Akunjalo ngoba anginakho okuningi - ngokuphambene nalokho. Kakhulu, ukuthi ngandlela-thile kwakusho ukuthi: uma uxhumana nabo bonke omakhulukazi bakho, omalume, obakazikazi, abazalwane abane nodadewabo - impilo ayanele. Ngakho-ke, ngathola ithuba elingavamile lokusebenzisa lokhu kubaningi kwabazala bombili noma abathathu abazithandayo nabazala, omalume nobazukazi. Ngamanye amazwi, nginelungelo lokukhetha - into okuthi, ngokuya komthetho ongabhalwanga uNombolo 1, ulahlekelwa, uthola isihloko sesihlobo. Kodwa ungaphila nezihlobo endaweni eyodwa?
Lapho umama wami efika ukuvakashela umngane wami. Ngehora lesi sivakashi samgxeka konke okubambe iso lakhe. Ukugxeka kwakunikezwa iseluleko esihle, sinomsoco omuhle: "Ngifuna okungcono kakhulu." Isibonelo, wancoma kakhulu umshana ukuthi enze enye, indawo engcono efulethini. Ngenxa yokuthi intombi isanda kuqeda, iseluleko sasihlekisa noma sigijimela kabi: "Konke okwenzile akuyona into enhle". Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, lo wesifazane watshela i-bloodline ukuthi wayegqoke izindonga ngephepha elingekho emthethweni, wathenga ipuleti engalungile, amaphubhu angalungile futhi, ngokuqinisekile, wawasebenzisa kabi etafuleni. Angazi ukuthi yini eyenza owesifazane enze lokhu - ukukhuliswa kabi noma isifiso sokuzifakazela? Kodwa lapho umnyango ushaya ngemuva kwakhe, ngangazi kahle ukuthi umngane wami wazizwa kanjani, njengokungathi wayesehlanya kusukela ekhanda kuya enyaweni, engiphoqa ukuba ngimomotheka kabi. "Ngeke ngimememe futhi!" Washo ngokubukhali. Ngikusekele ngokugcwele ...
Kodwa-ke, isigamu sonyaka kamuva, umthetho ngokuzumayo wathola ukulandelela. Indaba yomalume omubi weza engxoxweni evamile. "Yilokho, kanjani, ngeke ummeme? - owaziwayo washaywa ukuphela. "Ungumama wakho." "Kodwa u-anti wami wayeziphatha kabi kakhulu," ngamemezela umngane wami. - "Futhi kuthiwani? - Angizange ngiyiqonde impikiswano ejwayelekile. "Ungumama." Umamazala, lapho efika ekhaya, uziphatha kabi nakakhulu. Kodwa ngingenzani - yena, unina womyeni wakhe. Wamfundisa ngaphandle koyise, ngaphandle kwakhe, akanakho. Kumelwe sikhuthazele. "
Khona-ke nami ngakhele inombolo yomthetho engapheli 2, eyatshela indlela yokuhlala nezihlobo endaweni eyodwa. Izihlobo zinelungelo lokusicasula ngoba ziyizihlobo zethu. Omama banelungelo lokuphambukisa izimpilo zethu, ngoba bangomama bethu. Futhi le mithetho ibonakala ingenakunyakaziswa kwabaningi ukuthi ngisho nomzamo wokubeka umbuzo umbuzo ekugcineni uzobonakala uhlambalaza esikhundleni sephuzu. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuzama ... Ingabe isikhundla esiphakeme sikamama simnika ilungelo lokuphatha impilo yomndeni yengane yakhe? Isikhundla sesihlobo sithatha umuntu onomsebenzi ukuba alungile futhi ahloniphe? Futhi, ekugcineni, izibopho zomndeni zinikeza abantu ilungelo ngisho nokuthi bangakuthandi ngokusobala?
