Kungani kusesha ingxenye yesibili umgomo wokuphila kwethu konke? Ungayithola kanjani uthando lokuphila kwakho konke? Sesha noma uhlale nje ulinde? Sesha, ubukeka ebusweni bendoda yonke bese ubuza ukuthi uyisiphetho sami - kuyisiphukuphuku. Akazi ukuthi uyisiphetho sakho noma owesifazane oza emhlanganweni wakho. Akawazi nokuthi ungubani, ngubani okuphethwe nguye.
Ngithanda umfanekiso owodwa wesiGreki mayelana nokuthi abantu bebengewona okwamanje. Futhi babe nezingalo ezine, imilenze emine, ubuso ababili nezibonakaliso zombili zobulili, okungukuthi, kwakukhona owesifazane nendoda, babexhunyiwe, beyodwa. Ngakho-ke, babe namandla, futhi behlala njalo, behlakaniphile. Babekwazi ukuzikhiqiza ngokwabo.
Lokhu akuzange kumjabulise onkulunkulu, bese uZeus anquma ukuwaqeda. Ngombani owodwa, wahlukanisa lezi zidalwa ezinjengabantu futhi wahlakazeka eMhlabeni. Futhi manje kumele sizungeze umhlaba wonke futhi sibheke amanye ama-halves ethu, sibheke singenazi. Ngokushesha isigamu sesibili sizoqiniseka , kodwa endleleni eya kule ngxenye sibhekana nobuhlungu obukhulu, intukuthelo, zingaki izinyembezi esizichithayo, zingaki ukuphutha, ukucabanga ngesigamu somunye umuntu, lapha! Uyingxenye yami. Futhi yena, kuvela, futhi uyamfuna, umngane wakhe womshado, futhi, ukukhubeka phezu kwakho, kwakuvele iphutha, nje kuphela. Futhi wenza iphutha, ubuhlungu buhlaba inhliziyo yakho, inhliziyo yakho iphuka emagumbini bese iphuka njengemifanekiso encane yokugqoka.
Wonke umuntu uzalwa futhi ukhula ukuze athole umphefumulo wakhe womlingani futhi anikeze konke ukuphila kwakhe okuyigugu kulo mgomo, uhambahamba emhlabeni wonke afune umphefumulo wakhe. Ngomuntu ngamunye, lo mgomo uthatha indawo ethile empilweni. Kumuntu okuyinhloko, nakomunye umuntu wesibili. Ngisho noma umuntu ephika konke, futhi uthi konke lokho kuyize, usalindela ekujuleni komphefumulo wakhe ukuthola uthando lwempilo yonke ngesimangaliso. Kuzo zonke izimpilo zethu esizifunayo, sizulazula ekufuneni okungaziwa, njengale ndaba yezinganekwane "ngithole lokho, angazi ukuthi ungenzeleni, angikhiphe lokho, angazi ukuthi yini."
Futhi wazi kanjani ukuthi nguye odingekayo? Uyazi kanjani ukuthi enye ingxenye yafunyanwa? Mhlawumbe kunokwanele ukuthola umuntu ongakwazi ukuhlanganisa ukuphila nezibopho zesitembu epasipoti yakho futhi ubelethe izingane, qala izinkukhu futhi utshale izaqathe? Mhlawumbe lokhu yingxenye esilungele ukucinga impilo. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, abantu bayashada futhi bahlukanise, uma kungenjalo ngisho nezinyanga ezimbalwa, kodwa eminyakeni embalwa. Bakhuluma amazwi esifungo, ukuthi ngizobe siseduze ngokudabukisayo, futhi ngenjabulo, kuze kube sekufeni ukusihlukanisa nathi. Eqinisweni, lawa angamazwi nje awakhona abe ngcwele, kodwa manje angamazwi nje, kuyisiko.
