Imfundo yezocansi yamantombazane

Unomntwana okhulayo, futhi lapho kudlula umzuzwana lapho kuphakama imibuzo: indlela yokukhulisa indodakazi, ukuthi ungathinte kanjani kahle ukuthuthukiswa kwayo ngokobulili nangokwenyama, ngaluphi ubudala obudinga ukuqala imfundo yocansi. Imfundo yocansi yamantombazane kufanele iqale kusukela esemncane. Impilo yengane kufanele icatshangelwe kusukela lapho uqala ukuyihlela.

Izinto eziningi zithinta impilo yengomuso wengane. Kuncike empilweni yabazali, kusukela ekukhulelweni komama. Futhi futhi kusuka ezibonakalweni zefa. Inkambo engathandeki yokukhulelwa (imikhuba emibi, izifo ezihlukahlukene ezithathelwanayo), ikakhulukazi ekuthomeni kokuqala kokukhulelwa, ingathinta impilo yengane. Ezimweni eziningi kule nkathi yokukhulelwa izifo ezihlukahlukene zengane zakhiwa. Lokhu kungase kube izifo ezithathelwanayo, ezingase zivele ebuntwaneni noma ebusheni.

Ngamaphi amantombazane aqala ukufundisa ngezocansi.

Iningi loomama bakholelwa ukuthi imfundo yezocansi kufanele iqale ngokuqala kokukhulelwa. Kodwa lo mbono awulona iqiniso, ngoba imfundo yezocansi isondelene kakhulu nesistimu jikelele yemfundo engokomoya. Kumele kuqale ngokuzalwa kwengane. Imfundo kufanele yenziwe ngokucabangela ezinye izibonakaliso - kucatshangelwa izici zengane, kucatshangelwa isimo seminyaka. Kodwa kunezigaba ezijwayelekile kanye nezimiso abazali abadingazi. Esikhathini sokuqala semfundo yezocansi, amantombazane kudingeka athole amakhono okuhlanzeka. Lokhu kugeza, ukuguqula amathayi, ukugeza, njll. Khona-ke, lapho umntwana ekhula udinga ukumfundisa ukuthi angayisebenzisa kanjani iphepha lokungcebeleka, ukuhlanzeka kwezitho zangasese.

Ngokuqaliswa kwansuku zonke yalezi zinqubo, amantombazane anomkhuba wokushintsha izingubo njalo. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu emfundweni yengane yengane. Ngokuhlanzeka okufanele, ingozi yezitho zangasese zangaphakathi nezangaphandle ezivuvukalayo ayilutho.

Iminyaka engu-4-6.

Lapho uneminyaka engama-4-5, izingane zivame ukubuza imibuzo, lapho ngezinye izikhathi asikwazi ukuthola impendulo efanele. Isibonelo, ngivela kuphi futhi nabanye. Akudingekile ukugwema impendulo noma ucabange zonke izinhlobo zezinganekwane. Uma ungeke uphendule ngokushesha, usho ukuthi ukhuluma kamuva. Cabanga ukuthi ungayiphendula kanjani umbuzo ukuze umntwana aqonde, ngaphandle kokuhlazeka, futhi agcine isithembiso. Uma ingane yakho ingayitholi impendulo, uzokwazi kwabanye. Futhi akucaci ukuthi ubani ozoyiphendula futhi yiyiphi indlela impendulo ezokwamukelwa ngayo.

Lapho uneminyaka engama-5-6, kungenzeka ukuthi kakade kube nesihawu nemizwa yothando. Ungesabi ukubonakaliswa kwemizwa enjalo endodakazini, ngoba ngalesi sikhathi asikho isithakazelo kubafana bobulili.

10-11 ubudala.