Iminyaka engamashumi amane (!) Kuphela , umngane wami wathatha isinqumo esinamandla futhi wayeka ukuxhumana noyise. "Akusikho kuye," kuchaza yena. "Emkhatsini wakhe wesithathu." Wayehlala engangithandi ngokungenangqondo. Yiqiniso, akazange abize, akashaywanga ... Ngeshwa. Ngabe ngizohamba ngokushesha. " Intombazane engaba ngu-20 ubudala kwakufanele ihlale naye ngamaholide etafuleni elifanayo futhi ilalele: "O, yiyiphi i-blouse enhle enayo. Uhlobo luni oluqinile? Uyithengi ku-bazaar? Kubumpofu ... Ingabe umyeni wakho uthola kancane kangaka? Akunenhlanhla, awunalo inhlanhla naye ... "noma" Awukho eVienna? Yeka ukuthi kuyabuhlungu kanjani. Yile ndlela impilo izodlula ngayo, futhi ngeke ubone lutho. Emva kwakho konke, awusayintombazane, unemibono emehlweni akho. " "Uyazi, angiyona intombazane," kusho umngane. - Ngikhathele ukuvakashela futhi ngilalele ukuthi bangihlazisa kanjani ngenxa yokukhohliswa okujwayelekile komndeni omuhle ohlakaniphile. Uma ubaba efuna ukungibona, sizohlangana kwenye insimu. "
Ngesikhathi ngisaphila nomama, isihlobo sasivakashela (hhayi omunye wabathandekayo kakhulu). Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, saqaphela ukuthi izinto zanyamalala endlini. Akubizi futhi kuyigugu - umagazini engiwubeke eceleni kwesiguwu sezingalo, okuhlose ukufunda kusihlwa, uphondo lwezicathulo ... Isivakashi asizange seba - wabathatha ngaphandle kokufuna, wasithatha futhi akazange abuyele ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lo magazini ukhohliwe ebhasi le-trolley, uphondo lulahlekile ... Umama onothando ozama ukuphoqa ukuba ngigcine amehlo ami kuwo. Ngaphula phansi ebalazweni laseKiev - uhlelo olujwayelekile olungayithengela kwi-kiosk ye-hryvnia encane, kodwa ebiza kakhulu kimi, ngoba phakathi nocwaningo olwaluzungeza umuzi, imizila eminingi yayidonsela kuyo. Ngangidinga ngokuphuthumayo. Futhi ngemva kokuthola ukulahlekelwa, ngitshele isivakashi konke. Waxolisa. Lesi sigameko siphelile.
Ngolunye usuku ngifunda i-anecdote . "Umfundi wesikole ubhala indaba. "Ngeshwa, amama, obaba nezinye izihlobo bafika kithi ngaleso sikhathi lapho kungenakwenzeka ukulungisa imikhuba yabo emibi." Smirking, wavumelana naye. Kodwa hhayi kuze kube sekupheleni. Ngezinye izikhathi asizami ukwenza. Sithule nje futhi sibekezela, silalela umthetho ngokugqilaza: "Awu, ungenzenjani? Kufana (umama, umkhwekazi, umzala, umalume)." Kodwa uma ngingathuli esimweni sebalazwe, isihlobo sami esivela kukholomu "hhayi esithandwa kakhulu" sasizohamba "kulabo abangafanele bakhulume nabo." Ngemva kokuchazwa naye, sahlukana ngokwejwayelekile, futhi kamuva wayebuye avakashele futhi. Yebo, wakwenza ngokungazelelwe. Mina, ngokombono wami, nami. "Ungenzenjani? Awungakhulelwanga emakhasini, kepha ngise-Institute of Noble Maidens," savuma. Kodwa ukungapheleli kwethu kusisize ukuba sihlale singabangane.
Futhi nginqabile ukubona inomboro engaphenduli inombolo 3. Kungcono ngokuzonda ukuzondeza izihlobo kunokuba ungaboni ngokukhululekile, ukukhuluma nabo ngokukhululekile nokwakha ubudlelwane. Ngoba ngiyazi ngokuhlangenwe nakho - kungenzeka! Futhi nabomama, kanye nonina, ngisho nonogogo abaneminyaka engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye ubudala ungavumelana - ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukukhuluma nabo ngamazwi afanayo alula ongatshela umngane wakho.
