Cishe ngaphandle kwalokho, amantombazane abathanda uma amadoda abalulekile ukuba abakhokhele, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke lokhu kunika nokuncoma okujabulisayo. Futhi lokhu kuyaqondakala, ngoba owesifazane kakade unomqondo onamandla wokumtshela futhi ukutshela ngokunembile ukuthi ufuna ukuthini ngempela ukuzwa kuye. Nakuba kunjalo, iningi lalezi zimo cishe kuyenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi kwezinye ezingenakuqonda, ezingenakuqondakala. Futhi yini amadoda afuna ukuzwa kusuka kwabesifazane?
Ngokuqinisekile, kusukela esikhathini eside esidlule, kuye kwaba nombono othile wokuthi uma cishe bonke abesifazane bathanda ngezindlebe zabo, ngokuqinisekile indlela eya enhliziyweni yendoda yabo kungenzeka ilale ngomlomo. Nakuba lokhu kungase kube, futhi mhlawumbe lokhu kunjalo, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi amadoda ethu afuna, njengamantombazane ukuzwa udumo oluvela kumfazi othandekayo. Nakuba kuqondakala ukuthi ngokwemvelo bavinjelwe nakakhulu, ukuthi cishe akakaze atho lutho ngalokhu. Yebo, zonke izintombi ezinjalo, ukuze zilondoloze, zilondoloze ukuzwana ebuhlotsheni babo obunzima, kuzodingeka zenze umsebenzi omkhulu nomzamo omkhulu. Lokhu konke ukuze ukwazi ukucacisa othandekayo wakho ukuthi akekho oye wazama ukukwenza ngaphandle kokunakekelwa. Yingakho lapha futhi kuyadingeka ukwazi ukuthi amadoda kusuka kwabesifazane abafuna ngempela ukuzwa udumo ikakhulukazi kuzo zonke izimo zokuphila. Phela konke, kusengumuntu wakho obalulekile.
Inzalo eqotho . Kumele uqaphele ukuthi isibambiso sempumelelo yakho yokukhonkolo ekukhulumisaneni, ukuphila nomuntu kuyoba ngokobuqiniso, ukwethembeka kwamazwi, okuzofanele kwenziwe, ngokwemvelo, okokuqala, kusuka enhliziyweni yakho. Phela, insizwa yakho ingayithanda ngaso sonke isikhathi ukunakekelwa okunjalo, kanye nokunakekelwa ngumthandekayo wakhe. Kodwa nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kuwukuthi kwenzeka kuphela ukuthi akuphazamisi inkululeko yakhe siqu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubulili obunamandla bungaba cishe buzwa wonke ama-intonations. Kufanele kucatshangwe ukuthi ubulili obuqinile cishe abuyithandi lapho bekhuluma naye ngezwi eliphathekayo. Noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, phatha njengengane encane, futhi ngandlela-thile umama wonke unquma ukuthi umuntu uzoba ngcono kangcono. Phela, kucacile ukuthi indoda imdala kakhulu, futhi ngokuyisisekelo iyokwazi ukunquma, ukuqonda ukuthi yini ezoba ngcono kakhulu kuye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba owesifazane onjalo azi umbono wakhe womuntu siqu, esimweni esithile, futhi, eqinisweni, bafuna ukuzwa udumo oluthe xaxa ekhelini labo, amadoda azolokhu efuna ukuzwa la mazwi okungenani ngezikhathi ezithile. Into ebaluleke kakhulu esimweni esinjalo ukuthi ivela kuphela enhliziyweni yakho. Yini eyoba mnandi kakhulu kuye.
Umbono wesifazane. Yiqiniso kunezimo, njengokungathi noma yikuphi owesifazane, nabo bonke abantu uma besadingeka, into yokukhansela. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi nakuba cishe bonke abantu babhekisela ekushintsheni okwenzekayo okufanayo, okungalindelwe okwenzeka ngokuthula, ngokwanele nangokujwayelekile. Ngesikhathi esifanayo bonke abesifazane baqala ukubona yonke into, kakhulu ngokomzwelo, ngisho nangaphandle kokucabanga. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngesizathu esithile, baqala ukuqoqa zonke izinhlobo zamahlaya, ngaphezu kokumisa izinyawo zabo, noma ukushaya izindebe zabo, ngisho nokufuna izincazelo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, cishe masinyane, abesifazane abanjalo bangathola cishe inani eliphelele lokucabanga, iziqephu, ukuqagela, ukuthi kungani abathandekayo babo bethengiswa ngokungazelelwe, noma baphazamise umhlangano wabo. Kodwa akuzona zonke amantombazane, kodwa ngobuqotho abafuni ukuqonda ukuthi bangamangali kanjani, bangakhohlisi lokhu kuyizinkolelo zabo. Ngemuva kokuzwa kwabesifazane abahlambalazi, ukucabangela okungenangqondo nokungacabangi kunzima. Futhi ngisho nokuvame kakhulu ukuthi bangaba nezizathu ezinzima kakhulu zokuxabana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba kulandelwa, ngisho nokuholela engalindelekile ukuthi abesifazane abaningi bahlukane ebuhlotsheni babo obunzima.
