Noma yimuphi owesifazane ufuna impilo yakhe yonke ukuba ahlale eyedwa, othandekayo futhi efisa indoda yakhe, kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu ophumelelayo. Akunzima kakhulu ukunqoba inhliziyo yomuntu, wonke umdwebi unezindlela eziningi zokuheha into ethandiwe kumanethiwekhi abo. Kodwa ukugcina othandekayo esiseduzane futhi abe yindawo yakhe yonke indawo nencazelo yokuphila akuwona wonke umuntu.
1. Indoda ingumzingeli, owesifazane uyimpi
Akumangalisi ukuthi abesilisa nabesilisa bahlala emaplanethi ahlukene, ngokulandelana, banemibono ehluke ngokuphelele ebuhlotsheni bomshado. Owesifazane ufuna ukuvikeleka, ukuzinza nokuzethemba kulowo okhethiwe, kodwa kumlingani wakhe, isici sengokomzwelo sibaluleke nakakhulu, ngokungavamile. Khumbula ukuthi imizwa yakho yazalwa kanjani. Ukwazi omunye nomunye, izinzwa ezintsha ezithandwayo, zijabule futhi zacasula isithakazelo esingacatshangelwe. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, waqala ukwehlisa amandla. Kungani? Le ndoda ifinyelele umgomo wayo futhi yanciphisa, usuvele uyidokodo. Awuzange ukhohlwe ukuthi lo muntu ungumzingeli?
Kodwa izintambo zingase zibe nesimo sengqondo esihlukile. I-pheasant enezinselele ingasebenzisa iminyaka eqoqa uthuli ekamelweni, futhi uzoziqhayisa kubangane bakhe ngaso sonke isikhathi ngefihla elibukeka kahle. Awucabangi, kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Ukuze uthole i-pheasant, indoda kwakungadingeki ukuthi ibe nomzamo omkhulu, okungeke kushiwo ngokuzingela ibhere. Lapha wamangazwa ukuthenga isibhamu esibi kakhulu nezinhlamvu ezikhethekile, uye esitokisini, ukulandelela isilo futhi uphume wodwa naye empini ebulalayo. Ingabe uzizwa umehluko? Ngakho isiphetho esilandelayo sikhombisa ukuthi: yiba yisidlo esiyigugu nesifisekayo somuntu, lapho ezimisele ukuchitha isikhathi sakhe nemali yakhe. Ungalokothi ubize kuqala futhi ungathathi ifoni ngemuva kwebheyi yokuqala, ukuhanjiswa kwemihlangano, ukudlala ngothando, ukufuna ubuhlobo obukhethekile, ungayeki izipho nezibonakaliso zokunakwa. Ngokwenza kanjalo, kufanele uhloniphe umlingani wakho, ungahlaziyi isithunzi sakho. Umzingeli wangempela akanakusiza ekubangela inkatho enzima kangaka.
2. Indoda ingumntwana, owesifazane ungumfundisi ohlakaniphile
Amadoda yizingane ezinkulu, lokhu kufanele kukhunjulwe njalo. Futhi uthisha onolwazi olwenziwe enkulisa wenza nini uma izingane zikhathazekile nganoma yimuphi umsebenzi? Kulungile, bashintsha ukunaka kwezinye izinto. Ngakho-ke, ukuze athole indoda futhi agcine isithakazelo kuye ngokwakhe, owesifazane kufanele abe ngumuntu owanelisayo futhi obalulekile.
Khumbula, umbuthano wezintshisekelo zakho awukwazi futhi awufanele ukhawulelwe kuphela kukhethiweyo wakho. Phila impilo egcwele, umsebenzi, ukudala, ukufunda, ukuhamba, ukuthola umhlaba futhi wabelane ngolwazi lwakho nemizwelo nabathandekayo bakho. Indoda kufanele ibone futhi iqonde ukuthi ayiyona indawo yendawo yonke futhi ngokubonakala kwayo umngane angakulungeli ukushintsha indlela yokuphila ejwayelekile futhi ayibeke e-altare lobuhlobo bomndeni.
3. Wonke umuntu unesihlalo sakhe siqu
Ebudlelwaneni kukhona izihlalo ezimbili - owesilisa nowesifazane, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula njalo futhi ungenzi sengathi uyomunye umuntu. Kusukela eTestamente Elidala kwakukholelwa ukuthi le ndoda - i-getter, owesifazane - umgcini wezindlu. Yiqiniso, isikhathi senze izilungiso zayo, kodwa isisekelo sihlala sinye. Ngakho-ke, unganamatheli emithwalweni yemadoda, noma ngabe ingaphakathi kwamandla akho. Kubalulekile ukukwazi ukugqugquzela umuntu futhi ngokusemandleni kumgqugquzele izenzo nezenzo zomuntu. Ake kuthathe isikhashana, kodwa uzokwazi ukuthi eduze kwakho kuyithebhulethi ethembekile ekulungele ukuthatha umthwalo womndeni wakho.
