Kusukela kudalwa umhlaba, abantu bayaphikisana ngokuthi ubulili bubaluleke kangakanani: owesilisa noma owesifazane. Kusukela kumzuzwana ofanayo, kukhona umzabalazo ongabonakali phakathi kowesifazane kanye nendoda endaweni enkulu yomholi ebuhlotsheni.
Ekuboneni kokuqala, umehluko phakathi kowesifazane nowendoda uqondakala kahle. Owesifazane kusukela esikhathini esidlule uthathwa njengomgcini wezindlu nomama, lo muntu - umthengisi nomvikeli. Namuhla lezi zici zishintshile kancane. Noma kunjalo, umehluko omkhulu phakathi kobulili kuvela emkhakheni wezocansi.
Mayelana namadoda
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi amadoda athande amehlo futhi adonsela isithombe esibukwayo, kanti owesifazane, ngokuphambene nalokho, akanandaba nesithombe esibukwayo, kodwa ulalela iphunga lomuntu wakhe. Uma ulala ocansini, umuntu usebenza njengesisulu, futhi owesifazane uzimisele ngokuzithoba kwakhe. Ngakho-ke, kumuntu ukuba afinyelele iphuzu eliphakeme kakhulu lokuthakazelisa, isenzo ngokwayo sanele, ngoba sithokoze kakhulu kuhlobo oluthile lomzimba wesifazane onqunu. Iningi labesilisa lithola i-orgasm ekutholeni kocansi okokuqala, lapho belahlekelwa ubuntombi babo. Kunzima kowesifazane ukuba afinyelele i-orgasm, ngoba lokhu udinga ulwazi oluthile, ukwazi kahle umzimba wakhe kanye nezindawo zakhe ezingaqondakali, ukufunda indlela yokuzikhukhumeza emoyeni futhi ukukhulula umbono wakhe ngezinqatshelwe ezifundisiwe kusukela ebuntwaneni.
Mayelana nabesifazane
Uma kuqhathaniswa nendoda, i-orgasm yowesifazane inamandla kaningi futhi ihlala isikhathi eside, njengoba amandla nekhwalithi ye-orgasm yowesifazane ithonywa kakhulu yizici ezingokomzwelo. Uma owesifazane engazizwa ethembekile kumuntu, phambi kwakhe uzizwa engakhululekile ngokwengqondo, esaba ukuthi umlingani angayiphonsa noma aphuthe, ngakho-ke akunakwenzeka ukuthola i-orgasm ngisho nangomuntu othandekayo.
Njengoba imiphumela yocwaningo ibonisa, inani eliningi kakhulu labesifazane likhononda ngokungabi nalutho lokufudumala nokuthandwa kwabalingani babo. Futhi ngokuphambene nalokho, izikhalazo zalolu hlobo kusuka kubantu ziza kathathu kancane.
Ukuphila kobulili komuntu wesifazane nakho kuthonywa kakhulu umjikelezo wakhe wokuya esikhathini. Isimo sengqondo sabesifazane sincike ngokuqondile esihlokweni se-hormonal sowesifazane, yingaleso sikhathi ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ubonakala ecasuliwe, esaba futhi ethinta. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isifiso sobulili sanda noma siyancipha kuye ngosuku lokujikeleza esikhathini, iphuzu eliphakeme kakhulu elifika ngesikhathi sokuvuthwa - isikhathi sokusola.
Futhi, isibalo esikhulu samadoda sinesimo sengqondo esingalungile mayelana nokushaya indlwabu yowesifazane kanye nokubonakaliswa kwesinyathelo sakhe. Bavame ukubheka ukubonakaliswa kwesinyathelo njengesibonakaliso sokungcola. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezimo eziningi lapho umuntu ethathwa khona ngokwesaba ukungabi khona kwakhe kwecala futhi uqala ukuziqhathanisa nabalingani bokuqala esimweni esithile. Ngeshwa, ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi amadoda angama-60% asola abesifazane ngenxa yokuhluleka kwabo ngokobulili, futhi ukuvutha kwamakhaza nabesifazane kubhekwa njengesizathu salokhu, kanye nesinyathelo esiningi.
Ukushaya indlwabu yowesifazane kuyindlela eyodwa yokufunda nokuqonda umzimba wakho, nokufeza ukuvumelana ngokocansi. Amadoda amaningi asabela kumuntu wesifazane ngokushaya indlwabu ngokuyinhloko, ngoba akholelwa ukuthi kuleli cala abawanelisi umlingani. Kodwa-ke, iningi lezocansi ze-sexopathologists zifana nomqondo wokuthi ukushaya indlwabu yindoda kuyisinyathelo sokuqala endleleni yokwelapha okuthiwa ukucwiliswa.
Ukufeza ukuvumelana okuphelele
Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ukuhlukana kwengqondo nokungokwenyama phakathi kowesifazane nowendoda akusiyo isithiyo ekufezeni ubudlelwane ebuhlotsheni, umuntu kumele azame ukuqonda umlingani wakhe kanye nengqondo yakhe. Njengoba uwazi izimiso eziyinhloko zokuziphatha komlingani wakho, uzobona noma uzokwazi ukucabanga ukuthi kungenzeka kanjani izenzo nezenzo ezizokusiza ukuthi ungenzi amaphutha ebuhlotsheni.