Kusukela ezinyangeni zokuqala
Ezinyangeni ezingu-6 ingane ingafunda ithoyizi, noma ngabe iyingxenye igcwele okuthile. Uma kukhona isiqephu sento, khona-ke kukhona into yonke - lokhu kuvulwa kwengane enenyanga eyisithupha! I-Kroha inesithakazelo kakhulu ezintweni ezinjalo "ezifihliwe" futhi ngempela "ziyabheka". Kodwa uma ukuphazamiseka kuphele ngokuphelele ngemuva kwe-diaper, ingane ngeke iyibuke - ngemva kwakho konke, ingane ifunda umthetho wokuhlala okukhona kwezinto kungekhona esigabeni, kodwa kuphela ngenyanga. Uma izinyanga eziyisikhombisa zikhuphuka ithoyizi phansi, uzoqonda ukuthi likhona. Ukutholakala kwalonyaka kwenza kube lula ukwenza imidlalo yokufihla nokufuna kube nzima nakakhulu. Kusukela emntwaneni, ekugcineni, ungakwazi ukufihla ngokuphelele into, kuphela okudingeka uyenze phambi kwamehlo akhe - injabulo yokubukeka kwedoli yokunyamalala eyomnyama izomenza aphinde ahlole ngaphansi komcamelo, i-diaper, isitsha ...
Ukuqhutshwa okuhlukahlukene ngebhokisi, izimbiza, izikhwama, amashekhi alungise ulwazi lwezingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ubudala mayelana nemfihlakalo yezinto ezingekho. Ingane ibuza ngaso sonke isikhathi umbuzo: "Uma ngifaka i-teddy bear esikhwameni, ingabe iyolala lapho ngiyivula futhi?" Noma: "Futhi uma umama ngokwakhe ephuma ekamelweni ukukhuluma efonini, ingabe ingabhekwa njengokulahlekile noma izwi lakhe liwubufakazi bokuthi akahambanga kude na? "Umbuzo wokugcina ungomunye wendaba enkulu kule minyaka. Ukunamathiswa okhethekile kwezingane kubazali babo kubenza bahlale beqaphele ukuba khona kwabo ekamelweni. Futhi lokhu akusisona umdlalo wokufihla nokufuna, kodwa ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka. Ingane iqala ukukhamba, ihambele indlu, futhi lokhu kuyisikhulu esikhulu: hamba ekamelweni elilandelayo bese uhlola ukuthi usekhona yini umama - iphupho elidala lomntwana. Ezinyangeni eziyisishiyagalolunye, ingane ikwazi ngokugcwele ukuhlala kwezinto, futhi manje unesithakazelo ezinhlobonhlobo zezindlela zokufihla nokuzifuna. Ungayifihla ngaphansi kwebheki - ingane, ehlezi esihlalweni, isusa leveli futhi ayiwi ngisho nokuwa. Ungaphonsa ithoyizi encane ekhamini - uma uthola lokhu, uzama ukuvula isandla sakho bese uthola ukulahleka. Ingane ngokwayo ingakwazi ukufihla i-cube ebhokisini bese ithola, ishaqa. Ezinyangeni ezingu-11 "ukukhohlisa" ingane ukuba ibe nzima nakakhulu. Ngeke afune into lapho uwathathe khona. I-crumb ngokucophelela ilinda isandla sakho futhi ngokuqinisekile ithole into efihliwe
Futhi ngokuphila ...
Ukuzifihla nokufuna imidlalo kube uhlobo lokuziphendukela kwemvelo futhi "ukukhula" kanye nomntwana. Emva kwakho konke, umuntu ngamunye ufanele afune okuthile, athole, noma afihle.
Behind ingilazi
Zama ukubeka ithoyizi ngemuva kwesithintelo esicacile. Cela umntwana ukuthi amthole. Qaphela ukuthi lo mgwaqo uzozama ukuthatha ithoyizi ngokuqondile ngokusebenzisa umkhawulo noma ukuwudlula.
Vala isembozo
Nikeza ingane iziqukathi eziningana nezindwangu kubo. Thatha noma yiliphi ithoyizi bese ulifaka ngaphakathi, livale ngesembozo esifanele. Ingane idonsa ithoyizi, bese izama ukuzifihla yona. Ububunzima balo mdlalo akugcini nje ukufaka into ngaphakathi, kodwa futhi ukumboza ngesembozo sesayizi esifanele. Unganikeza ingane yakho ukuthi iqale ngeziqukathi ezivaliwe: uzoyivula futhi athole ngaphakathi kwelinye lala ithoyizi yakhe. Ungathatha amathoyizi ambalwa ubeke eyodwa kwisitsha ngasinye - ngakho-ke nakakhulu nakakhulu. Manje kufanele sithole ibhere, bese sicabanga ukuthi umshini ulelephi.
Ku-leash
Khetha amathoyizi amabili aqhakazile bese uwabopha ku-ribbon yemibala ehlukene. Bonisa ingane ukuthi ungadonsa itheyipu bese uyidonsa amathoyizi. Manje faka ithoyizi eyodwa, bese-ke kokubili, bese ushiya kuphela umkhawulo wezinhlamvu. Vumela izinyane liqale nje libheke amathoyizi, bese uzama ukukhipha kanye nalokho oyokubiza. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukukhumbula ukuthi iyiphi i-ribbon eboshwe etsheni ngalinye. Njengoba uneminyaka yobudala, inani lamathoyizi namadayibhidi ezinemibala linganda. Ngeminyaka engu-4, usuvele usinikeza ama-4 noma ama-pair amabili. Ukunikeza ingane ukuthola nokufihla, wenza amakhono abalulekile, ukuthuthukisa ukucabanga okunengqondo, emidlalweni eminingi - amakhono emoto amnandi, ikhono lokuhamba emkhathini, inkulumo. Futhi konke lokhu kubonga emdlalweni wokufihla futhi ufune!
