Okuhlukile kokuchazwa kokulala mayelana nokuhlukunyezwa
- Umhumushi wephupho unikeza izincazelo eziningi zephupho elinjalo. Isibonelo, i-Gypsy ithi uma uguqulwa ephusheni, khona-ke bayokwenza empilweni yangempela.
- Ibhuku lephupho lesiNgisi licacisa leli phupho ngale ndlela elandelayo: uma usuqedile ukhetha ukungathembeki, kodwa ekupheleni kwesizathu esithile akuzange uwele esilingweni, empeleni ulindele inhlalakahle nenhlanhla.
- Uma uqhubeka nokuhlukumezeka ephusheni umngane / umngane wakho omkhulu, umngane wakho othandekayo uzokupholisa ngokushesha futhi angabi nandaba.
- Iphupho lapho ushintshile khona, ngenkathi ushada, ingaba yi-harbinger yomlilo.
- Ngezinye izikhathi ukuhlukumezeka owenzayo ephusheni kungabonisa inqwaba yezikhazamiso ebhizinisini nasesizungu.
- Kungasho futhi isenzo sokukhwabanisa owenzile, ngenxa yokuthi uzobekwa endaweni engafaneleki.
- Uma owesifazane ephupha ukuthi umyeni wakhe usishintshile, lokhu kubonisa umthwalo osheshayo nokungalindelekile wemisebenzi yasekhaya nezinye izinto ezokuthatha isikhathi eside kakhulu.
- Ukuzama ukudukisa umuntu osemusha ephusheni kungakushintsha wena nomuntu othandekayo empilweni yangempela.
Kuyini ukukhashelwa komlingani ephusheni
- UFreud uthi leli phupho, ngokusho kwesigqila esishade naye, libonisa ukungathembeki komunye umuntu oseduze nawe. Kulesi simo, lalela intuition yakho - kuzokutshela ukuthi ungaziphatha kanjani nalo muntu.
- Uma uphupha ukuthi umkakho othandekayo wayengahambi nomngane wakho, kusho ukuthi kufanele ulalele ukuziphatha komuntu owaziyo. U-Sonnyk uphawula ukuthi lo muntu angashukumisela umqondo wokuphikisana nawe, okusho ukuthi ubungane obunjalo kufanele bushiywe.
- Umkhwenyana ephusheni, ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho, uxwayisa - ukuthembela kwakho kungasetshenziswa kabi, futhi, ngokufanele, kudingeka uziphathe ngokucophelela ngemvelo eseduze.
- Iphupho lapho oshade naye ashintshe khona ngaphambi kwamehlo akho, angabonisa ukuphikisana kokuqala kanye nokucaciswa kobuhlobo nabathandekayo. Kufanele uqaphele kakhulu izinhlelo ezijwayelekile zekusasa - zingabangela izingxabano ezinkulu.
- Incazelo yephupho kaMiller inikeza incazelo elandelayo: isigamu sakho sesibili asilona iqiniso kuphela kuwe, kodwa sibonisa nokudala umndeni oqinile kanye nezingane. Uma ushintsho likuphuphile ngesikhathi sokuxabana - lindela ukubuyisana ngokushesha.
Ukushintsha ephusheni kungasho futhi inhlebo empilweni yangempela - ungasolwa ngezenzo ezingenangqondo.
- Uma uphupha ukuthi ushintshile othandekayo wakho noma othandekayo wakho ngokufuna ukuphindisela okuthile, empeleni ulindele impilo yomndeni ejabulisayo neyathulile, futhi ubuhlobo bakho bungaphezu kwanoma yiziphi izinsongo. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akusho ukuthi ungakwazi ukuphumula futhi ungenzi imizamo yokuzigcina ezingeni elifanele.
- Ukuhumusha iphupho kukaDanilova kuthatha iphupho elinjalo njengokuwa ngokushesha okulindelekile nethemba.
- Uma ushintshiwe ephusheni, lokhu kungabonisa ukuntuleka kobuzwe empilweni yakho. Kodwa, ekugcineni ekutholeni ivolumu oyifunayo, uzolindela izinkinga eziningi nokudumazeka.
Njengoba ubona, izincwadi ezahlukene zokuphupha zinikeza ukuhumusha okuphambene ngokuphelele kwamaphupho mayelana nokuhlukumezeka, kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ungakwazi ukuchaza ngokugcwele iphupho lokuhlubuka kuphela ngokucabangela imininingwane, isimo, isimo nesimo sakho sengqondo kulokho okwenzekayo.