Isisekelo seqembu siyinhloko yaso. Kunamagama amaningi ahlukene. Isibonelo, "Ukugubha Umkhosi" noma "ama-Bandits e-Chicago" njalonjalo. Uma unengqondo eyingqayizivele, khona-ke ungakwazi ukuhlangabezana nemincintiswano ehlukahlukene eyokwazi ukuhambisana ngokuqondile neholidi lakho. Umoya omuhle kanye nombuthano olungiselelwe ngaphambili kuyinto ebaluleke kunazo zonke okufanele ube nayo ngalobu busuku obungavamile.
Nansi imincintiswano embalwa lapho ungaqala khona ukugubha.
- Ungaqala ngokubhula. Ubuciko - lokhu ngokuvamile kuyisimo esivamile kakhulu samantombazane amancane, futhi akunandaba ukuthi ashadile noma cha. Ngaphandle kwalokho, bhaka amakhukhi ngokubikezela, noma uma ungafuni ukukhathazeka okuningi, ungenza isanti, ngokwesibonelo, ngaphansi kwama-canapes ngayinye ufake i-note encane, okumele ukuthi ibhalwe phansi ngendlela enhle futhi ephakamisa ikusasa. Ngendlela efanayo, inguqulo echazwe ngenhlanhla ingashintshwa ibe yimincintiswano. Esikhundleni sokuthola inhlanhla, senza umsebenzi othile esikhwameni ngasinye, isibonelo, tshela i-anecdote noma udlale umkhwenyana efonini, uhlabele ingoma, uthenge isipho esikhethekile kumlobokazi esitolo. Zonke izindlela ongakhetha kuzo zithembele kuphela emcabangweni wakho futhi zingenakubalwa.
- Kukhona nemincintiswano ezithakazelisayo, ezakhiwe ikakhulukazi ezinhlanganweni. Wonke umuntu egumbini unikezwa amashidi wephepha namapeni. Wonke umuntu kufanele abhale inhlanganisela eyodwa kumazwi athi "inja", "ulwandle" nelithi "ihhashi". Impendulo yezinhlangano ezinjalo kufanele yenziwe, ngesimo, okungenani, ngesiphakamiso. Ngokuqinisekile zonke izintombi zizokwazi okuningi ngaye ngalobu busuku. Ngakho-ke, "inja" ibonakala ngesimo somusa omkhulu, "ulwandle" luyithokozo, futhi "ihhashi" - njengoba livela, umuntu uthanda abantu.
- Kukhona okuhlukile okujwayelekile kulowo wonke umncintiswano: sibeka izihlalo ezintathu, sibeka izinto ezincane ze-ofisi ngaphansi kwamathawula (lezi kungaba izinkinobho, iziqeshana, izikhali), singafaka ezinye i-caramel. Zonke lezi zinto kufanele zibale ngaphandle kwezandla, zihlezi kuzo.
- Kukhona umdlalo onzima njengokuthi "ngwenya", okungahle kujabulise bonke abakhona. Omunye wabantu abaningi kufanele abonise noma yiziphi izifundo ezihlobene nesihloko somshado, kodwa ngaphandle kwamagama kuphela. Isibonelo, izindandatho, ihhovisi lokubhalisa, ingubo yomshado, ikhekhe njalonjalo. Zonke ezisele kumele ziqagele ukuthi ziyini.
- Umncintiswano ujabula kakhulu, lapho kudingeke ukuba uhlanganise indaba ethile yokuphila komuntu ozoshada naye. Ngamanye amantombazane ubhala umusho ephepheni, lapho icala lamakhono omfazi ozayo kufanele lichazwe ngokucacile. Okukhethwa kukho okungcono kakhulu kuyoba yiqiniso, okuyiyo lapho intambo ejwayelekile phakathi komlobi nomlobokazi ngokwayo iyodlula, futhi ihlaziye futhi ijabule. Ekupheleni kwenqubo enjalo, umgcini womkhosi kufanele afunde zonke iziphakamiso futhi aqagele ukuthi ubani owabhala. Inketho ekahle ukuyibeka esimweni sokulandelana kwenkathi futhi ngemva kwendali yokuthengisa endalini yomshado.