"Kumele kube khona imfihlakalo owesifazane!" - izinkondlo zakha. "... Futhi nenye inkomba kanye nengcebo" - cacisa amadoda ayeyizisulu zabesifazane abangacacile kakhulu, abalahlekelwe yi-labyrinth ye-inept noma izintandokazi ezingenqatshelwe. Siyazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi amadoda, ngenxa yemvelo yabo "yokuzingela," ayaphambene nabesifazane abadinga ukuxazululwa, bafunwa futhi banqotshwe. Akekho onentshisekelo kumphangi olula! Indoda idinga i-adrenaline nenjabulo emzamweni wokwehlisa owesifazane onzima, ongekho emthethweni futhi ongenakufinyeleleka. Kulo mdlalo ukhuluma ngokunqoba kwakhe, futhi uthanda ngokwakhe. Ngakho-ke, uthando nomfazi owenza kulo mvuthwandaba. Indoda ingaba kanjani engaqondakali, engenakufinyeleleka futhi efiselekayo, ngaphandle kokuphenduka ibe iphazili, okuzokwephula ngayo ikhanda layo?
- Hlala ngokwakho. Umthetho wokuqala nokubaluleke kakhulu kuwumvelo. Ukuze uzenzele isithombe nomfanekiso wenkanyezi, umngane, umama - kusho ukuyeka isimo sakho esiyingqayizivele. Futhi kuyokuthi imfihlakalo ukuthi indoda yakho ekahle iyifunayo ingaba, noma ukuthi isithandani kakade. Ngisho noma lezi zimfanelo zibonakala zimbi noma zidala, ungazami ukuzishiya. Yenza ukuhlolwa. Mhlawumbe, phakathi kwabo kukhona nalabo abenza ube nomusa futhi ungafani nabanye besifazane. Amadoda ayithandi "ama-templates" ayidangayo. Kungcono ukuba mnqunu kunalokho kufana nomunye umuntu. Wonke owesifazane kufanele abe "nobuhlanya" bakhe!
- Gcina imfihlo. UNkulunkulu akazange asinike izindlebe ezimbili nomlomo munye kuphela. Lalela okuningi futhi ukhulume kancane! Ngokuvamile abesifazane banzima ukubhekana nesifiso sokuxoxa. Futhi uma umuntu ebuza futhi ebuza, kufanele abekwe icala - mlalele. Ngakho hhayi isikhathi eside futhi "izimfihlakalo zempi" ukunikela, hhayi lokho siqu. Endabeni yokuxoxisana nomuntu (ikakhulukazi ngosuku lokuqala) gwema ukukhuluma ngawe, uphinde ubuye imibuzo ebuhlungu, shiya ungaphenduliwe noma uhlabe. Isibonelo: "Mmm ... Yeka umbuzo omuhle! Kodwa ngenkathi kungumfihlo! Uyazi ukuthi ungagcina kanjani izimfihlo? Yebo? Lokhu kuhle ... Nami futhi! "Yiba ngumkhulumeli womuntu. Ake akutshele ukuthi ucabangani imfihlakalo owesifazane.
- Ukukhathazeka. Gcina isithakazelo somuntu sithuthukiswe ngaso sonke isikhathi ngosizo lwezintatheli nokungaqapheli. Amadoda anefantasy ehlelwe kakhulu, nakuba engakwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngakho. Ngakho, isibonelo, ungaphenduli umbuzo othi "Ukhululekile yini kulobubusuku?" Futhi ngqo. Mnike lo muntu ukudla kwengqondo. Ngitshele ngokumangalisa: "Angikwazi ukuphendula. Nginike ukubhalisa mayelana nokungabonakali kwalesi simfihlo! "Futhi ngokujwayelekile, ungasheshi ukuphendula imibuzo. Bamba isikhashana. Kuyamangalisa! Nakuba, njenge-heroine eyinhloko ye-famous Somerset inoveli uMoema, uhlakaniphile uJulia Lambert wathi: "Ungalimi isikhathi esingadingekile, futhi uma wawuthatha - uwudonse kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka!" Amakhemikhali amakhemikhali amancane angcono kakhulu kunomzimba ongamaqenqemeni.
