Ungathola kanjani ukuzijabulisa okuthakazelisayo? Lesi sihloko siphakamisa amasu amabili wokusesha okuzenzekelayo, okuyiwona nalowo onelungelo lokuphila kuphela, kodwa futhi uzokuletha ulwazi oluningi nolusizo oluwusizo. Ukuzifaka isicelo, ungazi kangcono ngokwakho, uthuthukise u-erudition wakho futhi ube ngumuntu othakazelisayo ngemuva kwalokho, okujabulisa ukumkhulumisana naye futhi ngokuvamile ukubhekana naye. Futhi lokhu kuzokulethela okuhle okuningi ekuphileni kwakho komuntu siqu, umsebenzi kanye nezinye izigaba zokuphila.
- Njalo isonto elisha (inyanga) liqala ukuzwa into entsha yokuzilibazisa. Khetha ngokukhetha ngengozi - isibonelo, ukuphenya ngokungahleliwe ephephandabeni ngomunwe wakho. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthatha ngisho nemisebenzi enjalo, okungeke ukwazi ukucabanga ukuthi ngelinye ilanga uzofana nokuyenza. Ngalokhu ukwandisa imingcele yakho futhi ungathola amatalenta angalindelekile.
Okushiwo yile ndlela ukuthi uhlanganyele into entsha ngesonto (inyanga), ungayeki izinto zokuzilibazisa endala. Kulesi simo, sonke isonto, uzama ngobuqotho ukuthatha leli bhizinisi. Isimiso esincane salesi sabelo ukuthi ungagcina ingxoxo ngalesi sihloko. Emva kokuzibuza umbuzo - ufuna ukuqhubeka ukwenza lokhu? Uma impendulo ingu "yebo" qhubeka. Uma "cha" - qalisa entsha.
Ngakho-ke, phakathi nonyaka ungazama izinto eziningi zokuzilibazisa futhi uthole okuthile okuzuzisa ngempela. Kunoma yikuphi, isikhathi esichithwa "ngokungaqiniseki okulindelekile" akusikhathi nje sokuchitha isikhathi. Umsebenzi onjalo ovunguvunguzayo uyokwandisa kakhulu u-erudition kanye nesithakazelo esijwayelekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakwazi ukusekela kalula ingxoxo kunoma yimuphi umkhankaso, lapho uzokhuluma khona ngale ndlela yokuzilibazisa. Kuyoba lula kuwe ukuba wazi kangcono, futhi uthole ulimi oluvamile nabantu abahlukene, ngoba uzoba nenani elikhulu lezihloko zengxoxo.
- Cabanga ngempilo yakho ngendlela yendlu.
Isisekelo salo ngabazali bakho, izihlobo, abangane abadala kanye nakho konke okudlule okukhona kakade, lonke ulwazi lwakho, izinto zokuzilibazisa kanye namakhono.
Izindonga zendlu zingumndeni wakho (umyeni, umkami, osebenza nabo, abangane), lokhu kuyisimo kanye nemigomo yakho eyinhloko. Ngomunye umuntu, izindonga ngeke zibe umndeni, kodwa umsebenzi, ibhizinisi noma enye into. Ngisho noma ungenayo imindeni noma ibhizinisi, cabanga ukuthi kunjalo.
Uphahla lendlu luyikusasa lakho (izingane, impesheni, ibhizinisi elimisiwe noma i-akhawunti yasebhange). Okusho ukuthi yini ezovikela futhi ivuselele ikusasa lakho.
Okulandelayo, cabanga ukugcwaliswa kwangaphakathi kwendlu kanye nomhlobiso wangaphandle.
Okuqukethwe kwangaphakathi kwendlu kungumhlaba wakho ongokomoya kanye nemithwalo yengqondo oyitholile ngesikhathi sokuphila kwakho. Ilabhulali yamabhuku yizo zonke izincwadi ozifundayo, ishalofu ene disks yiwo wonke ama-movie owawubona nokunye okunye.
Umhlobiso wangaphandle wendlu wonke amakhono akho, amakhono kanye nokuzilibazisa. Lokhu into ongayibonisa noma utshele abantu. Zonke izithakazelo zakho, impumelelo, imivuzo namakhono, yilokho ongakuqhenya ngakho.
