Umndeni omangalisayo owakulindelwe isikhathi eside Unyaka Omusha ngeke ube yize ungakhohlwa, ushiya imizwa emihle kuphela, imizwelo nokuphepha, uma unamathela eminye yemithetho elandelayo. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukutshela umyeni wakho ukuthi sigubha uNyaka Omusha nezingane, futhi akeke ahlele ukuhlwa kweminye imihlangano.
Ukungahloniphi, isimo sengqondo sokungaboni ngaso leso senzakalo esibalulekile singakha isimo sengqondo esingalungile kumntwana wakho ngesithombe somntanakho. Kungcono ukukhombisa ukubaluleka kweholidi lomndeni kusukela ebuntwaneni ngokuligubha ndawonye. Ngakho-ke, ingane yakho iyoba nombono omuhle hhayi kuphela ngeholide ngokwalo, kodwa futhi mayelana nawe. Umlingo woNyaka KaNcibijane uzoba omkhulu kakhulu uma abazali bethi kubo bonke abasondelene nabo: "Sigubha unyaka omusha nazo zonke izihlobo zethu futhi nakanjani nezingane." Izingane zakho zizokujabulela nje lokho okunikezwayo. Ngempela, eholidini lakho ozithandayo ngeke kube abangane kuphela, kodwa futhi othandekayo kakhulu enhliziyweni, abantu abaseduze - abazali.
I-herringbone eluhlaza . Thatha wena umthetho wezwi esihlangana nabo nezingane kanye nesihlahla esibukhoma sikaKhisimusi lo nyaka omangalisayo omangalisayo. Phela, ngisho nesihlahla esikhulu sikaKhisimusi esiphezulu kakhulu, esingenakukwazi ukushintsha indawo engokoqobo, ephilayo, eluhlaza, enomnandi. Kungcono ukuthakazelisa ingane yakho ngesihlahla esibukhoma. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukuthenga lesi sihlahla akulona ukugcinwa kwesiko okulula. Phela, iphunga le-spruce lingakha ukuzwa kwangasese emntwaneni wakho. Akumangalisi ukuthi ezindabeni eziningi zezinganekwane ezinjalo njengeziqhawe njengeSanta Claus noma iSanta Claus, ziphoqelekile ukuba zivakashele amakhaya abo, lapho kuphila khona isihlahla sase-spruce kuphela.
Ukulala kahle . Ngokungangabazeki, kulula kumuntu omdala ukuthi akhuthazelele u-Eva Wonyaka Omusha ongalaleli, ongenakusho ngezingane ezincane. Ngakho-ke, kungcono uma uvumela ingane yakho ukuba ilele ntambama. Ukuze ukwazi ukunikeza ingane, mhlawumbe ukulala kosuku okungavamile kuye, ungakwazi nje ukulala naye eceleni, ngenkathi ukwenza kucace ukuthi uzophinde uhlale naye. Kuyini? Yebo, ukuze ingane yakho ingabi nongqondo futhi ihambe nawe ngokuzithandela. Phela, izingane ezincane zisetshenziselwa ukulingisa abazali bazo. Kuyafaneleka futhi ukumchazela isizathu sokuphupha okungavamile ngaye.
Ikhalenda ngokwakho . Noma yikuphi izingane ezizithandayo uma abazali bazo bebazungezile. Ngakho baqala ukuzizwa bebaluleke kakhulu amalungu omndeni. Isikhathi esithile ngaphambi konyaka omusha, cishe amasonto amabili, ungenza amakhalenda angavamile wena. Into enjalo ayikwazi ukukhumbuza ingane kuphela indlela yokuNyaka KaNcibijane, kodwa futhi iba yisimo esibophezelayo sosuku, uma usondela kuso kusukela ohlangothini lokudala, oluthakazelisayo. Ngalokho, ngokwesibonelo, ukukhulisa ingane yakho ekudleni okunomsoco kakhulu, ungajwayelekile ukusetshenziswa kwakhe ngekhalenda. Ekupheleni kosuku kuvunyelwe ukuba badle ingxenye ethile yamaswidi, okunye okuyobe kunamathele ngosuku lwansuku zonke kusukela kusihlokwana esenziwe ngokuzenzela. Ingane izolinda isikhathi esithile, oyobe ucacise kwikhalenda, njengendlela ekhethiwe yosuku. Indlela efanayo ingasetshenziswa ukufundisa ingane ukufunda izinkondlo ekupheleni kosuku, ukudweba noma ukucula nokunye.