- Ungabi nakwazi. Njengokuthi amadoda angathukuthelwanga, angaqondi inkambo yemicabango yabesifazane kanye nemicabango yezenzo, ilukuluku lwabo luhlale luvuswa ngabesifazane abakunzima ukubikezela. Qaphela! Isibonelo:
- Ingxoxo yokuthulukisa ngokuzenzekelayo, engabonakali noma iyiphi into emangazayo, ukuphazamisa ngokuzumayo bese uthi into efana nale: "Bheka lezi zithandwa. Zihle kakhulu! ". Futhi njengokungathi akukho okwenzekile, qhubeka nengxoxo yakho ye-languid.
- Ukuqeda komhlangano okusheshayo ngokwakho, ngokuqinile nakakhulu kunalindelekile. Ungaphenywa futhi ungavumelani nokukhohlisa. Shiya ngaphandle kweminye imininingwane, kodwa ushiye ithemba eliqotho lomhlangano olandelayo.
- Ukulahlekelwa ngokungazelelwe ekuphakameni komhlangano, ushiye inothi emgqeni ngombhalo onjengokuthi "Kwesobunxele ukulondoloza iplanethi kusuka ekufudumeni kwezwe!" Futhi udwebe ubuso besmidiya.
- Ukuze ube mnandi ngokuphelele. Esinye sezimfihlakalo eziyinhloko owesifazane kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi kube yizinqubo eziletha ubuhle bakhe: ukuguqulwa, ukuguqula umzimba, ukuguqulwa kwamehlo, ukulungisa amakhanda, izinwele zezinwele, njll. Mye aqhubeke ehlala engqondweni, ukuthi kusihlwa " I-Butterfly, "yayiyi" isibungu "ekuseni. Futhi ake aqhubeke ecabanga ukuthi uzalwe nge-makeup, izinwele, imilenze ehlutshiwe kanye nezingubo zangaphansi zokugqoka, lapho ebiza futhi ebika ngenjabulo: "Lungisani! Emaminithini ayishumi ngizokwenza! "
- Yiba umlingisi. Bonke abesifazane bangama-actresses, kodwa ikhono eliyiqiniso ukuhlala uqobo, ukuba uhlale uhlukile, ungavamile futhi ungaqondakali. Umdlalo ongenamandla, ukungathembeki nokuxhaphaza indoda izozizwa ngesikhathi esisodwa. Cabanga ukuthi impilo yakho iyi-movie, ungumlingisi oyinhloko kuwo. Dlala, uzenze sengathi u-Oscar! Futhi udlale, uzijabulise, imicabango yakho, imizwa nezenzo zakho. Cabanga ngendlela yokuziphatha kulokhu noma kuleso simo, ukuze uma ubheka ngaphandle, ungazibonga. Hlalani nendima yowesifazane okhulayo wefilimu ye-chic. Yikholelwa wena, futhi indoda yakho izokubuka ngamehlo akho anothando.
- Funda kusuka ezithombeni. Kunzima ukuhlakulela umkhuba wokumangalela njalo kumuntu, uma lokhu kungekho egazini, futhi emndenini bonke abesifazane babengesilo isibonelo esihle kakhulu sokuhamba ngeqhinga elihlakaniphile noma ukukopisha imodeli yokuziphatha eyenziwe ngomumo. Inhliziyo yemibono kanye namathiphu kuyoba izincwadi, amafilimu, ithelevishini. Abesifazane abanamandla, ezinyaweni lapho kwakunebutho lonke lamadoda, babelana ngemfihlakalo yabo embukisweni wemvelo, izincwadi namafilimu. Endabeni zabo zokuphumelela, kukhona njalo into yokufunda nokuthola izimpendulo zemibuzo mayelana nomphefumulo wesifazane ongaqondakali futhi ongaqondakali. Into esemqoka kuleli cala, khumbula inombolo yenombolo 1 - ukuthuthukisa, kodwa ukuhlala uqobo.
- Ungafihlifizi ngobuqili. Ungabi ohlakaniphile kakhulu ngezimfihlakalo, imfucumfucu futhi ungenakufinyeleleka, ukuze kungasebenzi, njengenhlaya:
- Kuwesifazane kufanele kube nemfumbe ...
- Usho ukuthi ayikho imigqa kimi?
- Imfihlakalo eyodwa, hhayi iqoqo lezinkinga ku-physics ye-quantum!