Ubani ekukhonjeni kwe-buckwheat?
Unganikeza ingane ukuthi ibuke izinto ku-croup ethile. Lo msebenzi uzophazamisa ingane kusuka ku-whims, ngenkathi uguqula ngesidlo sakusihlwa. Ingane ekhulile ingaba nzima ukwenza umsebenzi, ihlinzekwe ukuthi ingaboni ngezandla zayo, kodwa nge-spoon noma nge-tongs. Futhi uma uthatha izinto ezithile zensimbi, zinike i-magnet.
Amanzi amaningi
Thatha izinkomishi ezibonakalayo nezimbiza ezimbalwa ze-gouache. Esigodini uthele amanzi bese ubeka izinto ezikodwa: amabhola, izingxenye zomklami - okutholakala. Imibala yabo kufanele ifane nombala we-gouache. Gweba lo shayela, isibonelo, ube ngopende oluhlaza bese uqothula i-gouache emanzini, lapho into eluhlaza ilala khona. Phinda ukunyakaza kuze ithoyizi ingabonakali. Manje vela izinyane lifihle into ebomvu, bese kuthi ophuzi.
Esikhathini se-sandbox
Lapha ungabonisa ingane ukuthi ungayenza kanjani "abalobi" - bonke abantu abadala bakhumbula ukuthi ebuntwaneni bangcwatshwa kanjani ama-candy wrappers emhlabathini, egcwele ingilazi, bese behlanza ngobumnene isihlabathi, bawuthanda isithombe. Kubantwana kungcono ukusebenzisa i-film ebonakalayo eqinile, lapho amathoyizi avame ukubhubhisa khona.
Cishe ucishe ufihle futhi ufune
Imithetho yesikhumba sendabuko bese ufuna ukwazi konke. Umshayeli umile odongeni ngenkathi abanye abadlali befihla. Khona-ke uqala ukubheka. Zama ukunikeza inguqulo yasentshonalanga yalo mdlalo kubafana. Ibizwa ngokuthi "amasardine". Ukufihla yedwa, kodwa ukufuna konke. Kodwa-ke, uma umdlali ethola indawo yokufihla, kumele ajoyine naye. Umdlalo uphela lapho iqhawe lokugcina lihlangana nabo bonke abanye. Ngaphandle kokuba nensimu enkulu, ungadlala nomntwana ku-"Hot-Cold". Kudingekile ukufihla into ekamelweni bese utshela imincintiswano indawo yayo ngamazwi: "kubanda" - kumelela kude nendaba, "ukushisa" - eduze kwesihloko futhi "kushisa" - eduze kakhulu.
Uhlezi embhedeni
Ukufihla nokufuna okunjalo kuhle ngesikhathi sokulungiselela umbhede noma ukulinda emgqeni. Thola incwadi F, inkinobho ebomvu, inkinobho noma ngisho nenombolo 12 - njalonjalo, kuye ngokuthi ingaphakathi.
Ukujwayelana ngokulandela uhlelo
Esikhathini sephepha, udwebe ipulani ekamelweni. Kuzingane ezineminyaka emibili noma emithathu, zama ukudweba ifenisha ngemininingwane encane kakhulu kunokujwayelekile kwamasu. Hlanganisa nomntwana ukuthi yiziphi izinto eziboniswa esithombeni. Vumela i-crumb ifike kulokho okubonisayo esithombeni. Ngokuvamile, qiniseka ukuthi ingane ikwazi "ukufunda imephu." Fihla ezinye i-candy, isipho esincane noma ithoyizi ethile egumbini, futhi kuhlelo, imelela isikhashana ngesiphambano. Phakamisa ingane ukuthi ithole "umcebo".
Futhi okuningi okuningi ...
Kumageyimu okufihla nokufuna kungabikwa futhi yonke imisebenzi equkethe amagama "thola", "thola" nokunye okunjalo. Phela, uma kukhona okudingeka kutholakale, kusho ukuthi le "nto" ifihliwe. Nika izithombe ezinganeni lapho udinga ukuthola ukungafani, thola izilwane, thola isithunzi esifanele wonke umuntu. Mema umntwana ukuthi athole pair of amasokisi akhe noma ama-mittens. Ungenza amasaka ahlanganiswe ngokugcwaliswa okuhlukile - ilayisi, i-peas, ikotini, imidanso, isitashi, iphepha eliqoshiwe - futhi ubheke umbhangqwana ukuthi uthinte. Mema ingane ukuthi ithole ithoyizi oyenzile. Tshala izilwane ezinkulu ezungeze umntwana bese utshela izimpawu zomuntu olahlekile noma "ikheli" lakhe (uhlala phakathi kwe-squirrel nebhebhe noma kwesokudla kwe-squirrel ...). Ungacela ingane ukuba igqoke amehlo futhi isuse enye yezathoyizi - i-crumb izodingeka iphendule umbuzo: ngubani ofihlile?