Imizwelo engenakuqonda ingakwazi futhi ilawulwe

Imizwelo engenakuqonda ingakwazi ukulawula futhi kufanele ilawulwe futhi uma singenzi lokhu ngokwethu, usongo lokuthi ukungenazi lutho kuzosithatha kakhulu. Yiqiniso, asikwazi ukuzikhulula emizimbeni yethu engazi lutho. Kodwa emandleni ethu ukuqeda ukulungiswa kubo. Zahlukanise nokungazi lutho. UDkt. Christopher Smith wabeka futhi eveza imizwa yabantu engazi lutho. Ukuhlazeka nokuhlazeka, icala futhi icala, ukunganaki nokuphelelwa yithemba, ukudabuka nokuzisola, ukwesaba nokukhathazeka, ukufisa nokufisa, intukuthelo nenzondo, ukuziqhenya nokudelelwa - kulelo dlule kukhona isethi ephelele. Lokhu akukubi futhi akulungile. Kuyinto imvelo yomuntu nje. Ukungazi lutho kuye kwavela ukuze usinde. Kusisiza ukuba siphile ezweni eliyingozi. Ngokuba umuntu onemizwelo evezile kakhulu, izwe lezingozi ezingenalutho kanye nezinsongo. Futhi lowo okhuphukile ngaphezu kokungazi lutho ujabulela umhlaba, ubheka kuye kuphela ubuhle) nenjabulo. Ngakho-ke, kukuthi kithi: bukhoma futhi ujabule, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi konke, noma ukuzamazama kuze kube phakade, njll. Ukuze ungabi umthunjwa kumuntu ongenalwazi, umuntu kumele azi isitha sakhe "ebusweni". Ngakho ...

Ukuhlazeka nokuhlazeka - umzwelo omazayo kakhulu. Kodwa kanjani, ungaphenduki, imizwelo engazi lutho ingakwazi ukulawulwa futhi kufanele ilawulwe. Yisisekelo somuntu wonke. Kungenziwa ukuhlotshaniswa nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi noma ngokomzimba. Uma sinamahloni, sibeka amakhanda ethu bese sisuka ngokuthula. Sizama ukungabonakali. Abanye abantu bahlukanisiwe emphakathini. Phakathi kwalabo abaye bahlaziya lo mzwelo, kuningi abaprofesa. Bayashesha empilweni yesayensi, ngoba abakwazi ukubhekana nomphakathi, benza omunye umsebenzi. Ukuhlazeka nokuhlazeka kuholela emiphakathini. Lo muntu unenkinga yokuphazamiseka okukhulu. Omunye uhlala egeza izandla, omunye athengisa amasondo angenakubalwa, izibopho, amasokisi, njll. Ukuphazamiseka okuphazamisayo kuhilela izici eziningi zokuphila. Lokhu kunomthelela omubi emzimbeni nangokomzimba. Ukuzihlonipha okuphansi, ukwehluleka, ukubekezelelana ngokwakho nabanye, ukukhathazeka ngomqondo othile - ukubonakaliswa okuhlukahlukene kokuhlazeka nokuhlazeka.

Ukuzibophezela Nokushushiswa
Umphumela wale mzwelo ukucindezelwa okuphawulekayo komsebenzi wansuku zonke. Isetshenziselwa ukuxhaphaza abantu futhi ubajezise. Ixhunywe ukungakwazi ukuxolelwa ngokomzwelo. "Ngeke ngikuthethelele ngalokho okwenzele kimi eminyakeni eyishumi edlule!" - kumemeza indoda engaphansi kokungazi lutho. Abangane balo mzwelo bangumqondo wokuphenduka, ukuzilalela, okungaholela ekubukeni kwe-masochism, ukuhlukunyezwa (ukuphenduka isisulu), izingozi, ukuzibulala. Futhi ngisho nokuzibiza nge-self-flagellation. Umzwelo wecala nokumangalelwa kwamantombazane azinqamule umvuthwandaba onamandla, ukubuyisela ukunakwa kwabazali, ikakhulukazi omama. Ukuzijezisa kufana nokucela usizo. Ukubukeka empilweni kubi. Omunye isiguli, uDkt. Smith, wathi: "Into engcono kakhulu engenzeka emhlabeni uma iNkosi ibhubhisa." Owesifazane wayevame ukukhononda ngabantu abangakwazi ukuthethelela. Futhi wayenomdlavuza wekoloni. Kungatholakala ukuthi isisu esinomdlavuza ngaso sonke isikhathi sihlotshaniswa nomzwelo wecala nokusola. Mhlawumbe lokhu akuwona umzwelo wokuqala, kodwa njalo ukhona ezimweni zomdlavuza. Kulaba besifazane abaningi, umdlavuza webele usathuthuka ngemva kwezinkinga ezingokomzwelo, ikakhulukazi ngokuhlukana komndeni. Basola ukuthi bangakwenza okungaphezulu futhi basindise umndeni. Abazali bangaba nomuzwa wokuzizwa benecala ezinganeni.

