Amadoda adinga ukwazi into ebaluleke kakhulu - okuzobangela ukutuswa futhi kukhunjulwe isikhathi eside ngumfazi othandekayo. Uzochithaphi lolo suku oluhle kakhulu, nokuthi ungaluhlela kanjani? Njengomthetho, abesifazane abaningi bathanda uthando. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ngosuku lokuthandana ukuthi akudingeki ukuba afane nokujwayelekile. Ukuthandana ngokuzenzekelayo kwezenzo kubalulekile. Kubonakala sengathi uma unomuntu othandekayo futhi usulungele ukuzijabulisa, unomoya we-adventure, khona-ke unikezwa isikhathi esithile esithakazelisayo nesingakhohlwa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kanjani. Kodwa uma kuziwa ezenzweni ezinqumayo, okungukuthi ukukhetha indawo yomhlangano kanye neskripthi salo, konke kuphelela ekukhethweni kwe-banal, njenge-cafe, i-movie, ipaki noma i-disco.
Njengomthetho, imihlangano enjalo ishesha ukukhukhuma futhi ibe yinto evamile, kodwa uma usondela ngalolu suku ngephupho, khona-ke, into ethakazelisayo ingavela. I-Cafe, lapho uhamba khona njalo, njengokukhetha akuhambisani. Ukuqokwa ngokomzimba, ngokusho kwalowo wesifazane, kufanele kwenzeke endaweni yokudlela enokunethezeka nokudla okuhle, lapho kuyoba khona umculo omnandi nowokuthula. Ezweni lanamuhla kunezinhlobonhlobo zokudla zokudlela ezihlukahlukene nazo zonke izinhlobo zokudla emhlabeni. Indawo yokudlela ene-Italian noma yaseFrance izokuba yindawo ekahle yosuku oluhle, ngokusho kwabesifazane. Ukukhetha indawo yokudlela engcono kunazo zonke edolobheni, ungakwazi ukunambitha izitsha ezizokulungisela inkosi yomsebenzi wakhe. Usuku olunjalo lwabesifazane ngeke lubaleke. Kodwa umhlangano, ngokusho kwabesifazane, ungaba nomusa futhi ube nemvelo ehlelekile ekhaya.
Ungagqoka umngane wakho othandekayo ngengubo efudumele, uhlale kahle embhedeni ngendebe yento ethile eshisayo noma ngesilazi sewayini bese ukhuluma ngenhliziyo ngenhliziyo. Ngale ndlela ungahlanganyela izimfihlakalo namaphupho afihliwe, futhi usebenzise izikhathi ezijabulisayo ekuphileni kwakho. Ungaphinde uhambe ngosuku oluthile lweqembu letiye, lapho isimo sokuphumula sizokusondeza khona, futhi uzoba nokuthula kwengqondo nokuthula. Ngisho nokuhamba epaki kungenziwa kumnandi futhi kungavamile. Uma uthanda ukuchitha isikhathi ngaphandle, futhi sekuyisikhathi eside ufisa ukufunda ukugibela ihhashi, ukugibela ihhashi nomuntu othandekayo kuyoba usuku oluhle.
Ngosuku olunjalo, uzokhohlwa ngezinkathazo zansuku zonke futhi uzibandakanye ngokuphelele ekukhulumisaneni nemvelo. Zizwe ukhululekile futhi ujabule, inyoni ekhuphuka emafwini. Kwabesifazane abathanda ukuphumula okusebenzayo futhi abajwayele amakilabhu asebusuku, ukuvakasha okunye ku-club kungakulibaleki. Okokuqala, ungadlala i-bowling noma ibhilidididi, bese ugibela i-limousine yama-chic azungeze idolobha, eligcwele izibani zobusuku. Cabanga nje, unezibuko ze-champagne, uhamba ushayela edolobheni elilele. Lolu suku oluyingqayizivele ngeke luvuselele kuphela, kodwa luzohlala lubala endaweni enkumbulo yakho.
Eqinisweni, kuwo wonke owesifazane akubalulekile kakhulu, lapho uchitha khona usuku. Kuyoba khona lokhu noma indawo yokudlela ebiza kakhulu, noma i-cafe encane ekhoneni, ukuya esibhayisikobho se-movie owubonile izikhathi eziningana, kodwa oyithandayo, noma upake ngaphandle kwewindi. Into eyinhloko ukuthi kukhona umuntu oseduze naye ozoyizungezile ngothando nangothando futhi umhlangano ngamunye nomuntu onjalo uzohlala enkumbulweni isikhathi eside.