Sidlala ndawonye . Akudingekile ukuba umzali akwazi ukubhekana naso sonke isimo semidlalo ezayo ngo-Eva Wonyaka Omusha. Phela, ingane yakho izothola imibono embalwa, imibono ngokudala i-game yakhe eyingqayizivele, ezithakazelisayo. Yebo, futhi isisombululo esihlangene sezinkinga "ezinjalo" sizokuvala kakhulu, mhlawumbe ngisho kukusize wazi kangcono. Ingane yakho izojabula kakhulu, ijabule, iyathakazelisa ukuchitha isikhathi nawe, ngoba uyamethemba ibhizinisi elibalulekile. Ngisho noma kufanele uhlanze ngemuva kwakhe, akufanele ucabange ngisho nokumtshela. Ngendlela yokuhlanza, akudingeki uqale ukuhlanza jikelele, ukuhlanza okukhulu ebusuku, kuzothatha isikhathi sakho sonke. Kungcono ukuletha indlu ngokulandelana kusengaphambili, usuku ngakho-ke kokubili.
Sithombeni sonke ndawonye . Akunakwenzeka ukuba ucabange noma yiliphi iholidi ngaphandle kwesithombe esihlangene. Ungakwazi nje ukuhlela iseshini yesithombe somndeni, lapho wonke umuntu azobe esithombeni kokubili futhi abe ndawonye. Izithombe ezinjalo zinganikeza ithuba lokukhumbula amaholidi ahambe, angakhohlwa, aphelile. Futhi vele ube yinto enhle ehlathini engaphakathi lakho. Izithombe nazo ziyakwazi ukuphazamisa noma yimuphi umuntu kusukela ekuxabaneni konyaka omusha, okungeke kube khona.
Izimpendulo ezinzima . Izingane, njengombuso, ziyakhathazeka kakhulu ngaphambi kwamaholide amakhulu, okungaba yisithintelo enkonzweni yokulungiselela itafula lonyaka omusha. Ukukhipha lesi sici esingathandeki, ungaba nezibopho ezingathí sina kumntanakho. Kungaba umhlobiso wesihlahla sonyaka omusha, kanye nezinye izihlobo, izingane noma ubaba, kudingeka nje ukuthenga amathoyizi aphephile futhi aphephile. Noma cela ingane ukuthi ibeke izinto ngendlela efanele ekamelweni, lapho okudingeka ubeke khona kahle emashalofini. Ukuthi ingane ingakwazi ukubhekana ngokuphumelelayo nalesi sabelo, kungenzeka ukubiza usizo noma yimuphi umuntu omdala. Ungakwazi ngalesi sikhathi uhlale ukhululekile ukukwenza isidlo sakusihlwa sonyaka omusha. Kodwa ungakhohlwa futhi ukuthi awudingi ukumangaza ingane, ngoba umphathise indaba ebalulekile, ngisho noma ebhekana nayo ayiphumelelanga.
Ukunakwa etafuleni . Ngokungangabazeki, ingane izodinga iso kanye neliso ekwamukelweni kokudla. Ukuxhumana nezinye izivakashi, ungayigcina futhi ungaboni ukuthi ingane ingadla kanjani okumnandi noma engavunyelwe yona (ngokubheka noma yikuphi ukungezwani komzimba). Lapho umntwana esencane, awukwazi ukubona ukuthi udonsa kanjani inkukhu noma inhlanzi evela etafuleni bese ewashaya ngengozi. Ngabantwana kungcono ukuzama ukungaphuzi utshwala obuningi, ungahle ulahlekelwe ukuzilawula wena nomntanakho. Uma kwenzeka, ungacela othile ochungechungeni lwezimenywa zokuhlala ukuba anakekele ingane.
Injabulo kuNyaka Omusha kuwe nabantwana bakho.