Ungakhohlwa ngokumangala
Ngisho nangemva kweminyaka eyi-10 yokuhlala ndawonye, esinye isigamu sakho silindele kuwe izipho ezincane, amnandi noma izinkumanga. Isivivinyo futhi esikhundleni sesipho esiwusizo nesisebenzayo, yenza isidlo sasekuseni embhedeni, simema esidlweni sokuthandana endaweni yokudlela ethokomele noma ugqoke ingubo yokulinganisa. Khumbula, ngoba ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bakho, lapho begcwele ugqozi, awuzange unikeze amaphiko, izihlungi zokugcoba noma izingubo zangaphansi ezifudumele ezinobuncu.
Yiba nobulili
Ungabe nje uhlanganyele kulokho okuthiwa ukugcwaliseka kwemisebenzi yomshado, kodwa ukuzama. Uma uthando luye lwaphela kancane, kuwukuhlakanipha ukufuna izindlela zokuyibuyisela. Kulezi zindlela kunezindlela eziningi: izingubo zangaphansi zobuciko, imidlalo yokudlala indima, izindawo ezintsha, ubukeka, izindlela, amathoyizi wezocansi. Konke lokhu kuzokwenza ukuphila kwakho kocansi kube mnandi futhi kucebile. Ungakhohlwa ukuxoxa nomlingani wakho izifiso zakhe.
Unganaki kakhulu izinkinga zasemakhaya
Ngokuthembeka, impilo iyabulala uthando, ngakho kufanele ikukhathaze ngokuncane ngangokunokwenzeka noma ungakhathazeki nhlobo. Lokhu akusho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuba i-hippie. Zama ukuhlomisa indlu yakho ngendlela yokuthi ayikho into engafanele kuyo. Yenze kube lula ngangokunokwenzeka emndenini wakho. Okufanayo kusebenza nasemisebenzini yamalungu omndeni wakho. Yehlisa izinkolelo mayelana nezindabuko zesilisa nabesifazane. Uzozizwa ungabhekene nokucindezeleka ngokuphila kuphela uma wenza izinto ozithandayo, futhi udlulisele konke ochwepheshe.
Khumbula: udalwe ukuthanda, hhayi ukuguga
Ngikholelwa, ngendoda ehlala ikubona ukuthi awufuni ukuba nento efanayo. Kusukela ezinjalo ngaphandle kokuthi kufihla noma ubalekele. Uma uhlale ukhomba izinto ezingahambisani nawe, maduzane uzolahlekelwa ukuvumelanisa komndeni wakho kuphela, kodwa futhi nomlingani wakho. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uqoqe imizwelo emibi kuwe, ngoba ekugcineni bayophula bese beshaya konke. Khuluma nabathandekayo bakho, futhi uma bengakuzwa, akuyona inkinga yabo, mhlawumbe kufanele ushintshe indlela. Ngendlela, cabanga ngalokhu, mhlawumbe usanda kugxila ukubaluleka kwazo zonke lezi zinto. Ingabe isidlo esisodwa esingavunyelwe silinganiswa nesikhalazo?
Thatha ngempelasonto
Akukhona ngomsebenzi, kodwa ngomndeni. Ngezinye izikhathi kudingeka futhi uphumule kuwo. Bantwana, bazali, lokhu kuyithokozisa ngokuqinisekile, kodwa ngokumelene nesizinda sabo ungalahlekelwa yiwe. Zama ukukhokha ngokwanele omunye nomunye. Yiba yedwa, shiya ndawonye edolobheni, ungadonseli izingane emva kwakho, ngezinye izikhathi ungabashiya kunogogo noma uqeshe umfana. Ngikholelwa ukuthi kuzoba ngcono kakhulu kubantwana ngokwabo, ngoba abazali abajabulayo kuyisiqinisekiso sokuxhumana okuhle emndenini.
Funa umngane omuhle kumngani
Ngeshwa, isikhathi eside siphila emshadweni, sivame ukuqala ukukhohlwa ngezici ezinhle zomuntu othandekayo futhi sigxile ekutheni sikhathazeke. Bheka iqiniso ebusweni, wonke umuntu unezici ezimbi, kodwa uthandana ngomunye nomunye ngezinto ezinhle nezibalulekile kuwe. Ngendlela, mhlawumbe isigamu sakho sesibili nje asikwazi ukukhombisa uhlangothi lwabo oluhle, ngoba asikho isizathu salokhu? Isibonelo, uma umyeni wakho engumpheki omuhle, mnike ithuba lokukwenza lokho. Futhi uma umkayo ehleka kahle, mnike ezinye izizathu zenjabulo.
Thola ukuzilibazisa okuhlangene
Ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye ungenza into evamile. Kunconywa ukuthi akuyona ukuhlanza jikelele noma ukuya emakethe. Thola ukuzilibazisa okuhlangene, isibonelo, ungenza imidlalo ndawonye, udansa, uthathwe ngokupheka noma ukuhamba. Kuzohlanganisa umndeni wakho njengoba uzothathwa okuthile okuthakazelisayo kubo bobabili, ngesikhathi esifanayo ukufunda okuthile okusha nokuwusizo.
Bonisa isithakazelo ezintweni zokuzilibazisa zomunye nomunye
Ngaphezu kokuzilibazisa okuhlangene, kufanelekile ukukhokha ngokucophelela nokuzikhethela. Akubalulekile neze ukuhlukanisa nokuzibonga, kepha inzalo ingaqinisa ubuhlobo bakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma uzwela ngothando lomyeni wakho lwependeball noma i-philately, uzohlala unesihloko sengxoxo. Uzozizwa uyingxenye yokuphila kwakhe futhi ngeke kube khona indawo yezinqola ebuhlotsheni bakho.
Thuthukisa amasiko omndeni
Lokhu ngeke kuzuze kuphela umbhangqwana wakho kuphela, kodwa futhi uzuze umndeni wonke. Ungakha isiko ngokugubha usuku oluthile, isibonelo, Unyaka Omusha noma uKhisimusi, noma udale iholidi lakho eliyingqayizivele. Khetha usuku oluthile, uqoqe abangani futhi ugubhe usuku lapho uvakashele umqondo wokuhlala ndawonye yonke impilo yakho. Ungaba nomcimbi omnandi, ngokwesibonelo, gubha usuku lapho umyeni wakho ekunika khona isikhwama. Konke lokhu kuyoba kuhle kakhulu futhi kumnandi.
Vuma uthando lwakho
Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi emva kweminyaka eminingana yokuphila komndeni, wonke amalungu omndeni uyazi ukuthi uyathandwa ngabanye. Siyaxolisa ukukucasula, akunjalo. Lokho okulula, ekuboneni kuqala, amagama amathathu adlala indima enkulu: engeza ukuzethemba, injabulo. Imizwa kufanele ihlale iboniswa, hhayi kuphela ngamagama, kodwa ngezenzo. Iqiniso zama ukulinganisa amagama nezenzo.
Qaphela omunye nomunye, ungagxila ezinkingeni futhi ufune izinzwa ezintsha nolwazi. Nansi imfihlo elula yobungane obuvumelanayo obujabulisayo obungasoze buxhomeke enani leminyaka lahlala ndawonye.