Abababa nabomama abasanda kuvela, ngisho nalabo abalungise kahle kakhulu, emva kokubonakala kwemvuthu, babuzwa imibuzo eminingi. Singaba ngabazali abahle yini? Ingabe sizofunda ukunakekela kahle? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sizoxhumana nemfundo? Sizokwazi yini ukuzivikela ezifweni nasezingozini? Okuhlangenwe nakho kuzofika kancane kancane. Usuku nosuku uzothola ubuqili bokugeza nokushintsha izingubo, ukuzithokozisa ngokucophelela nokuzivocavoca, ukufunda ama-lullabies nemilolotelo, ukuqhuba ukukhwela nokuhamba ... Futhi uzoqonda emikhiqizweni yabantwana ethunyelwe ezitolo, futhi phakathi kwenani elikhulu uzothola into ehambisana ingane yakho. Futhi uthembele kuphela kokwazi kwabo, ukubonwa. Ngempela, ingane yakho ihlukile, ngokungafani nabanye! Ngakho, udinga indlela eyodwa kuphela.
Izifundo zokuqala
Emuva esibhedlela wena, Mama, waphawula ukuthi ingane izwela kanjani ukuthinta, kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba khona kwakho. Lapho ingane izwa izwi likamama, ukuphefumula, i-palpitation, iyancipha, iyancipha, ilalele. Ngokufanayo, ufunda imizwa yakhe ngesikhathi sokugqoka. Ukukhathazeka uma ususa ama-panties akhe, ukhalela, ngenkathi ujika uhlangothi. Futhi ngokushesha nje uma uqala ukusebenzisa ukhilimu noma amafutha, uphinde uvuselele futhi ujabulele ukuthinta kahle futhi kumnene. Isikhumba sezingane siwumqhubi oyinhloko wolwazi mayelana nezwe elizungeze abazali. Uma sewomile, ukhululekile, ufudumala, uyingcosana uyayiqonda: konke kulungile, izwe lisekela futhi liphephile. Kodwa ukungathandeki (izimbulunga ezimanzi, i-hypothermia noma ukushisa ngokweqile, umbhede ongakhululekile, okuhlangenwe nakho kanye nokwesaba komama) kubonisa ingozi. Ukulala okuncane kungase kuphule, isifiso singase sishabalale. I-Neonatologists ithi: izingane ezikhathazayo ziyingozi kakhulu ekutholeni isisindo ... Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu kusukela ngosuku lokuqala ukuhlinzeka ingane ngemibandela emihle, futhi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kubazali. Beka i-diaper yekhwalithi enikeza umuzwa owomile nokuhlanzeka, okujabulisayo kwizingubo zokuthinta.
Ngaphambi kwengqondo yomntwana
Ingane iyakhula. Kusuka esidalwa esingenalutho esingenakuzisiza kancane kancane siba umuntu ozimele. Usevele akwazi ukukhuluma ngezidingo zakhe, ukubiza unina. Futhi wena, ngenxa yokuxhumana okucashile nengane yakho, uzizwa okudingayo, uqaphele ngokucacile imisindo ayenzayo. Ukuhleka okunganeliseki? Ngakho, ufuna ukuhamba ngendlela encane. Ungaphenduki, uphendulela ikhanda lakhe, aphume futhi ahlasele? Ungakhathazeki uzivuselele ngokwakho. Usheshe ukumsiza. Ngakho-ke, silindela imiyalezo yakhe ejulile ngesifiso sokushintsha i-diaper, idle noma ifinyelele, uyamamukela: Ngiyakuqonda, konke kulungile. Ubuhlobo obunjalo phakathi kwabazali bezingane nabantwana bezingane babheka okuhle kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni kwengqondo yengane, isigaba sayo sengqondo-ngokomzwelo.
Ngibambe!
