Kuwuphawu lokuthanda nokuthembeka okuphakade. Ukwenza ngokunikela kwesandla nenhliziyo kuyisiko endala. Yiqiniso, lokhu kungu- indandatho yokubandakanya, umlando wayo ovela esidlule kude ...
Indandatho yomshado ibonisa umshado emazweni amaningi, kungakhathaliseki indlela yokuphila, ingqondo nokucabanga. Imvelaphi yalesi siko, noma kunjalo, ayiqondi kahle. Ngokusho kwemithombo ethile, ivela eGibhithe lasendulo, lapho umshado wawungeyona nje indlela yokuziphatha. Indima yomndeni inendawo ebalulekile emphakathini waseGibhithe emakhulwini eminyaka yasendulo, nasezinsukwini zethu. Ngokuvumelana nezinkolelo zaseGibhithe, indandatho yomshado yayifanekisela uthando olungapheli nokuhlangana okuphakade phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. EGibhithe, kwakukholelwa ukuthi indandatho kufanele igqoke ngomunwe wesandla sobunxele, ngoba ivela khona lapho "i-vein of love" ifaka khona. Eqinisweni, leli yigama lomugqa ogijima kusukela emineni kuze kube entendeni yesandla kwisayensi eyathuthukiswa kamuva yesigqila - umugqa wothando.
Umlando wokubukeka kwesiko lobuKristu wokugqoka izindandatho zokuzibandakanya ibuyele ekhulwini le-16. Ngaphambi kwalokhu, ukugqoka kwabo kwakungavunyelwe, nakuba kwakungokomthetho. Izindandatho zazigqoke kunoma iyiphi iminwe yanoma yisiphi isandla, njenganoma imuphi omunye umhlobiso. Futhi kusukela ngekhulu le-16 kwaba yisiko esibalulekile esingagxiliwe ukugqoka indandatho yokuzibandakanya eminwe yesandla sokunene. Futhi manje i-classic yokubandakanya indandatho igqoke ngomunwe. I-Orthodox - ngakwesokudla, namaKatolika - ngakwesokunxele.
Ekuqaleni kwesikhathi, izindandatho zomshado zenziwe ngezinto ezahlukene. AbaseGibithe basebenzise lesi sikhumba, isikhumba, izindlovu zendlovu, njll. AmaRoma ayegqoka izindandatho zensimbi, ezifanekisela amandla nokukhuthazela. Babizwa ngokuthi "indandatho yamandla". Kancane kancane, abaculi baqala ukwenza amasongo egolide, okwenza ukuba kube umhlobiso wangempela nomsebenzi wobuciko. Isikhathi esiyinhloko ekukhetheni indandatho kwakuyinani lalo. Okubiza kakhulu - kuphakama isimo somakoti nomkhwenyana. KwababaseRoma, izindandatho zomshado zaziwuphawu lwempahla, ngaphandle kwesimiso esivamile futhi esinengqondo sothando. Isiko sasimiswe amaGreki asendulo. Izindandatho zabo zomshado zazenziwe ngensimbi, kodwa abantu abacebile babengakwazi ukuthenga izindandatho ezenziwe ngethusi, isiliva noma igolide.
EMpumalanga Ephakathi, futhi, uphawu oluyinhloko lomshado phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane lwabhekwa njengendandatho yokuzibandakanya, umlando ososayensi ababukeka ngayo nabo banesithakazelo. Ekuqaleni, izindandatho zomshado zaziyizinsimbi zegolide, izingxenye zazo ezaxhunyiwe futhi zakha umbuthano. Indandatho eMpumalanga ibonisa ukuthobeka nokubekezela. Umkhuba uhlanganisa abafazi ukuba bagqoke amasongo njengendlela yokubonisa ukwethembeka komuntu oyedwa. Ngemva kohambo olude, lapho umyeni wakhe ebuyela ekhaya, ngokushesha wagijimela ukuyobona ukuthi indandatho yayiyindawo. Lokhu kwakuwuphawu lokuzinikela nokuthembeka.
