Yiziphi izinguquko ezithembisa izincwadi zokuphupha, uma uphupha ukuthi uthathe isikhwama sakho?
Ukuze uchaze ngokunembile incazelo yalesi simo esingokomfanekiso, kubalulekile ukucabangela amanye amaphuzu. Ngakho-ke, uma isikhwama sakho sebiwe ngumuntu ongaziwa, khona-ke empilweni yangempela, akunjalo uma kufanele ukhokhe imali yakho noma yimuphi omunye impahla (amathuluzi, izingubo, njll). Kukhona amathuba amakhulu ukuthi okuhle kwakho ngeke kubuyiselwe kuwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akufanelekile ukutshala izimali emiphakheni eyingozi noma engabaza, ukuzibandakanya ezenzweni eziphathelene nokukhokha imali. Ngemuva kwephupho elinjalo, amathuba okuba yisisulu sabakwa-scammers akhula kakhulu.
Uma isikhwama sebiwe ephusheni, ke lesi siqephu singaba yisixwayiso ngengozi ethile yokuhlala engenalutho ngenxa yokukholelwa kwabanye abantu. Iphupho lapho uqala ukuba khona isikhwama ngemali, kodwa emva kwesikhathi uyithola noma ukuyibuyisela kusho ukuthi maduze uzothola isipho esilinde isikhathi eside noma umvuzo ongalindelekile nhlobo. Kungenzeka ukuthi, impumelelo emkhakheni wezabasebenzi, ukukhuthazwa. Mhlawumbe, maduzane uzothola inhlanhla yemali kuyo yonke imisebenzi ehlobene nokuhweba.
Ukubamba i-pickpocket ibuye ihlulele ukuthuthukiswa kwenhlalakahle, izinzuzo. Ngalesi sikhathi, ungakwazi ukuthengisa kalula impahla ngentengo enhle noma uthenge okuthile okubalulekile. Ngendlela, akumangazi ukuthi emva kwephupho elinjalo uzothola ukuthi umuntu owamethemba kakhulu, isikhathi eside wakhohlisa. Kungenzeka ukuthi lesi yisihlobo sakho esiseduze noma ngisho nengxenye yesibili.
Kungani ngiphupha isikhwama engibibile?
Uma, ephusheni, wena ngokwakho uba yisigebengu futhi unqume ukwenza okuhle komunye umuntu, khona-ke lokhu kungachazwa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Okokuqala, le ndaba ikhuluma ngezifiso zakho: ufuna ngokweqile indlela elula futhi elula. Kungenzeka ukuthi maduzane ngenzuzo yakho ungakhohlisa noma ubeke endaweni. Okunye ukuhumusha kokuchazwa kwephupho kuchaza lo mphumela, njengenhlanhla ngokuzumayo, ungakwazi ukufeza kalula umgomo oyifunayo. Kodwa futhi, cishe, kuyoba ngenxa yobuqili noma umdlalo we-trust. Uma uphupha ukuthi ekuqaleni uthathe isikhwama, wabe esenqume ukubuya (okushoyo, unembeza uhlushwa), khona-ke lesi sithombe sibonisa ukuthengwa okungenzuzo kakhulu. Kungenzeka ukuthi indawo ethengiwe izokunika izinkinga nezinkinga eziningi.
Kungaphetha ngokuthi uma utshontshe isikhwama esiphusheni, khona-ke ekuphileni kwangempela ungalindela izinkinga zemali. Kodwa, ngokuqhubeka nokunye ukuhumusha, kuyacaca ukuthi ukwethemba kwethu nomusa ngokuvamile kuyisizathu salolu bunzima. Inhlanhla nemali wena amaphupho!