"Angikho ngaleso sikhathi ...". Njalo uma usho leli gama, wenza impilo yakho ibe mpofu: ngenxa yemizwelo, amathuba, imicimbi ejabulisayo nempumelelo. Ukwesaba ukulahlwa, ukugxila noma ukuhluleka, udela izifiso zakho. Eqinisweni, ikusasa liyakuthanda isibindi: bathola ukuqashelwa nokuhlonishwa kulabo abaseduze nabo.
"Ngiyingozi / nginamafutha / ngiyisiphukuphuku." Ukuzigxeka kuyisithunzi esihloniphekile, kodwa hhayi uma kuba ukuzidela. Isisusa esibi sisebenza kuphela kumaqhawe anamandla aseMelika - empeleni uthola nje izizathu zokungenzi lutho kwakho. "Kungani ngiya esikoleni sokuzivocavoca - nginamafutha," "ubuso bami ngeke busise noma yikuphi ukuzenzela," "izinwele ngeke zihlobise izinwele zami ezingavamile" - yakha uhlu lwakho lwezingcingo- "unamathela" futhi uzixoshe.
"Angikwazi ukukwenza." Uzizwa njalo ukuthi usebenza kabi, ufundisa izingane, ukhuluma nabathandekayo bakho nabangani - futhi lokhu kunganeliseki kuhambisana nani yonke impilo yakho. Yebo, uyazi, abantu abalungile abakho - kodwa akuthuli. Ukungavikeleki kwakho, okwenziwe ngokuphelela, akukwazi ukulinganisa. Misa. Exhale. Futhi zama ukuqonda: ulandela ingqondo ekahle engekho. Vumela ukwenza amaphutha - yilokho ulwazi, isipiliyoni nokuhlakanipha okutholakala khona.
"Angikwazi ...". Leli gama ngumholi ongenakuphikiswa wokucabanga okungalungile, okungahle kube nomthelela ekukholeni kwethu. Emgunyeni omfushane kunecala elinamandla lokungalaleli, okubulala noma yikuphi ukuzama ukuguqula impilo yakho ukuze ibe ngcono. Khumbula: noma yikuphi umgomo ofezekayo - kuphela indaba yesikhathi, umzamo nokubekezela.