Kuvela ukuthi indoda engumzuzu wokuqala owaziwa nommeleli wobulili obuhlukile yena ngokwakhe uyazi ukuthi uyakuthanda kangakanani noma cha. Ngakho-ke kuyinhlobo yemvelo (ngokoqobo ngokomzimba). Amaqiniso angokwengqondo ukuthi noma yimuphi umuntu ocabanga ukuthi umphathi wakhe ungowesifazane, uzizwa engakhululekile kakhulu.
Ngakho-ke, amadoda aqale ngokucophelela imikhuba kanye nezimfanelo zobuchwepheshe bompheki wesifazane, futhi kuphela lapho bezovuma ukulandela izimiso nemithetho yayo. Ngakho-ke - uma ufuna ukunqoba indawo engaphansi, akufanele usebenzise kabi amandla akho kuqala. Udinga ukuziphatha nabantu abancane njengabangane bakho futhi ungabonakali ngokuphakama kwakho ngokucacile. Futhi, yiqiniso, zibuke ngokwakho futhi ubuke owesifazane. Ungakhohlwa ukuba ngezinye izikhathi uqoqe (uyathethelelwa) futhi ulalele abathandekayo bakho.
Kodwa kuthiwani uma isimo sakho sihlukile kakhulu? Ungowesifazane futhi awukwazi ukuziphatha nomphathi wesilisa?
Khumbula ukuthi noma yimuphi umphathi uhlale ehaqwe ngabesifazane. Abaningi besifazane babelana ngothando nomphathi wabo. Kodwa singakukwazisa ukuthi ungaqhubeki phambili. Ungagqoki ama-blouses omsebenzi nge-neckline ejulile nezinsizakalo-kungenza u-boss akhathazeke. Zama ukuthi ungamcindezeli ngezinkinga zakho - emva kwakho konke, umphathi unenkathazo eminingi. Khumbula ukuthi u-boss uzozigwema ngokucophelela uma ucela noma yini (ukuthuthukisa ikhompyutha yakho, ukunikeza ukushicilela okusha, njll). Zama ukuxazulula izinkinga ezinjalo namaphini akhe.
Kodwa uma unikeza ukunakekelwa kwabesifazane abavamile - "Uke ubambe umkhuhlane?", "Ubheka ukhathele ..." - uzofumbathisa noma yikuphi umphathi. Msize athole ku-intanethi ngakho kuyadingeka kuye ifoni noma unike iphilisi ekhanda - futhi uzonikeza umculi insizakalo ebalulekile.
Futhi, mema umphathi wezinkampani ezincane noma "i-mezhdusoboychiki." Khumbula - u-boss wakho uyena oyedwa futhi uyothokozeka ngakho, noma ngabe uya kuphela isigamu sehora.
UKsenia Ivanova , ikakhulukazi indawo