Ukunganakwa nokuphelelwa ithemba
Ngalo mzwelo ongenakuqonda, ikhono lomuntu lokubhekana nezinkinga liyehla kakhulu. Konke kubonakala kunzima futhi kungenathemba. Asikho isifiso sokuphila. Konke kubumnyama. Uvuka nomcabango "ukuphinde usebenze, ukuthi ngikhathele kanjani konke!" Khona-ke kukhona isizathu sokucabanga. Ngokujwayelekile asiboni kithi ukubonakaliswa kwale mizwelo. Bese bengazi lutho! Kodwa cela abathandekayo bakho, bangani, balalele lokho abanye abakushoyo ngawe. Ungafunda okuningi ngawe.

Usizi nokuzisola
Ukudabuka nokuzisola yiyomzwelo oyinhloko wemali-abagubha, abantu abambelela kumpahla yabo futhi abakwazi ukulahla izinto. Futhi ngokuzumayo udinga iminyaka eyikhulu ngamakhulu ... abazukulu! Ngaphansi kwethonya lalo mzwelo, abantu badabukile, bacindezelekile, bakhathazekile ngokuhluleka kwabo. Kodwa inkinga akuyona izenzakalo ezenzeka esikhathini esidlule, zivumele, futhi zingathandeki kakhulu. Inkinga ukuwayeka ukuthi ahambe. Indoda ibambelela esikhathini esidlule njengenja ithambo. Ukudabuka nokuzisola kubangela ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi, abangane, umndeni namathuba. Kulabo abathintekayo kulo mzwelo, ukuphila kuyinkinga ephelele. Kufana nokusabela ekufeni komuntu. Asibuyise lo muntu, kodwa sizigcina esidlule. Ungalusizi ngalokhu oshonile. Ngemva kwesikhashana, udinga ukumyeka ahambe. Kungenjalo, ngokugxila ekufeni, uqala ukuzizwa njengomuntu ofile. Amandla okushiya isipho esiyigugu.

Ukwesaba nokukhathazeka
BHEKA UKUPHILA KULO MSEBENZI - I-SPASH. Konke kubi, kuyingozi, kubangela ukukhathazeka. Kungabonakala njengokwesaba ukulahlekelwa uthando nokuphepha. Yini esiyifisa ngaphezu kokuthanda nokulondeka? Sinezo zombili, kodwa asikwazi lokhu. Ngakho kukhona ukukhathazeka nokuhawukela, izinga eliphezulu lokucindezeleka, i-paranoia, neuroses, nokukhula ngokomoya kunciphile. Ukwesaba nokukhathazeka kusakazeka. Ukuhlaselwa kwesibindi kungasakazeka phakathi kwabantu. Uma othile ememeza ethi "Umlilo!" Futhi egijima ukugijima, ukwethuka kuvela kuwo wonke umuntu. Ukuze unqobe lo mzwelo ongenamqondo wokwesaba nokukhathazeka, umholi oqinile uyadingeka. Lo mzwelo usetshenziswa njengethuluzi lokulawula. Ohulumeni baseRussia naseMelika basekela ukwesaba nokukhathazeka iminyaka engama-30 phakathi neMpi Yomshoshaphansi. Omunye uhlangothi wayelokhu esaba omunye. Manje sesaba ukuthi i-meteorite izowela emhlabathini noma i-volcano enkulu izovuka. Noma kungenzeka kube nokuzamazama komhlaba okukhulu, ngenxa yokuthi sizobhubha khona. Noma ukushisa komhlaba. Kunezizathu eziningi ze-alamu. Sibona ukwesaba nokukhathazeka nsuku zonke emaphephandabeni. Imibiko yendlala nempi ishukunyiswa ukwesaba kwethu.