Ngemuva kwalokho, hlola ngengqondo ukuthi yini engekho endlini yamaphupho akho.
Noma ake sithi iphupho lakho liwumndeni oqinile, ojabulayo, indoda (umfazi) kanye neqembu lezingane, futhi manje unabazali kuphela. Kulokhu kuvela - une isisekelo futhi, mhlawumbe, ngaphakathi okuqukethwe yangaphandle, etholakala endlini ngaphandle izindonga nophahla esitezi ezingenalutho. Kulokhu, amabutho akho kufanele aqondiswe emsebenzini kanye namakhono azokwenza ukuba usondelane nomgomo, ikhaya lamaphupho akho. Lokhu kuzoba "okuzilibazisa" kwakho, okuzilibazisa okuzokwenza ukunqanda.
Emva kwakho konke, uzovuma, kungenangqondo ukuthi uhlanganyele kulokho okungelona nje okuhlobene nemigomo yakho, kodwa futhi kuphazamisa ekuphumeleleni kwabo. Kwenzeka ngaleyo ndlela, uzizwa ukuthi isikhathi sokufeza umgomo siyasuka futhi sidinga ukuhlanganisa wonke amandla ukufezekisa. Futhi esikhundleni sokufeza umgomo oyinhloko, unelisekile ngokunikezelwa kwayo, ukushintshanisa ngemifino. Yenza impilo yonke ibe yisiqephu sezinto ezithandwayo. Ngakho-ke, ukuze ungazitholi iqiniso, ukuzilibazisa kufanele kuhlolwe ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokusebenzisa i-prism yesimo sayo sengqondo ngokuqondene nomgomo. Ukuzilibazisa akumelwe okungenani kuphazanyise impilo yakho futhi kungenjalo kufanele ubeke amanani eqiniso njengomndeni nokunye.
Ukuqaphela umgomo sekuvele isinyathelo esikhulu ekusebenzeni kwayo. Ukuzilibazisa akuzona njalo lokho okubekwe khona ezindongeni zendlu. Ukuzilibazisa kwakho kungaba isamente noma izitini, ozokwakha umndeni wakho, okungukuthi, izindonga zendlu. Isibonelo, ungathathwa yi-psychology yobuhlobo bomndeni, futhi uqale ukuthuthukisa amakhono okuthandana nokuxhumana nobulili obuhlukile. Ngikholelwa, kule ndlela kunezinkulungwane zezinombolo ezidingekayo wazi futhi uzicabangele. Ukufunda le ndawo, uzokwenza konke okusemandleni endleleni yokwakha ubudlelwano obuqotho, esikhundleni sokuhamba ngomkhumbi.
Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi bayazi konke mayelana nobuhlobo nempilo yomndeni. Bacabanga kanjalo-uma ngifumana umlingani wami womphefumulo, konke kuzohamba kahle ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ubuhlobo besikhathi eside obudala isisekelo sompilo womndeni kudinga ukuzikhandla njalo nokuthuthukisa amakhono abo.
Uma uthola umsebenzi noma umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa ocabanga ukuthi uxoxela ingxenye enkulu yokuphila kwakho, uvame ukusondela ngokucophelela ukuze ufunde wonke amakhono olwazi nolwazi. Ukuphila komndeni, kanye nobuhlobo obude, badinga ukunakwa okufanayo. Futhi uma ufuna ukwakha umndeni oqinile, kuyadingeka ukwelapha lokhu njengobunzima obunzima futhi obuyinkimbinkimbi. Ngikholelwa, kusukela ochwepheshe bakho kule ndaba, kuyoba nokuningi okuncike kulo. Ungavumeli izinto ezinjalo zihambe ngokwazo.
Lezi zindlela ezimbili zokuzilibazisa zingasetshenziswa ndawonye. Isu lesibili sisenza sikwazi ukunciphisa ububanzi bokusesha, senze kube lula futhi siqondiswe. Isu lokuqala lizokuvumela ukuba uthole okuzilibazisa endaweni enikeziwe ngendlela esheshayo, engahleliwe, ngokuzijwayeza okungenasidingo kwento yokuzilibazisa ngayinye.