Umsebenti wethu ukuma egumbini le-"office" ngaphandle kokungena emgodini "ukucindezeleka" futhi ikakhulukazi ukudlula "isisindo" esitokisini! Ngakho-ke, usuku olukhulu lusondela: iholidi liphela, ibhizinisi lomdabu lizophinde likuyise emigqeni ehlelekile yezobuchwepheshe. Ukunyakaza kwethu! Ukudlala, uthi, ku-"Monopoly", ungathemba ithuba. Kodwa emdlalweni omkhulu wemisebenzi, ukungahleliwe akuyona ndawo, ngakho sizofunda igama eliyinhloko - "ukuhlela"! Ungaya kanjani ukusebenza ngemuva kwekhefu lokubeletha nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze?
Silinganisa ukuhamba
Ngokushesha nje lapho sihamba ngekhefu lokubeletha, siyaqaphela ukuthi maduze noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzodingeka sibuyele emsebenzini. Kodwa ngenkathi ingane encane, siqhuba lo mbono. Cha, kunezimbangi zangempela zezempi ezihamba phambili ezigijimela izinkulumo zisuka esibhedlela, kodwa lokhu okuhlukile. Noma kunjalo, ingane ikhula, futhi imicabango mayelana nomsebenzi ayikwazi ukunakwa. Singomama, okusho ukuthi abesifazane bahlakaniphile futhi banengqondo (okungenani, singabonisa ukubonakala kahle kwesibindi ngesikhathi esifanele!). Ngokujwayelekile, siyazi: ukufihla ikhanda lakho esihlabathini akusona isu elihle kakhulu. Lungiselela ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Inkinga inombolo eyodwa: cabanga ukuthi ubani ozoshiya ingane naye. I-enkulisa (isimo, esiyimfihlo noma sekhaya), unina ohlala unomphela, umntanami ngokungafani nogogo-noma kunjalo, ukucinga okukhethwa kukho kufanele kwenziwe kusengaphambili, ikakhulukazi njengoba idivayisi enkulisa ihlotshaniswa nemibhalo ehlukahlukene - ikhadi elilodwa lezokwelapha lingathatha isikhathi esiningi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kufanele silungiselele kancane kancane ingane ukuze ishintshe "ezandleni zomunye umuntu". Funda izinkondlo noma izincwadi mayelana nekhanda lokufundela kanye naye, hamba uhamba eduze kwensimu yakho yesikhathi esizayo, usitshele indlela izingane ezihlala ngayo. Uma uncelisa futhi ufuna, noma kunjalo, ukubuyela emsebenzini, ungazama ukugcina ukudla: kunzima, kodwa kunokwenzeka. Ngokusho kuka-Art. 258 I-TC RF esebenza abesifazane nabantwana abangaphansi kweminyaka eyi-1.5 banikezwa amakhefu engeziwe ekunceliseni ingane okungenani njalo amahora amathathu - okungenani imizuzu engu-30 ikhefu ngalinye. Ngeshwa, edolobheni elikhulu, ngisho nalezi ziphuzo ngeke zanele ukushiya ingane. Ngesicelo sikamama futhi ngokubonisana nokuphathwa, lezi zikhefu zingahlanganiswa futhi zinikezwe ekupheleni noma ekuqaleni komsebenzi osebenzayo noma ezihambisana nekhefu lesidlo sasemini, okunikeza indawo yokuhamba. Enye indlela eya emantombazaneni abasha inomsebenzi omncane. Ukusebenza isikhathi esithile, umsebenzi wokulinganisa-mhlawumbe, abaphathi bazohlela lokho. Lokhu kungaba yindindiso yangempela: ungakhathazeki, futhi ucele wonke uvakashele emtholampilo. Ake uzuze isamba esincane - izinzwa zibiza kakhulu! Ikakhulukazi ngoba akusiyo kuze kube phakade: lapho ingane ikhula, ungazinikela emsebenzini ngokuphelele.
Sakha ubuhlobo nabalingani emdlalweni
Ngesikhathi sihlezi ekhaya esitokisini esithulile, ungakhohlwa ngalabo abaye bahlala ukuze badonsa olwandle oluvunguvunguzayo. Gcina ubuhlobo nabalingani bakho futhi usebenze ubudlelwane bokusebenza ngisho nangaphambi kokubuyela ehhovisi. Kudingeka ukuhambisa ngezinkomba ezintathu. Okokuqala, udinga ukuthola incwadi yenkampani noma upheqa isayithi lenkampani yakho. Izindlela ezintsha zomsebenzi, imikhiqizo emisha, ama-aphoyintimenti amasha kulabo noma eminye iminyango ... Kubalulekile ukuthola ulwazi oluningi kangangokuthi kwaqondakala ngokushesha: wena-ke, awunakho okwesikhashana, kodwa nokho kuzo zonke izindaba! Okwesibili, shayela izintombi zakho emsebenzini bese uzibiza emibuthweni encane e-cafe. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuba uzikhumbule ngokweqile, ukuze kuthi uma ufaka ihhovisi, awubhekwa njengomuntu ovusiwe ekufeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umhlangano onjalo uzokusiza ukufunda inhlebo yakamuva, okuyinto, ngokuyisisekelo, ewusizo kakhulu: ulwazi lolwazi "oluyimfihlo" luzosiza ukuvimbela ukwaziswa okuphezulu ekubuyiseni. Ungasho injabulo oyitholayo ngokukhuluma nabangani bakho! Okwesithathu, kungani ungaceli umphathi wakho ngomhlangano 2-3 amasonto ngaphambi kokuphela kweholide? Lena yindlela enhle yokucacisa isimo, uzoxoxa ngemibandela yokubuya, ukhulume ngezinguquko ezenzeka ngesikhathi sokungabikho kwakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bonisa abaphathi ukuthi bayajabula ukubuyela ekuphileni okusebenzayo okusebenzayo!