Udinga ukumkhumbuza njalo ukuthi nguye ongcono kakhulu futhi awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwakhe. Ungaziphakamisi futhi udumise othandekayo wakho, uqhathanise nabanye (ngokuthanda kwakhe, yiqiniso), makabe nomuzwa wokuthi ukubaluleka nokungahlali kahle. Bheka ngokucophelela ukuthi amadoda omphefumulo angakhuleki kanjani emadodakazini abo amancane. Futhi konke ngoba laba besifazane abancane ngobuqotho, ezingeni lemvelo bemvelo bababaza obaba babo, bawacabange ngempela ukuthi bangcono kakhulu emhlabeni. Khumbula ukuthi akekho umuntu omkhulu owayengaphumelela ngaphandle kokuba nenani lomfazi owamphefumulela.
4. O, ubulili, wena unguNdunankulu!
Ubulili - isici esibaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane, ngakho-ke le ndawo yokuphila kufanele ibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuzijabulisa kwezinto ezingokwenyama akuzange kuphenduke isimiso esibucayi, kubalulekile ukwenza umzamo omkhulu. Khumbula ukuthi uqhubeka kanjani usuku ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bakho, ukuthi ikhemishi elikhethiwe ngokucophelela futhi lihlolisise kanjani ukucabangela kwabo esibukweni. Zithathele lesi seluleko esilula, kodwa esibalulekile:- gqoka kuphela ama-lingerie amahle kakhulu. Indoda akufanele ibone ama-panties awanwetshiwe nsuku zonke futhi igeze ebusuku. Hamba ekhaya ngemigqoko edlalayo, ulungele nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ukuze ulahle umzimba wakho. Ukunciphisa ama-short shorts futhi ngeke ushiye umlingani wakho engafani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usuku lwakhe lukhuni kangakanani. Mcele ukuthi alethe ithawula kanye nezinsila endlini yokugezela futhi ungangabazi nakancane ukuthi uzokuthatha ulale embhedeni wakhe bese umshiya yedwa.
- Faka umzimba wakho ngokuhlelekile. Lishisa isisindo, ungene emidlalweni noma ukudansa, ulethe ekupheleleni isikhumba nezinwele. Ngisho noma umzimba wakho ungenayo imodeli yesilinganiso, kufanele ube yintsha, ihlanzekile futhi iyiphunga ukuze iphunga. Yini engaba mnandi kakhulu kunesikhumba esincane esincane sezinsikazi futhi eningi elimnandi, namanje unomanzi emva kwezinwele zokugeza!
- Ungabi ngabazenzisi futhi unganqikazi ukulala embhedeni. Bheka ndawonye ama-movie we-porn, yenza amageyimu okudlala indima, ube nobulili ezindaweni ezahlukene, ungagcini ngaphandle kombhede. Vumela umlingani wakho ukuba avuke ekuseni akusiyo umsindo wewashi eliyingozi, kodwa i-caresses yakho ekhuthele yomlomo. Ngikholelwa, uzokhumbula lokhu usuku lonke futhi uzokukhokhela ngokufanele kusihlwa!
5.Pravilno udle indoda yakho
Wonke umuntu uyazi isaga mayelana nendlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu ngesisu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungase kube nzima kangakanani, kodwa kunencazelo ejulile yalokhu okungajwayelekile emzimbeni wesilisa. Vumela isidlo sendabuko siguqule umbhangqwana wakho ube ngumkhuba othile. Uma umuntu ekuqaleni kobuhlobo eletha ukudla kwasekuseni embhedeni, ungalifuni lelo lungelo esikhathini esizayo. Mtshele ukuthi ngenxa yalokhu uzombonga ngokumangazela okukhulu, isimo sengqondo esihle nesidlo sakuthandana.
Ngisho noma ungazange upheke noma yini enkulu, khonta kahle itafula, unike ukudla komlingani, unikele nge-napkin, usawoti, isinkwa, isengezo. Qinisekisa ukuhlala naye etafuleni, ngisho noma isidlo sesiphelile futhi ngalesi sikhathi awusadli. Ungaqali izingxoxo ezinzima kuze kube yilapho umuntu enelisekile indlala yakhe.
Sithemba ukuthi lamathiphu alula azokusiza ukuba ube ngowona wesifazane oyithandayo kakhulu futhi oyedwa kuphela. Inhlanhla!