Yini ongayitshela intombazane ngosuku lokuqala?

Yini ongayitshela intombazane ngosuku lokuqala? Umbuzo obunzima kangaka ubelokhu ujabulisa kakhulu futhi uqhubeka ukhathazeka amadoda abo bonke ubudala kanye nezizwe, ukuveza izilinganiso ezihlukene zomzwelo - kusuka ekuphazanyeni komzwelo wokungaphansi. Kulo mbuzo, okuphuthumayo kakhulu kuwo wonke amadoda, kunzima ukuthola impendulo noma indlela efanele, ngoba bonke abesifazane bahluke kakhulu, okuqoshwe ngokunembile ingoma eyodwa ethandwayo kodwa enobuwula.

Ngifuna ukusho ngaso leso sikhathi ukuthi emhlabeni akusekho indlela eyodwa noma yonke indlela yokuxhumana nabantu besifazane, ngoba owesifazane ngamunye uhlukile ngendlela yakhe futhi unobuntu obuqhakazile, ozama ukubonisa engxoxweni, emhlanganweni, ukumangala noma ukumangala i-interlocutor yakhe. Ngingazijwayele, kodwa njengowesifazane, kunzima kakhulu ukuthola isihloko esivumelana nengxoxo noma izithakazelo okungenani okungenani zihambisane nezithakazelo zakhe. Ngisho nomshushisi oshisayo kakhulu wezemidlalo yamadoda, ibhola, isibonelo, akalokothi avume kumuntu ngosuku lokuqala ngentshisekelo enjalo (ngaphandle uma kunjalo wayengeyena umuntu esikhathini esidlule!). Kubo bonke abesifazane abangenalo okuhlukile, engxoxweni nomuntu kubalulekile ukubonisa umuntu wesifazane, okhohlisa, owehlisayo, kodwa lesi sifiso asiphumeleli ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngoba kunzima ukwazi izithakazelo zomunye futhi ukwazi isifiso sokuxhumana ngendaba ethile.

Amadoda, futhi, anqunyelwe nezihloko ezingxoxweni nabesifazane abangajwayelekile, njengoba bazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi omunye kumakhulu wabesifazane anesithakazelo ezinhlokweni ezifana nokuvuselelwa komzimba, amamodeli wakamuva wekhompuyutha noma imishini ekhethekile, imishini, futhi ezimweni eziningi zizonda ezombusazwe isihloko. Izihloko zomsebenzi kanye nobuhlobo bomuntu siqu nazo ziyisizathu sokuxoxisana ngosuku lokuqala, ngoba umhlangano awuhlosiwe ukukhala okuncane emgodleni noma ingxoxo yenzenjani yakamuva, kodwa ekukhulumisaneni, okungafundela ngakho ngomunye nomunye.

Konke kuya kweyodwa - inkulumo ye-banal ngesimo sezulu, kodwa kuyosho ukuthi owesifazane akathandeki njenge-interlocutor futhi unikeza isizathu sokuba umuntu asolwa ngokulahla ubukhona bengqondo yowesifazane.

Uma usuku luhlelelwe ukuvakasha kumidlalo yaseshashalazini noma i-movie, khona-ke kungenzeka kube nezihloko eziningi zokuthuthukisa ingxoxo mayelana nabalingisi bakho abathandayo, amafilimu nabaqondisi. Ngendlela, ukuya kunoma yimuphi umcimbi wezamasiko kuzosiza indoda ukuba ifunde kabanzi mayelana nezithakazelo zabesifazane ngendlela engavamile kakhulu futhi ihlole ikhono lakhe lokuqhuba ingxoxo nolwazi lwesihloko. Uma uhlela ukuvakashela indawo yaseshashalazini, ikhonsathi noma uhambe nje emgwaqweni, kufanele uvuselele imisebenzi yama-classics amakhulu ezinkondlo enkumbulweni - lena yindlela engcono kakhulu yokumangala intombazane futhi yenza isimanga esimnandi, okungenzeka ukuthi sizokhunjulwa ngokufudumele okukhulu iminyaka eminingi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthuthukiswa kobuhlobo . Ulwazi lwezinkondlo, noma ngabe luyaziwa, futhi seluvele luyi-podnadoevshih, luzohlolwa ngendlela enhle kakhulu.

Okokugcina, kufanele kuthiwe ukuthi izingxoxo, izincomo kanye nokuphindaphinda akufanele zilungiselelwe kusengaphambili, ngoba ezinkulumweni ezinjalo ezilungiselelwe, ukungaqondi nokungathembeki kungazwakala. Ukulungiswa ngcono, noma okungahambi kahle, kuyoba mnandi nakakhulu kunanoma iyiphi ingxenye "yasekhaya". Futhi ukubaluleka okubaluleke kakhulu ngosuku lokuqala akukaze kuthukuthele uma izinto zingaphenduki ngendlela oyifunayo, ngoba amantombazane yizilwane ezingenakulinganiswa futhi ezingaguquguqukayo zemvelo ezenzweni zabo ezinganqotshwa noma yikuphi ukucabanga nokuhlaziywa! Ngifisa sengathi inhlanhla!