Sibeka iziphuphu
Asizwa i-drum rolls ekuseni, kodwa "isikhathi" sisondela. Ukulungiselela "impi" yokugcina kuhlanganisa izenzo ezimbalwa ezibalulekile: ukuze bangakhathali, kumele basakazwe izinsuku ezingu-4. Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezine, uma ungakwenzi lokhu kusengaphambili, cabanga ukuthi umntwana uzosasa "umama wesibili". Yiqiniso, uma ugogo othandekayo eyokhuphula ingane, inqubo yokuzikhandla izobe isetshenziswe, futhi nge-nanny kuyadingeka ukwethula kancane kancane: ukuhlala ndawonye ekhaya - ukunika ingane ukuthi ibuyisane nobukhona bomuzi. Khona-ke kuhle ukuhamba ngezindawo ezithandayo zezingane, kancane kancane uziyeke wedwa nomanini isikhathi eside nangesikhathi eside. Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukugcwalisa ifriji nefriji. Kufanele uzame ukubona konke okuphezulu, umgomo wakho awuwukuba ugijime ezitolo ezontweni lokuqala zokusebenza. Ngaphandle kwemikhiqizo, cabanga ngezinto, imikhiqizo nemithi yengane, ikakhulukazi uma engasabi ekhaya, kodwa uzoya ensimini noma kumakhulu. Kumele kube khona konke esikhwameni sabantwana ukuthi "baphume ekukhanyeni"! Qiniseka ukuthi hhayi wena kuphela nomntwana olungele ushintsho, kodwa uyise womndeni uqaphela ukuthi isigaba esisha empilweni yakho siqala. Hhayi, uma ethatha ingane ensimini noma kumakhulu-ke ngeke ube namahloni, futhi ungazicabangela wena ...! Ngezinsuku ezintathu, lungiselela futhi ufeze izitsha eziningana: ngakho-ke, kokuqala, kunzima kakhulu, ubusuku phambi kwakho ngeke kube nombuzo waphakade: "Yini esinayo yokudla?". Kumele futhi sigxilise ikhabethe: ukugeza nokugqoka izingubo zeviki lonke - hhayi nje eyakho, kodwa nomntwana wakho! Ungakhohlwa ukubeka izingubo eziningi izinguquko esikhwameni. Ngama-DAYS angu-2 sihlanganisa: sibheka enkumbulweni, ngabe konke kwenziwa? Ifulethini elingabonakali? Ama-invoyisi angakhokhiwe? Kusasele isikhathi sokugcwalisa izikhala! Bhala phansi zonke izingcingo ezidingekayo ukuze uxhumane nengane uma engekho ekhaya. Yenza uhlu lwamakholi wokubamba izingane, futhi ubhale umbuso wosuku, ukudla komntwana, qinisekisa ukuthi ucacise imikhiqizo ayenayo. Ungatshela umhlengikazi ngokuzwakalayo izikhathi eziningi, kodwa kungcono ukurekhoda. Xoxa nomhlengikazi lokho okufanele akwenze uma ingane izwa ubuhlungu, igula, - ngokujwayelekile, landela isimiso esithi "Kunzima ukufunda - kulula ukulwa." Ngosuku. Yiba nokuphumula! Kulolu suku, ngokweqile, akufanele sibe nemisebenzi noma izinto ezingathandeki nhlobo. Sithemba umhlengikazi wethu wezingane, futhi senza ngokwethu. Kufanele nje uphumule. Ungaziphiki lutho - ekuqaleni kwe "impi" kufanele ujabule futhi uphumule!
Siqala futhi sinqobe!
Ngokushisa kwemizwelo, ukubuyela emsebenzini kuzoqhathaniswa nokuhlolwa okunzima. Kodwa, uma sivuselela othintana nabo kanye nozakwethu kanye / noma nesikhulu esiseduze kusengaphambili, uhambo lokuqala oluya ehhovisi luhambisana nokucindezeleka okuncane. Zama ukubonisa izithombe zengane kaningi - ngisho noma ufuna ngempela ukuziqhayisa "ngomsebenzi" wakho. Konke kuncike esimweni esiqenjini, kodwa ezimweni eziningi iziphathimandla zilindele imisebenzi yezisebenzi, zingaboni ngokukhethekile izinsizakalo zethu zomama. Ukubonakaliswa okungabonakali kwezithombe ezinsana kuyamcasula umphathi futhi kusenze sicabange ukuthi asisakulungele umsebenzi osebenzayo. Ukuvimbela kuyasiza kakhulu okokuqala, uze uzibonakalise ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Ngesikhathi esifanayo akukho lutho oluvimbela ukufaka esikhwameni ezinye izithombe ezinhle kakhulu zengane - uma kwenzeka othile efuna ukuzithanda ngokuzumayo! Futhi, yiqiniso, ungabizi yonke imizuzu engamashumi amathathu umhlengikazi noma uthisha. Empeleni, azikho isizathu sokukhathazeka, futhi uma kuphakama izinkinga, uzoxhumana nabo.