Ngokuvamile, ukukhuluma nabantu, bekuqaphele ukungaqiniseki. Ukumomotheka kugxilile, isihloko sezingxoxo asinalutho, ukubukeka akunalutho, ukunyakaza nokuzibonakalisa akuyona yemvelo. Noma, ukukhulumisana okusebenzayo kuholela ekuvumelaneni nokuthembela, emva kwalokho ubonisa imininingwane embalwa yemfihlo yakho, bese uyothola ukuthi imfihlo yakho akuyona eyakho kuphela. Uyazi kakade, futhi ngendlela ephikisiwe kakhulu. Ngemuva kokuxoxisana nabanye, asizuzi ngcono, sixoxisana nokushiyeka kwabanye, asikhiphi okwethu. Namuhla ngifuna ukudibanisa, futhi ukuphinda kuwumkhuba wokuziphatha, noma ukuhlenga okunye okufanelekile ?
Ngezinye izikhathi kuyathakazelisa kimi, yini indoda enjalo ecabanga, ehleka kimi ebusweni. Kuyangihlasela kubantu ukuthi izinga elihle ngemuva komunye umuntu lisho amathrekhi. Kungani ungamtsheli lo muntu ngokwakhe? Noma uyini umehluko, uhlobo luni lomuntu? Ngempela, bonke abantu emhlabeni abaphelele, bonke banezinye izinkinga zabo, ezigcwele izimfanelo ezinhle. Kungani konke lokhu okuphindiwe? Noma mhlawumbe ukuphindaphindiwe kuye kwaba yinto evamile yokuziphatha ? Noma i- triplicity ibaluleke nakakhulu ? Ngingabiza u-trinity ngokuphindaphindiwe. Laba bantu abanobuso obunjalo ngezikhathi zonke, noma imaski. Futhi la maski iyinqwaba.
Ukuqamba amanga kungamanga, ubuzenzisi, ubuqili, ukuphindaphindiwe, ukungathembeki, kanye neqembu lamazwi okungajabulisi. Ngeke ngiphikise ukuthi ngamunye wethu ubhekene nobuso ababili. Singasho ukuthi bonke abantu emhlabeni babhekene nobuso ababili, okungukuthi, baqamba amanga kwabanye. Akulula yini ukugqoka ubuso bakho, hhayi imaski yomunye umuntu? Ngemva kokuzenza sengathi ungumuntu ohlukile, ekugcineni sikhohlwe ukuthi sibheka kanjani ngempela. Futhi labo abaseduze nathi abazi nathi nhlobo. Ngezinye izikhathi siyaqiniseka ukuthi "nooo, angigqoki imaski, angibhekene nobuso ababili, ngingumuntu wemvelo futhi angizange ngifane." Noma mhlawumbe usuvele ukhohliwe ukuthi ungubani ngempela? Ingabe asizithandi ngempela, ukuthi sesaba abanye ukukhombisa ubuso bethu? Noma ingabe sesaba ukuthi abanye bazosizwisa ubuhlungu, ubunqunu bethu? Kodwa nsuku zonke sithola izingxabano kusukela ekufeni kanye nabantu futhi sifihle ubuhlungu, sidonsela ukumomotheka ebusweni bakhe. Akukona lokhu okuphindiwe? Kungani ungabonisi abantu ukuthi kukulimaza, futhi ungabonisi ukungakhathaleli, njengokungathi akukho okwenzekile? Ukuthembeka ngokweqile kuyasabeka lapho kukhona abantu abaningi abangathembeki abaseduze nawe. Mhlawumbe, yisikhathi sokuba sonke sishintshe kancane ukuze sibe ngcono?
