Ngakho, okokuqala udinga ukugqoka kahle. Ngokwezibalo, amadoda aqale ahlabe imilenze emihle namabele. Inhlanganisela ephelele - umkhonto omfushane nemilenze emihle noma enye inketho - isimo esifanele esifubeni kanye ne-decollete ejulile. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha ukwakheka okulungile. Ngokufanayo uphendulela amadoda, kokubili umbala wokulwa, nokungabikho okuphelele kwezimonyo. Ngineluleka ukuba ungesabi ukuzama, kodwa ekhaya, yedwa, kuze kube yilapho umuntu ebona. Futhi kuphela ubonise imiphumela yokuhlolwa kwamadoda futhi kuphela uma ucabanga ukuthi ukuhlolwa kuphumelele.
Ekubukeni ungasho okuningi, kodwa ekukhangeni abantu, ukubonakala okuhle kungamaphesenti angu-30 kuphela impumelelo. Ukudlala ngothando kudlala indima ebalulekile. Lokho ngaphandle kwalo noma kuphi.
Flirt - lena mhlawumbe yindlela kuphela yokuheha ukunakwa kwanoma yimuphi umuntu.
Isimiso sokuqala sokudlala ngothando akuwona ukulimaza. Ukugqilaza, ukubukeka okudakayo, ukuhlambalaza, ukukhwabanisa, intombi enhle eduze kwakho ngeke ikukhathalele, kodwa nje ukwesaba umuntu.
Isimiso sesibili ukukhulumisana nokuqapha. Memeze kaningi, umcele ukuba amthande, ambulele ibhodlela lewayini, ngokuqinisekile azonikeza ukuphuza ndawonye. Ukuziphatha kwakho kufanele kube okunjalo ukuthi kungabhekwa njengokubili kokudlala ngothando kanye nesimo somusa, ngoba uma, naphezu kwakho konke ukuzama, awukwazi ukunaka wena, uzovikeleka ekuhlekeleni kofakazi bokuzibonela. Qedela ubulili bakho, obuvulela indoda enomoya ophansi, ovusa iphutha ngokuthinta ukukhanya noma ukumanga ngobungane esihlathini.
Enye indlela yokuheha umuntu kuyisiqu. I-Coquetry ngumdlalo lapho umuntu ehlala ekulungele ukudlala khona, uzokwenza ukuncoma kwakho. I-coquette ihlale isifazane futhi idukisa, i-coquette igcina la madoda ngesibambiso esifushane. Indoda kufanele ihloniphe lowo ombheka ngamehlo ajabulisayo, ezama ukudukisa, ukukhuluma ngesibindi sakhe, adlulise izipho kanye nezenzo ezinhle.
Ukuxhumana okubukeka kubaluleke kakhulu ku-coquetry. Ubukeka obude ngqo emehlweni akho bubonisa intshisekelo yakho. Into eyinhloko, futhi, akufanele ibenze ngaphezulu. Ungayibheka ngezindlela ezahlukene: bheka emehlweni akhe futhi umomotheka, ungabheka phezu kwehlombe lakho. Endabeni yokumnaka, ukumamatheka kubaluleke kakhulu. Kufanele ivuleke futhi yemvelo.
Amadoda futhi athola ukuzwa okuthinta. Yithinte ngesandla sakho, ungaboni kahle unyawo lwakho ezinyaweni ngaphansi kwetafula, uthinte isifuba, umangaze ngethahla esihlathini. Ungabi namahloni, ngalesi simo izingqinamba ngeke ziholele lutho oluhle.
Qaphela iphunga, akudingeki libe yi-French elimnandi noma iphunga elimnandi ngama-pheromone. Kuyinto nje ukuthi umzimba wakho udlula iziphunga eziheha abantu.
Okubaluleke nakakhulu ukuzethemba. Uma ukuzethemba kwakho kuhlupheka, yenza ukuqeqeshwa ngokuzenzakalela. Kufanele unikeze umqondo womuntu onomusa nomnandi, othakazelisayo futhi olula ukuchitha isikhathi.
Amadoda adingeka atholakale lapho ajwayele khona. Kungaba izitolo (cela ukuthi ikusize ngokuzikhethela), ama-gyms (ifomu eliqinile uzokusiza lapha), igceke lakho (lapha angakwazi ukuhamba inja), izikhungo zemoto, imigoqo, ungabhala isikhathi eside. Uhlale ulungele ukuhlangana nendoda yakho.