Indoda inikeza isandla sayo nenhliziyo, futhi emva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa eshiya omunye owesifazane, noma uvele uhambe ngaphandle kokuchaza noma yini, ukuthatha kokubili nokuthatha inhliziyo yakho. Noma owesifazane ogcina indawo, ubalekela kumyeni wakhe, noma uvele eshiya, ethi ukhathele yizinto zonke, esephukile inhliziyo yakhe nazo zonke amapuleti endlini. Ungayithukuthela kanjani umuntu omkhethile? Phela, wathi: "Yebo, ngiyavuma." Akekho owakucindezela. Futhi ngaphambi komshado, awuzange uhlangane nalolo suku, hhayi ezimbili. Abantu ngaphambi komshado bahlangana iminyaka eminingi, baqala ukuhlala ndawonye, sebevele bazi kangcono kunabo ngokwabo. Ngakho-ke kungani lesi sifungo futhi sinqamule ukuhlukana kwepasipoti isikhathi eside?
Kungenzeka ukuthi ayikho imishado engaphumeleli. Ukushiya umndeni esasifuna kangcono kunalokho esinakho. Phela, umuntu uhlelwe kahle kangangokuthi akanayo njalo lokho anakho, bese isaga esithi "ukuhaha kwe-fraera" kubangelwa. Futhi sebelahlekile kakade bekhala, kodwa bayobuya, ukuziqhenya akuvumeli. Ukuziqhenya kungumqondo onamandla wokuzihlonipha, futhi sithatha isinyathelo ngokumelene nokuqhosha ngaphansi kwesithunzi sethu. Okunamandla kakhulu umqondo wokuzihlonipha kithi, ukuphakama kwempande yethu ephakanyisiwe, futhi lapho singaboni ukuthi kwenzekani ngezansi ekhaleni lethu. Futhi ngaphansi kwekhala lethu liyingxenye yesibili emadolweni akhe ngezimbali zama roses futhi ngezinyembezi emehlweni akhe ufuna ukubuyela, kodwa asiboni. I-ego ebuhlungu ivala amehlo ethu, futhi siyeka ukubona ukuthi yini futhi siqala ukubona okuphambene. Ngenxa yalesi sizwa, zonke izihlobo ziyahlukana, futhi asivumeli ukuba sibuyele okuthandekayo kithi, futhi ngenxa yalokho sikholelwa ukuthi senze ukukhetha okungalungile ukuthi lo muntu akawona wonke umgomo wokuphila kwethu konke. Igama elilodwa, ibinzana elilodwa lingalimaza ukuziqhenya kwethu, futhi isikhalazo esibangelwa ukuzethemba kwethu singaphazamisa konke esikuqaphele ngakho futhi sikugcine.
Futhi, uma uqaphela ukuthi zonke izikhalazo zikhohliwe, umuntu akufanele acabange ukuthi akekho umgwaqo emuva. Umgwaqo emuva njalo ukhona, kanye phambili. Emva kwakho konke, lapho uhamba emgwaqweni ohlangothini lomgwaqo, i-pavement ngemuva kwakho ayifuni futhi ayanyamalala. Ungaphenduka nganoma isiphi isikhathi uphindele emuva. Abantu abancane nje, abakhuthaza futhi beziduduza ngokwabo, beza nale nkulumo: "ayikho indlela emuva". Umgwaqo uhlale ukhona, futhi emuva nangemuva futhi kwesokunxele nangakwesokudla kanye neqembu lonke lezinkomba okudingeka ukhethe kuphela. Ekuphileni, umgwaqo uhlala khona, udinga nje ukufunda ukuthi ungaphenduka kanjani uma udinga.
Futhi-ke, uma ubuya, ungabuye uphinde uthole ingxenye yesibili, owashiya kamuva noma esidlule. Kudingeka sifunde ukuthi singasho kanjani futhi sizwe izwi elithi "ukuthethelela" futhi. Ukuze bahlangane - ingabe lokhu kuyimfihlo yobuhlobo obuhle?