Imfihlakalo yekamelo lokulala. Ngesizathu esithile, abesifazane abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi cishe bonke abantu bathanda abesifazane abahle abanamehlo kuphela. Ngemuva kwalokho, bona, kanye nabo bonke abameleli abathandekayo bezocansi ezibuthakathaka, bathanda kakhulu ukuzwa ngendlela yabo ukubuyekezwa okunomdlandla kunabo bonke. Futhi ikakhulukazi, uma into enjalo izokhathazeka ngocansi nesondelene nendawo. Emva kwakho konke, njengoba cishe wonke umuntu uyazi, cishe wonke umuntu othize mhlawumbe kuqala futhi ungumphenyi othile othanda kakhulu ukuthakazelisa okunjalo okuthakazelisayo, okubanjwe. Khona-ke kungokwemvelo kungcono uma okhethiweyo wakhe engakwazi ukukhululeka ngangokunokwenzeka, ezithembele kuye embhedeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akukho lutho olungakhuphula isithunzi sakhe sesilisa, njengokuncoma okuhlukahlukene ngamakhono akhe obuhle obucansi. Akumangalisi ukuthi cishe wonke umuntu ufuna ukuzwa, futhi uyazi nokuthi nguye, okomlingani wakhe, ozoba ngumthandi ohamba phambili, ongenakuqhathaniswa. Futhi umlingani ongazizwa njengenkosi ethile yekamelo lakho lokulala, futhi esikhathini esizayo uzobe ezimisele kakhulu ukujabulisa, uthathe ingxenye yakhe ethandekayo, ethandekayo.
Ukunakwa ebhizinisini. Cishe wonke owesifazane okhonkolo uyalindela ukuthi umuntu omthandayo, umuntu othandekayo uzokwazi ukuwazisa ukudla okuphekiwe, noma ihembe eliboshiwe, noma amasokisi aqoshiwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuvamile laba besifazane abafanayo bayakhohlwa ukuthi amadoda abo, futhi, okubaluleke nakakhulu bayokwazi ukuqonda umbono wesigamu sabo esithandekayo, isibonelo, ishalofu eliboshwe kahle, noma isibani sokukhanya esikhanyayo. Emva kwakho konke, ngeke kube nendaba ukuthi indoda yakho yenza kahle, futhi konke kwenzeka kanjani. Into esemqoka ukukwenza kucace, ukuqonda ngamazwi aqotho, aqondile, ukuqaphela ukuthi umsebenzi wakhe uyabaluleka kakhulu.
Ukuncoma okulula. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi, njengabesifazane bonke, futhi cishe wonke amadoda, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangakanani isikhathi abazisebenzisayo ndawonye - izinsuku ezingu-7 noma iminyaka engu-7, bazohlale befuna ukwazi ukuthi umlingani wakhe othandekayo usekhona, ngokusho -ngempela uyitholile hhayi kuphela ekhangayo, kodwa futhi kakhulu sexy. Inkinga ukuthi uyeka ukuzwa, uzizwe kokubili okukhangayo nokufiselekayo. Lapha, ukuhlukunyezwa kungaba uhlobo lendlela, isinyathelo sokugcwalisa ukungabi nalutho okufanayo. Ngakho ungahawukeli izincomo zakho.
Iseluleko somuntu. Kuyoba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umuntu osemusha azi ukuthi umbono wakhe oyifunayo awuyona nje isithakazelo, futhi mhlawumbe ucatshangelwe ngqo naye. Nakuba kungenzeka, le ntombazane ayisebenziseli iseluleko sendoda yakhe, kodwa kuyoba ngcono ukuba nesithakazelo ngombono wendoda efunayo.
Funda ukuzwa othandekayo bakho, ulalele futhi ulalele kancane. Kulokhu, ngeke abe nethuba lokuvula isiqondiso sakhe ngakwesinye isikhathi.