I-Karapuz yenza izinqwaba ezinkulu ekuthuthukiseni futhi zijabulisa abazali abahle, zibaluleke kakhulu kunabasebenzi abahle. Namuhla uzama nje ukufikela ithoyizi bese uphenduka emuva ngemuva kwesisu sakhe, futhi kusasa sekuvele kuzo zonke ezine. Awunaso isikhathi sokubuka emuva, ukuthi ungahlala kanjani, bese ukhaka! Ikhono lokuthutha lembula ngaphambi kwezingane ezingenakubalwa. Ufuna ukwazi isikhala esiseduze naye. Kusukela manje, ungambeka elele. Ngesikhathi sokuvuka, zama ukuqiniseka ukuthi akukho okuvimbela ukunyakaza kweziqu zakho. Sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha usayizi wezinwele. Qaphela kulabo abathinta kahle, musa ukuvuza futhi ungaphazamisi umsebenzi. Ngomntwana onjalo uyozizwa ekhululekile! Abazali kuphela okufanele bacabange: kusukela manje, ingane kufanele ibukwe eduze. Ukulondoloza igumbi lapho likhona khona: faka ama-plugs ezisekelweni, ususe endaweni yokufinyelela izinto ezincane, imithi, amakhemikhali omkhaya, ufake iPapa ngaphansi kwezingcingo zocingo. Futhi sicela, ungaboni amehlo akho ekungapheli kwakho. Akakaqapheli ingozi ebangwa izinto ezithile. Ngeshwa, ngenkathi "kungenzeki" kwakho kungasebenzi. Ngakho-ke, shintsha ukunaka kwakho, uphazamise futhi unike ngesandla izinto eziphephile kuphela.
Futhi ngaphakathi - isithuthuthu
Amandla wengane akwanele. Ngemva kokushaja, ukuhamba nabazali bakhe, bedansa egulini bese ephonsa amathoyizi, usekulungele ukuzithokozisa ngokuhleka okuningi. Kuhle! Kodwa ngenxa yeminye imvuthu, ukuzijabulisa okunjalo kunomthelela ekweqiseni. Ngokungazelelwe ucebise isimo sengqondo, ingane ingenangqondo, inganelisekile kuwo wonke umuntu ... Yini engalungile kuye? Kudingekile ukufundisa ingane ukuba ihambe phakathi kwezinkathi ezisebenzayo nezihambayo. Kulesi sigaba sokuthuthukiswa, izingxenye zobuchopho obhekene nokushintsha ukucabangela zishintsha. Ingane nje ayikwazi ukuyeka ngesikhathi. Ungalindeli ukuphenduka, futhi ushintshe ukuzijabulisa kwakho njalo ngemizuzu engu-15-20. Uke wavuka? Manje ungacabangela izincwadi. Ufunda? Sekuyisikhathi sokukhahlela.
Isinyathelo ngesinyathelo
Omunye uqala ukuhamba wedwa ezinyangeni ezingu-9-11. Ezinye izingane zifunda ukuhamba ngemva konyaka. Nokho, bonke bayajabula ngamakhono abo amasha. Bazama ukufunda ukugijima ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Njengomthetho, kule minyaka yobudala kukhona nemizamo yokuqala yokujwayela ingane ngebhodlela. Eqinisweni, omncane wakho othandekayo uye wathuthela esiteji esisha sokuthuthukiswa. Ngakho, sekuyisikhathi sokwenza ukuthenga - amathoyizi wekhwalithi, izinto. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha i-diaper ekhululekile kubasha futhi elula ukuyisebenzisa. Ukujwayela ingane embizeni kancane kancane: ake ngifunde into entsha, sebenzisa idonsa ukukhombisa ukuthi ungahlala kanjani kulo. Dumisani uma abaqhamuka bezokwenza ukwenza into yabo. Kodwa ungangiklolodisi uma kuyinkinga.
Kuze kube unyaka nonyaka, izingane azikwazi ukulawula inqubo yokuchama nokuhlenga ngaphandle kosizo lwabazali babo. Futhi abakwazi njalo ukubona isifiso sokuya endlini yangasese. Ikakhulukazi lapho kukhona umatasa othakazelisayo. Sitshala embizeni emva kwephupho, hamba, ngemizuzu engu-15-20 kusukela ngesikhathi uthatha uketshezi. Ingabe le kid ibuze? Umnichka! Msize, futhi uma efuna ukwenza konke yena-ake. Ngenxa yezinkinobho ezilula ingane ngaphandle kokubamba iqhaza kwakho ingasusa i-diaper bese ihlala ebhodweni. Akukho lutho oluvela kulo? Akunandaba! Into eyinhloko yukuthi ukubonisa okubonakalayo kuyithakazelo futhi ufunde ukulandelana kwezinyathelo. Okunye kuyindaba yesikhathi.