Buyisa ubuhlobo nomuntu wakho othandekayo

Kuze kube yamuva, wena kanye nomcabango awuzange uvume ukuthi indoda yakho ethandekayo ingakushiya, kodwa umngane wami othandekayo onobunzima obufihlekile emehlweni akhe uthi usanda kubona owesifazane wakho othandekayo, onomlenze onobude obudala. Izinyembezi zifika emehlo ami ngokushesha, umhawu nokunyuka komphefumulo wami, futhi ubuhlungu obuvuthayo enhliziyweni yami. Ubuchopho abukhathali ukuhlukumeza umcabango owodwa: indlela yokubuyisela ubuhlobo, indlela yokuvuselela isithakazelo sayo sangempela kuwe? Yiqiniso, ubudlelwane nabathandekayo bakho kufanele banikezwe isikhathi njalo, kodwa njengoba bethi, "kuze kuvele ukuduma ...".

Kodwa, kholwa mina, hhayi konke okubuhlungu kakhulu futhi le nkathazo ingalungiswa, kwanele ukulandela imithetho eminingana elula. Uma, ngempela, udinga le ndoda.
Ngakho, lawula owodwa : ungesabi! Ngemuva kwakho konke, awuzange uhlukanise okwamanje? Ngakho-ke into igcina iseduze nawe. Futhi lokhu kuyinto edinga ukugcizelelwa futhi ithuthukiswe. Futhi hhayi nganoma iyiphi indlela ukungahle uhlele ama-hysterics kanye nama-scandals - akekho othanda lokhu.
Okungadingeki ukuthi, ukubukeka kwakho, ngisho noma ungazange unakekele kahle, kumele kube phezulu.

Imithetho emibili : zama ukuyibiza ngokucophelela ingxoxo engagwegwesi - ukuthi kulaba besifazane bayakhangisa futhi yini engekho, bese uzama ukunaka ubudlelwane. Yebo, eqinisile, wakutshela lokhu ekuqaleni kwenkaba futhi ngokuqinisekile wawuyikhono lakhe, kodwa izikhathi zishintsha. Ngokusekelwe ezimpendulo, faka iziphetho.

Isimiso sesithathu : zama ukwenza indoda ethandekayo isimanga, okungukuthi, ukummangaza. Lokhu kungase kube isimemo kwenye indawo yokudlela yasekuqaleni, isidlo esisha esiyingqayizivele, esinikezwe ama-predilections aso gastronomic - isaga sokuthi akekho ophikile indlela eya enhliziyweni yabamele abesilisa ngesisu.

Futhi kungcono ukushintsha isithombe, kodwa hhayi ngokuphambene - uma ubona ekhanda lakho, izinwele ze-"la la Iroquois" azikwazi nje ukwesaba umuntu kuphela, kodwa futhi zimenze angabaze ukufaneleka kwakho. Umqondo omuhle ungenziwa ngokuthenga, ngokwesibonelo, ama-blouses ngesitayela sengqondo noma iphunga elisha lomzimba. Isithakazelo esingenasidingo sizobangela futhi izingubo zangaphansi ezinamapayipi angama-piquant emzimbeni wakho wokudukisa.

Ngokuvamile, uvivinyo! Izosiza ukuhlukanisa ubudlelwane nomngane wakho othandekayo nokubukeka kokuzijabulisa kwakho okuhlanganyela okusha. Isibonelo, kungani ungena ngeparachute ndawonye noma ujoyine iqembu le-flamenco. Ngikholelwa, ukumbumbana, ukuthukuthela ngemuva komdanso we-temperamental, ubumnene bakhe ngeke kuthathe isikhathi eside. Futhi kungcono - wabelane ngezenzo zakhe zokuzilibazisa: ubani owaziyo, mhlawumbe ungathanda ukudoba, ukuthwebula izithombe noma kayaking!

Isimiso sesine : ngazo zonke izindlela ugcizelela ukubaluleka kwakho kuwe, kodwa ungayinqobe ukuze angacabangi ukuthi uyadingeka kuphela. Dumisani, niphakamise ukubaluleka kwayo emehlweni abanye - kubonakala: amadoda ayilutho.

Isimiso sesihlanu : simbize nge-nostalgic. Amadoda anelungelo lokuzimela ngokweqile futhi angafuni izinguquko ezinkulu. Kuyinto eyodwa - into encane, enye - ushintsho endaweni ejwayelekile. Sebenzisa it!

Ubudlelwane nomuntu buzosiza ukuqinisa ukubuka kwezithombe namavidiyo ahlangene kusuka ezindaweni zeholide yonyaka odlule, lapho wena, ujabule, ubheka ngokungahambisani nokukhangiswa kwendawo. Futhi ungavakashela i-druse evamile, izihlobo - bavumele bajabule ukuthi ungubani umbhangqwana omuhle!
Nazi izimpendulo ezibonakala sengathi zilula kumbuzo wabesifazane abaningi: "Indlela yokubuyisela ubuhlobo nomuntu othandekayo." Okubaluleke kakhulu ukusebenzisa kule arsenal kufike kuwe. Ngitshele, kungcono futhi kudala, kanjani izwe? Kodwa isebenza - ihlolwe ngomkhuba!