Uma emva kokungathembeki komyeni wakho ungena ekucindezelekeni, uzolwa namahlaya, ukhale, uhlale uphonsa isimo, ngeke kuholele kunoma yini enhle. Oshade naye uzomane ehlukumeze ukuziphatha kwakho, futhi uzobalekela ekukhoneni kwenkosikazi yakhe - lapho, emva kwakho konke, ngokuthula nangokuthula. Futhi ungikholelwe, ngeke azisole ngisho nokuzisola ngoba uthi uyamhlupha futhi wamcindezela, ushiye iqiniso lokuthi uqale ukukhwabanisa ngemuva kokukhashelwa kwakhe. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, cabanga ngezingane zakho, wena, abantu abadala bazoqonda ubudlelwane babo, futhi amahloni wengane yakho yansuku zonke angaba yingozi yokucindezeleka kwengqondo.
Inombolo ye-Tip eyodwa . Amadoda amaningi adonsela kokuthile okusha nokungafundiwe, lokhu kubonakala ngentshisekelo yendoda yakho kubesifazane abaningi.
Bonke abantu balwela inkululeko ethile empilweni, futhi kuyisiphukuphuku ukuthemba ukuthi ngokubhalisa ubuhlobo, indoda yakho izoyilahla ngokuphelele. Abayeni bethu bazibheka ngokweqile ngendlela efana nokunakekela abanye besifazane, bathi, yilokho engisengumfana, ngizobeka eyodwa embhedeni, naphezu kweminyaka yami nesimo sami. Ngakho-ke, empilweni yomndeni, akufanele ukhethe izindonga ezinzima azungeze umyeni wakho futhi uhlale unomphela kakhulu. Vumela umyeni wakhe abe nenkolelo yokuthi unenkululeko namanye amalungelo.
Inombolo yesibili yephophu . Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukuvuma, kufanelekile ukwamukela iqiniso lokukhishwa komyeni wakho. Ukungathembeki kobudlova kuyinto evamile kakhulu ekuphileni kwethu. Awuwona owokuqala hhayi owokugcina ukushintsha. Ngokwamukela kuphela leli qiniso nokuqaphela ukuthi unjalo uhlobo lwesilisa, kuyoba lula ukuhlala.
Thatha ukwehlisa ukuthi iqiniso lokuthi umyeni wakho ushintshile wena futhi awukhohlisi - uyicabange. Futhi uma uhlala ekungazini? Ngakho babehlala ngokuthula nangaphezulu! Ukuhlambalaza kungaba inhlekelele uma lona wesifazane ngokwakhe enza inhlekelele yakhe. Ungenzi lokhu, kuyoba lula kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni ukuba aphile.
Inombolo yebhodi yebhodi . Cabanga futhi uhlulele, kungani umyeni wakho eqala ukuguqula? Yiqiniso, uzoqala ngokushesha ukusho ukuthi ungathembeki, umfazi womthengisi, umthengisi, akazange aqonde konke okwenzele yena, kodwa akusilo iphuzu, ungakwazi, futhi unciphise isimo sakho, kodwa inkinga ngeke isombululwe ngale ndlela. Ukwelapha umfazi ukungabi nokuvumelana ebuhlotsheni. Uma umuntu egula endlini yakhe, uzoba ngu-100% efuna induduzo ohlangothini. Cabanga ngakho ngekhanda elihlanzekile, yenza ukuhlaziywa kobuhlobo bomndeni wonke, bese uqala ukulungisa isimo ngokukhululekile.
Inombolo yephuphu ezine . Ungatholi ubuhlobo, uzakhele isisulu somhawu, thola ukuthi uyamthanda yini. Yebo, kunzima, kodwa behlangane futhi bezolile. Uma kuzoba nokuphikisana okuningi nokucindezelwa ohlangothini lwakho, ithuba lokuthi uzoya kuye liyokwandisa ngezikhathi ezithile. Awudingi lokhu, akunjalo?
Inombolo yephuphu yesihlanu . Ungayifaki ngaphambi kweqiniso lokuzikhethela - mina noma mina. Ayikho indoda eshadile engashadile nenkosikazi yakhe. Futhi iqiniso lokuthi uzomcindezela odongeni ngokuzikhethela, kuzomenza isimo sibe sibi nakakhulu. Uma enquma ukukushiya, ngokungangabazeki, uzoba ngowokuqala ukwazi.
Inombolo yebhodi yesithupha . Mnike ithemba lokuthi indlu yakhe iyinqaba yakhe, yakha indawo enhle kunazo zonke, enobungane futhi ekhululekile ekhaya. Khona-ke ngeke afune ukukubalekela noma yini.
Inombolo yephuphu ayisikhombisa . Madoda othandekayo, ungakhohlwa, amadoda ayethanda amehlo, ngakhoke ungayeki ukuzinakekela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki. Hlala uzikhiphe isikhathi sonke, hhayi nje ngokomzimba, kodwa futhi nokuziphatha. Phela, noma yimuphi umuntu uzojabula ukubona emkhatsini wakhe umfazi okhuthele, othokozile, olungele kahle. Uthande umyeni wakho, uchithe isikhathi ndawonye, ungafaki izinsolo nokuhlambalaza. Yiba ozimele futhi ungathandeki nje kumyeni wakho kuphela, kodwa kwabanye abantu, futhi ngeke afune ukulahlekelwa nguwe, akeke ugijime "ngakwesokunxele."