Nginentombi eyodwa engabalwa amadoda kubantu. Uma nje engababizi ngokuthi: izidalwa, izidalwa ezingafanele mina, futhi ngokujwayelekile ukuqoshwa kwabesifazane nesikhathi, ukungcola, njll, njll. Nakuba enamanxusa amaningi, uyazi ukuthi angadlala ngothando nangothando, uyakwenza ngobuciko kangangokuthi uhlala emangele. Uyamomotheka ngokumnandi futhi enamahloni ebusweni, futhi lapho engekho inkampani yesilisa esiseduze, ubahlazisa kakhulu kangangokuthi ngisho ngigula ... cha, ngokuqinisekile angasho futhi ebusweni ukuthi, kodwa kuphela uma lo muntu engakabi khona okudingekayo. Kuyinto engavamile, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ivulekile futhi ivulekile, njengencwadi evulekile efana nombhalo olula okulula ukufunda, kodwa kunzima ukuyiqonda.
Uyazi ukuthi abesifazane bangabangani, bayakwazisa futhi bayabahlonipha. Ngeke neze anikeze intukuthelo. Ungumuntu omuhle kakhulu, futhi mhlawumbe uma ethandana, uzoshintsha kancane futhi ayeke ukuba enonya kakhulu kubantu, kodwa ukwehla kokuphindaphindiwe kuyo kuyohlale kukhona, njengathi sonke, uma kungenjalo ngokuphathelene nabathandekayo bakhe, ngakho-ke kubantu abakuzungezile, uzohlala elele kancane futhi enze sengathi sonke. Ufana nenja, owacabanga ukuthi ingonyama enomlomo omkhulu. Ngempela, umlomo unomdlandla omkhulu, kuphela umlomo wemibono, oyanelisayo ngokuhlakanipha ngosizo lwamadoda, ngokuphindaphindiwe enikeza ukumomotheka kwakhe okumangalisayo okubangela umona phakathi kwamantombazane amaningi azungezile.
Ngifuna ukusho ukuthi sivame ukusola abantu ngokuthi babhekane nobuso ababili. Futhi thina? Asifani na? Asifihli yini ingxenye yehola kumyeni ngezinkokhelo zethu, kodwa nokho ukulawula ukunqanda ucezu oluthile emalini akhe? Asimthandi yini ukumnika umuntu ukumomotheka okumnandi nokumthuka ngengqondo. Njengoba sibheke kubo, kunjalo nakithi. Ngokuvamile, ke ekuphileni konke kuyimvelo. Ukukhohlwa mayelana nokungalungi kwawo, siqala ukuxoxa ngezimo zezinxenye zethu ezithandekayo. Kodwa awuzange ucabange ngokumba ngaphakathi kwakho, thola lezi zinsalela ukuzilungisa, futhi mhlawumbe indoda yakho izokwenza okufanayo kuwe.
Kukhona inkulumo enhle "musa ukwahlulela, futhi ningahlulelwa". Kodwa ngubani thina okufanele sihlulele omunye umuntu. Sonke silingana phambi kukaNkulunkulu futhi sonke singenza amaphutha futhi sibe amaphutha. NguNkulunkulu kuphela ongahlulela umuntu ngenxa yezono zakhe. Futhi ukungalungi kuyikhwalithi yabantu, akufanele bahlulelwe. UNkulunkulu uqobo wasidala ngokungapheleli. Uma uNkulunkulu engasihluleli ngenxa yabo, yikuphi ilungelo esinalo lokukwahlulela amaphutha?
Isibonelo, uma umuntu efa engakuthandi kakhulu, noma engathandi neze, ngeke ujabule emngcwabeni wakhe! Kuphela ngenxa yokuhlonipha oshonile nezihlobo ezibuhlungu, uvumela izinyembezi - akuzona lokhu okubizwa ngokuthi okuphindiwe. Kodwa lokhu okuphindiwe kuhle. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ukuzenzisa. Futhi emva kwesibonelo esinjalo, singasho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi ukuphinda kube yinto evamile yokuziphatha, lokhu kuyisici somlingiswa. Futhi uma umuntu engenayo le mfanelo, umphakathi ngeke umthathe kalula.