Ingabe kufanelekile ukubekezelela ukungaziphathi kahle okungavamile? Ikakhulu uma isimo singalungiswa? Uma ngabe amazinyo angenalutho, thina ngokwethu sizenzele ababulali abasemthethweni? "Mhlawumbe," umngane wakho wanezela, "uma ngihlubuka ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngineminyaka engamashumi amabili, futhi ngenqaba ukuya endlini kababa, ngabe ngabe uyaqonda: kukhona okungalungile. Manje akazange aqonde ngisho nokuthi kungani ngavele ngahlubuka. "
Angikuqamba amanga kuwe - ngezinye izikhathi ngokuzama ukukhuluma ngenhliziyo enhliziyweni, akukho lutho olwenzekayo. Kumele uphakamise isikhalazo sokwethenjelwa bese uthi: "Awulungile" - umuntu wakho oseduze ufihla ngokushesha ngemuva kokungahambi kahle, njengodonga, imithetho engavumelekile esiyakhe. "Izihlobo zinelungelo lokusicasula ngoba ziyizihlobo zethu." Okuvela kulokhu okulandelayo: izihlobo awunalo ilungelo lokucasula (okungenani, isikhathi eside). Ngaphezu kwalokho, akenzi lutho, ngoba, ngokuvumelana nomthetho inombolo 1, ukukhetha - ukuxhumana nabo noma cha - awunayo. Futhi ngokuvamile umndeni wenqabe ukuvuma amaphutha abo, ukuzithengisa, noma ngisho ukuzibophezela ngokwazisa ngokuyisisekelo kithi uma nje bekholelwa ekungeneni kwawo. Uma bakholelwa ilungelo lakho lokukhetha, izinto zishintsha kanjani. Umngane wami akazange axhumane nomama wami cishe unyaka. Bese bahlangana ndawonye. Akekho owatshela noma yini, kodwa njengokungathi ngomlingo, umama wami waphenduka waba ngowesifazane omnandi nomhlaba. Mhlawumbe wayengafuni ukulahlekelwa ngumshana wakhe. Noma mhlawumbe ubudlelwane begazi bukhona futhi i-unspoken nayo isifinyelela nathi. Ngifuna ukukholelwa kulokhu ...
Ngoba kukhona okunye okuphazamisayo. Esikhathini sethu, lapho imindeni yezinzalamizi ihlala esikhathini esedlule, imithetho emithathu yobugqila bezobudlelwane nezihlobo nayo ichazwe ukuthi thina ... sikhohlwe ubudlelwane obuhle obudala bezinzalamizi nezihlobo! Kuyinto eyodwa lapho umndeni engumama ongashadile nendodana yakhe endala, eyachaza ukuthi: "Ngikunikele konke, futhi ngaphandle kwakho, anginakho." Futhi okunye okunye, lapho esondelene namashumi amahlanu - abazala, abazala, abazala, kodwa bazizwa bebahlobo oluvamile! Futhi ungakhetha kubo labo abavumelana nomoya kanye nesibonakaliso se-zodiac. Futhi uma udinga usizo, futhi umyeni usematasa - usanda kubiza umalume noma umfowenu. Futhi umama wesifazane oyingozi kuyisicefe esincane, uma kungenjalo abathathu, kodwa omalume abangamashumi amabili, obakazikazi, abazala, nabazala wakhe bahlala emkhosini etafuleni. Uhlala nje kwenye indawo ekupheleni kwetafula nalabo abathandekayo kuwe. Futhi noma ngabe ngelinye ilanga awukwazi ukuza, akekho ozokusola ngokukhaphela amasiko omndeni ... Kule kagal lokhu ngeke kuphawulwe!