Wonke umuntu ufuna lolu suku lukhunjulwe ngokuphila, futhi izinkumbulo ezimnandi ngaye zasijabulisa iminyaka eminingi. Umshado esiqhingini esikhwameni somswakama uyisenzakalo esingenakulibaleka kulabo abasanda kushada.
Abantu abasanda kushada namuhla baqhubeka bekhetha iziqhingi eziqhelile nezizwe futhi nganoma isiphi isikhathi sebekulungele ukwamukelwa kwabo, abanquma ukuhlanganisa ubuhlobo babo nomshado.
Umshado eziqhingini zaseLwandle lwaseCaribbean yiyona ndawo ethandwa kakhulu emshadweni - eCuba, Dominican Republic, Jamaica, emva kwazo iziqhingi zase-Indian Ocean - i-Mauritius, iSri Lanka namaSychelles, lapho kunenkathi yemvula engekho efanelekile, kodwa okwamanje i-Seychelles inhle kunoma yikuphi sezulu. Ngesinye sezindawo ezithandekayo nezinhle kakhulu zomhlaba wethu, yisona siqhingi saseSt. Luschia. Izakhamuzi ezinomusa, ukuqhuma kwentaba nokubhekisela kwezintaba ezimbili. Ukushisa kwangempela okushisa kunomuzwa eCaribbean, okuyinto eheha amandla ayo. Ukuphakama kwesizini kulezi ziqhingi kungenkathi yasebusika. Wedding eziqhingini zaseCuba - inkululeko yothando, impilo yobusuku obuphambene namabhishi angenamkhawulo. I-Jamaica ihlale igcwele impilo. I-glare yelanga idlalwa emanzini anjengesibuko-njengamanzi olwandle kanye nemifudlana, igcwala ukumamatheka kwabantu bendawo. Imibala e-Reggae futhi ekhanyayo ye-Rostomanov iyinkimbinkimbi futhi iphumule. I-Dominican Republic - amabhishi angenamkhawulo onesihlabathi esimhlophe, izigodi zamakhorali, amanzi ahlanzekile kanye nemvelo exotic. Ngemuva kokuvakashela lapho, uzokwazi ukusho ukuthi usezindaweni eziphakeme kakhulu zama-Antilles, wazama iRum engcono kakhulu futhi wabona amahlombe angempela. Ngomuntu othanda ukungazi lutho, ngokuqinisekile uyojabulela umshado eziqhingini zaseSri Lanka. Izingubo zikazwelonke eziyingqayizivele, izimbali ezinhle kakhulu zomlobokazi, ingoma yomdanso, izindumiso zendabuko kanye nezingoma nemikhosi yendawo lapho umkhosi ozobanjelwa khona uyohlala ukhumbula intsha. Ekupheleni komkhosi, labo abasanda kushada bazogibela indlovu ogwini oluthathwa ngesihlabathi segolide.
Umshado esiqhingini sase-Indian Ocean manje awujabuleli ukuthandwa. Kule minyaka edlule, isiqhingi saseMauritius sihlala sidume kakhulu ngomkhosi omkhulu wokushada. Emibhangqweni enothando kukhona ubuhlobo obukhethekile, okwenza lesi siqhingi sibe indawo yokuvakasha eyintandokazi kunazo zonke imibhangqwana engathandwayo. Kusukela ekuqaleni kokufika kwabathandi, bazama ukufeza noma yiziphi izifiso zabo, okwenza ukuba bahlale esiqhingini njengenganekwane emnandi, engayikukhohlwa kuze kube sekupheleni kwekhulu leminyaka. Esiqhingini lapho bekulokhu kunezinhlinzeko ezinhle futhi ezingavamile kumabhangqwana othandweni. Inani elikhulu lamahhotela esiqhingini linikela ngezinhlinzeko ezikhethekile, isibonelo, ukunikeza isaphulelo esingu-50% ukuze uhlale umakoti, izipho ezihlukahlukene ezivela ehhotela, futhi igumbi lizohlala lihlangana nawe ngezithelo, izimbali kanye ne-champagne.
