana nawe, akekho futhi akukho okuzoyithatha. Uma kungokwakho, unayo, noma kuyoba ngesikhathi esifanele. Uma ungatholi okuthile, ngakho-ke kunqunyelwe kusengaphambili. Thatha futhi uqhubeke!
Ungazidingi ngokwakho! Ukwazi izinzuzo zakho nokungalungile, ukwamukela wena njengoba ukhona, kusho ukuqinisekisa ukuvumelana kwezwe langaphakathi. Ungazibeki icala uma okuthile kungasebenzi. Wonke umuntu wenza konke okusemandleni akhe ngaphakathi kolwazi lwakhe nezinkolelo zakhe. Azikho izindlela ezingalungile. Futhi akusizi ngalutho ukulandela abanye, ukuthatha umbono womuntu ngokukholwa, ukuzinikela komuntu siqu? Umbono wabo yimicabango yabo kanye nesipiliyoni, hhayi ezakho. Ukusetshenziswa nokuthuthukiswa kwamandla abo, ukutadisha amakhono abo, isibindi endleleni eya entsha - akuyona yini isisusa ekuphileni? Kuthiwani ngokucindezeleka?
Kwenzeke isigaba esiwusizo empilweni yakho. Khetha ngokucophelela imicabango yakho, funda impilo bese uzama ukubheka umhlaba ngendlela entsha, ushintshe futhi ukhule ngokomoya!