Lapho uneminyaka eyi-10-11, amantombazane kufanele azi kahle izici zokuthuthukiswa komzimba. Kumelwe ukuba balungele ukuya esikhathini. Amantombazane kule minyaka ayifanele asabe lapho izinwele zivela ezithombeni zobulili kanye nokukhula kwezigulane ezincelisayo. Intombazane kufanele ibe nomqondo wezinguquko ezengeziwe ngaphambi kokuqala kwalezi zinqubo. Kumele azi ukuthi angagcina kanjani ukuhlanzeka ngalesi sikhathi. Kubalulekile ukubamba izingxoxo ngalesi sihloko. Ingxoxo kufanele iqhutshwe ngumama, noma isazi sengqondo, noma uthisha. Izingxoxo ezinjalo kufanele zenziwe ngendlela efinyelelekayo yokuqonda. Kubalulekile ukufundisa ingane ukuthi ukuya esikhathini kufanele kugezwe izikhathi eziningana ngosuku, ukuqapha ukuhlanzeka kwezingubo kanye nomzimba. Udinga ukwazi ukuthi igazi lokuya esikhathini yisimo esihle sokukhiqiza amabhaktheriya. Ngokuhlanzeka okungcolile, ingozi yokuthola izifo ezivuvukalayo ikhula. Fundisa intombazane indlela yokugcina ikhalenda ngokufanele, ukuze ulandele umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini. Uma ukuya esikhathini kungavamile, kufanele uthintane nomjozi wezifo zogciwane.

12-14 ubudala.

Ukusabela okusheshayo kwe-physiology kwenzeka ezinganeni ezineminyaka engu-12-14. Emzimbeni kukhona izinguquko, futhi kukhona ukukhangwa ngokocansi. Ngokuvamile izingane ezingaxhumana nabazali ngezihloko ezihlukahlukene zithola impendulo kwenye indawo. Ngokuvamile bathola ulwazi oluphikisayo. Amantombazane anesifiso sokuzimela nokuzimela. Izinkinga eziningi zingagwenywa uma ubuhlobo bokuthembela bwakhiwe nabazali. Amantombazane anesifiso sokujabulisa abantu bobulili obuhlukile, futhi lesi sifiso sinobulili. Uma abazali bebucayi nezingane zabo kule minyaka (ngoba intsha inomqondo ocacile wokuzimela), kungenzeka ukuthi ugweme oxhumana nabo abangafuneki bendodakazi nabangani abangathandeki. Udinga ukuvumela indodakazi yakho ukuthi uyibheke njengobuntu obunjalo - khona-ke angeke afihle abangane bakhe kuwe.

Kusukela eminyakeni engu-15.

Ekukhuleni kufika isikhathi sokubhinca esabekayo. Le minyaka isukela eminyakeni engu-15 kuya kweyi-18. Izinguquko ezinzima zenzeka emzimbeni ngalesi sikhathi. Ekupheleni kwalesi sikhathi, ukukhulelwa kwenzeka. Ekuqaleni kwalesi sizukulwane, amantombazane kufanele aqaphele ukuthi impilo yocansi ngaphambi kwesikhathi iholela ekukhulelwe okungadingeki. Amama, izazi zengqondo, odokotela kufanele bafunde izingane ngezindlela zokuvimbela ukukhulelwa (ukuvikelwa ekukhulelwe). Amantombazane kufanele aqaphele ukuthi ukukhipha isisu ngalesi sikhathi kuyingozi. Lokhu kungaholela ekunganeni, kanti izifo zemizimba zingathuthuka emva kwalokhu. Kodwa uma kunokukhulelwa okungahlelelwe - indodakazi akufanele isabe ukutshela abazali bayo ngakho. Imfundo yamantombazane inqubo, ngokwengxenye, yokudala. Yiba ngumntwana wakho hhayi nje njengomama, kodwa njengomngane. Sebenzisa isikhathi esiningi nezingane zakho, uye emisebenzini ehlukahlukene ndawonye. Uma udala isimo sokuthembela ebuhlotsheni bakho, indodakazi ngeke ifihle izinkinga zayo kuwe, futhi uzokwazi umbuthano wokuxhumana kwakhe.