Imithetho yokukhohlisa kwanoma yimuphi umuntu

Ngokuvame kakhulu ekuphileni kwethu, lapho sibona owesifazane ongekho omuhle kakhulu eceleni komuntu omuhle kakhulu, abantu bayathinteka, bezibuza yona nabanye: "Yini ayitholile kuye?" Futhi uma le ndoda nomfazi, futhi behlala bejabule njalo, akucaci ukuthi yikuphi okuqala ukukhohlisa, wabe esekwazi ukuhlala esondelene, ekwakheni umndeni onamandla futhi onobunye, naphezu kokuthi kukhona amantombazane nabesifazane abasha nabanhle kakhulu abasha nabesifazane abasha.

Mhlawumbe, lona wesifazane wayazi imithetho yokukhohlisa kwanoma yimuphi umuntu owayekhona esikhathini esidlule. Kufanele ukwazi ukukhumbula isiqhingi saseSirens esivela encwadini ethi "Odyssey", abafazi babo baqale bahlabelelwa ukucula okuhle kuka-Odysseus nabangane bakhe, bese kuthi ngemva kokukhohlisa, bagcinwa isikhathi eside esiqhingini sabo. Esinye isibonelo sisefilimu ethi "Izimemo Ze Geisha", lapho abalobi bebonisa khona indlela ende futhi enzima yokufundisa amantombazane amancane, emva kokukhula, abe geisha yeqiniso. Njengoba ufunde imithetho yokukhohlisa kwanoma yimuphi umuntu, lezi geishazi zikwazi ukubuka noma ukumisa noma yimuphi umuntu. Angikhulumi ngama-courtesans, angase akhohlise ngisho namakhosi abe yizintandokazi zabo. Ngakho-ke, ukudukiswa komuntu kuyinhloko ephakade, ngaso sonke isikhathi nakuzo zonke izizwe zomhlaba isihloko siyihloko futhi siyathandeka kubo bonke abesifazane. Wonke owesifazane angathanda ukwazi le mithetho ukuze noma ubani angamnaka. Ukudukisa indoda akufanele kumkhohlise. Amadoda ngokwesimo sokwemvelo angamadoda, ngakho-ke ngokuzithandela baya oxhumana nabo ngokobulili ngesikhathi esisodwa, abangenawo umsebenzi. Kodwa ukuhlala enkumbulweni yakhe, ukumkhumbula, ukuba iphupho lakhe alinikezwa wonke owesifazane.

Uhlu lwemithetho yokukhohlisa kwanoma yimuphi umuntu:

  1. Funda ukunakekela umzimba wakho: nsuku zonke izinwele zakho kufanele zihlanzeke, ubuso obusha, obungakhathali, nokwakheka kugcizelele kancane isithunzi saso, izandla ezihlanjululwe nge-manicure, imilenze enezithende ezithambile nokuhamba ngezinyawo. Engeza iphunga elimnandi lamafutha noma amanzi anamakha, nomuntu onyawo lwakho.
  2. Ezingubo, gcina isitayela. Intombazane e-skirt yama-classic (ukugqoka iziketi ngezikhathi eziningi, lokhu kuyathandeka kakhulu kubantu) futhi izicathulo zezemidlalo zibukeka ngokubukeka komuntu. Izembatho kufanele zihlanzeke futhi zenziwe nge-ironed. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, kunoma yikuphi ukugqoka, bukela ukuma kwakho, ungahlali.
  3. Zama ukuba ngumuntu wesilisa. Lokhu kusho ukuthi akufanele ukuhlambalaza, hhayi ukumboza konke okungenzeka futhi akunakwenzeka. Indoda ithanda ukuba nemfihlakalo owesifazane owesifazane okufanele ahlale engumfihlakalo kuye, futhi ngaphansi kwezingubo zezintelezi zakhe babecabanga nje ukuthi bangena egumbini lokucabanga kanye nokucabanga. Kuyinto ejabulisa kakhulu ukuphupha kunokubulala iphupho ngeqiniso. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ubuhlobo obuhle, ngokuhamba kahle, njalo kumomotheka.
  4. Owesifazane kufanele akhumbule ukuthi ungowesifazane ogqoke izingubo nokuziphatha, futhi uhlukile kumuntu. Yilokuhlukana okuheha umuntu. Izingubo, iziketi, izitokisi, izithende eziphakeme; ukubukeka kahle, i-eyelashes elula kancane, isiko lokuziphatha nokukhulisa, ikhono lokuhola noma ukusekela ingxoxo - lolu luhlu olungaphelele abantu abaye bawazisa ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi sihlanganisa nalokhu umqondo wesithunzi.
  5. Hlonipha indoda kumuntu, ngaso sonke isikhathi mnike ithuba lokufakazela, ungathathi okwenziwe yile ndoda kuwe nangakho: ukhokhe imali yokuhamba, unike isandla uma ushiya ezokuthutha, usize ukuba ususe futhi ufake izingubo zangaphandle, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - uthatha izinqumo futhi uthatha umthwalo kubo.
  6. Akekho owesifazane oyedwa owahlukunyezwa ngokudlala ngothando. Ukudlala ngothando kuyinto umdlalo. Abantu bathanda ukudlala, banikeze leli thuba: funda ukulalela indoda enesithakazelo, ukusekela ingxoxo, futhi ngenkathi ibheka emehlweni akhe futhi ibambe isikhathi eside, kumomotheka, ngikholelwa, lokhu kuyalimaza kakhulu. Thatha isinyathelo: ngokumthinta kalula, siza umuntu ukuba enze isinyathelo kuwe. Zonke lezi zibonakaliso zokunaka zikhuluma ngokucacile mayelana nokuthi ulindele ukuqhubeka kobudlelwano, ngoba indoda ayithandi futhi ayifuni ukuqagela izifiso zabesifazane.

Abesifazane abathandekayo, imithetho ilula kakhulu, ukuthi ngokuqiniseka ungasho ukuthi uzophumelela.