Imishado eMaldives in swimsuit iyithuba kulabo abakhetha umkhosi ongokomthetho. Lezi ziqhingi, akungabazeki ukuthi zithole impumelelo yamabhishi abo angawabaleki ngamagagasi aluhlaza okwesibhakabhakeni nesihlabathi esimhlophe, kanye nama-lagoons amancane, anemibala engaphansi kwamanzi. Le ndawo ilungele ukudilika kwe-scuba futhi njengendlela yokuthula ngokuthula. Uma ukugubha kwakho kwenzeka eMaldives, uzozicwilisa ngokuphelele ngokucophelela nokucindezela komunye nomunye. I-Maldives iphelele ngehora lesikhonyana lapha, elingasetshenziswa ngokuhlanjululwa ngokuyisimangaliso ngomkhuba, emva kwalokho uzothola isitifiketi esikhethekile. Labo abaye bavakashela amaMaldives, ngokuphindaphindiwe baphinda bavakashele lesi siqhingi sepharadesi ngokuphindaphindiwe.
Amapharele alahlekile e-Indian Ocean - leli gama lalinikwa iSychelles. Amahlathi aminyene emagqumeni, amatshe aqoshiwe, hhayi amabhishi amakhulu kakhulu asondela, labo abakhetha ukuthatha umhlalaphansi kusukela emsindweni ongapheli kanye nombono ongunaphakade. Bonke labo abaye bavakashela amaSychelles bayathandana nemvelo yobuncane, amabhishi ahlanganiswe nesihlabathi esimhlophe nesiqhwa se-crystal ecacile. Uma ufuna ukuhlala umhlalaphansi ukuze kungabikho muntu okukuphazamisayo phakathi nomkhosi, kufanele uthande umshado eziqhingini zaseSychelles ezindizeni zokudoba. Lona ukuhlehlisa ubuhle nokuchichima kwezilwane ezingavamile. Lapha konke kusekelwe othandweni futhi kuveza izingane kuphela lapha. Bheka inqwaba yezimbali, izinyoni nezithamela zendlovu ezithakazelisayo. Umkhuba wemilingo wokushada eSychelles ugcwele izikhathi zothando. Emva komshado, kungenzeka ukufihla ezweni lonke kwelinye lamabhishi amaningi lapho uzonikezwa kuphela komunye nomunye kulo lonke ilanga.
Iziqhingi zaseFiji yindawo engathintekiyo yokuchitha iholidi elihle, eligcwele ubuhle obukhethekile kanye nemfihlakalo. Isikhathi lapha asihambisani nanoma yimiphi imithetho, sihamba ngendlela ekhethekile. Iziqhingi eziseningizimu yePacific zithinteka ngothando lwabalandeli be-XIX leminyaka - ababi ababi, abagibeli abasaziwayo, ukuphahlazeka kwemikhumbi kanye nothando lweqiniso. Lezi ziqhingi yiyona ndawo engcono kakhulu yabangani bezinyosi zokuzalwa kwezinkanyezi noma kuzoba indawo engakhohlwa yosuku olubaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwakho.
Isiqhingi saseVatulele eziqhingini zaseFiji sidume ngokuqhuba imikhosi yomshado. Zonke izivakashi zendawo yokuvakasha ziyizivakashi zalomkhosi omangalisayo, lapho amaqhawe amadala aseFiji aqapha umlobokazi egqoke injantshi, futhi ahambe naye ekuhambeni okuzungeza lesi siqhingi.
Ngayinye yalezi ziqhingi ayinkulu ngokwanele, kodwa ngayinye yazo iqukethe inganekwane yabantu abanothando. Noma yikuphi ipharadesi emhlabeni ongazange ukhethe kulo mkhosi owubukhosi, umshado wakho esiqhingini esivumelwaneni uzoshiya kuphela izinkumbulo eziqhakazile nezihle zesenzo esibaluleke kakhulu owenzile empilweni yakho.