Ngezikhathi Eziphakathi, isidingo sokunikeza amacici okubandakanya ngamarabi, ashiswa ngophawu olubomvu lwothando phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Ama-sapphire, izimpawu zokuphila okusha, nawo ayethandwa kakhulu. E-England, kwakhiwa isakhiwo esiyingqayizivele esisodwa sendandatho yomshado. Leli ring limelela izandla ezimbili ezihlangene nezinhliziyo ezimbili ezinomqhele ngaphezu kwazo. Umqhele wawuwuphawu lokubuyisana, uthando nobungane phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, ukwethembeka nobuqotho phakathi kwabo.
AmaNtaliyane aqala ukwenza izindandatho zesiliva, ezihlotshiswe ngemidwebo eminingi kanye ne-koqweqwe elimnyama. Esikhathini esidlule saseVenice, izindandatho zomshado ngokuvamile kwakudingeka zibe okungenani idayimane elilodwa. Kukholelwa ukuthi amadayimane ayimatshe emilingo eyenziwa ngomlilo wothando. Ziyinkimbinkimbi kunabo bonke amatshe ayigugu futhi uphawu lwamandla, ukuqina, ukuzinza ubuhlobo, uthando nokuzinikela okuphakade. Kwakungavamile kakhulu, kubiza futhi kungabizi kakhulu kuphela kubacebile. Ngakho-ke, ukusetshenziswa kwezindandatho zamadayimani ezithintekayo kwaqiniswa ngekhulu le-19. Kwabe sekutholakala idijithi enkulu yedayimani eNingizimu Melika. Ngokushesha, amadayimane athola abantu abaningi. Kodwa-ke, eNgilandi, amadayimane ayevame ukusetshenziswa njengemihlobiso yokufaka izindandatho.
Kwamanye amazwe, njengokuthi, eBrazil naseJalimane, kokubili amadoda nabesifazane bangakwazi ukugqoka indandatho yokuzibandakanya. Ngo-860, uPapa uNicholas I wakhipha umyalo wokuthi indandatho yomshado yaqinisekiswa ngokomthetho. Ukufunwa kwakunye kuphela: indandatho yokubandakanya kufanele ibe yigolide. Ngakho izinsimbi eziyisisekelo ayisekho emasongweni omshado.
Njengamanje, ekwakheni izindandatho zokuzibandakanya, njengokubusa, isiliva, igolide noma i-platinum, idayimane noma ama-saphir, ama-emerald, ama-rubies namatshe ayigugu, ahambisana nezibonakaliso ze-zodiac, asetshenziswa. Sekukhona kakade amazinga ahlanzekile futhi aqinile ekukhiqizeni izindandatho zomshado.
Kukhona inkolelo, noma kunjalo, ukuthi indandatho yokuzibandakanya akuyona uphawu lokuqala lothando phakathi kwabantu ababili. Kukholelwa ukuthi uphawu lokuqala lwadalwa phakathi kwabantu abasemaphandleni. Basebenzisa izindophi zesikhumba eziboshwe ukuze babophe owesifazane abafuna ukushada naye. Ngesikhathi kuphela owesifazane eyeka ukumelana nentambo engavuliwe, eshiya eyodwa kuphela - eboshelwe ngomunwe. Lokhu kwakuyisenzo esingokomfanekiso nje futhi kwakusho ukuthi owesifazane wayesevele esematasa.
Ngokwesiko, namuhla, ukuthatha indandatho yokuzibandakanya, owesifazane uyavuma ukushada nalowo owanikezile. Uma owesifazane ethatha isinqumo sokuqeda ubuhlobo, kufanele abuyisele emuva indandatho. Ngokuvamile, kuqondwa abesifazane emhlabeni jikelele. Ngakho indandatho iba uphawu olungabonakali lokuthuthukiswa noma ukuqedwa kobudlelwane.
Kwezinye amazwe aseYurophu kwakungokwesiko ukusebenzisa njengamasondo omshado ngokuphelele noma yiliphi indandatho - okuthandayo. Kodwa indandatho yayibhekwa njengomshado kuphela lapho ibhala igama lomfazi nosuku lomshado. Indandatho enjalo yayinezikhwepha zayo zangaphakathi, futhi yayigcinwa njengendoda noma i-heirloom yomndeni.