Ubulili
Ngokuvamile, thina, besifazane, kungukuya ocansini futhi sidonsa amadoda ngokusebenzisa inethiwekhi. Akuyona into yokuthi izinyathelo ezihlukahlukene zokuziphatha zakhiwe ngale ndaba, njenge "imithetho yokuvakasha amahlanu", "bangaki kisses" njalonjalo. Konke lokhu kuyadingeka ukuba sibonise indoda esiyidingayo ukuthi silwe nathi futhi akulula ukuthola lokho. Lesi simiso sokuziphatha sisekelwe kwengqondo elula kunazo zonke izilwane zasendle, ezivela kithi ngokwemvelo kamama. Kodwa awukwazi ukuwunyathela ngaphezulu.
Kuwesifazane, ubulili kusho okuningi. Kuye, lesi yisinyathelo esinomthwalo wemfanelo. Akazimisele kakhulu ukulala nomuntu wokuqala wenjabulo. Kuzo zonke izinto ezinjalo zenzeka. Kodwa ngokujwayelekile, ubulili bekhwalithi buzoba kuphela nalabo abanemizwa yabo.
Uthando
Yiqiniso, ubulili bubalulekile. Kodwa konke kubaluleke kakhulu kowesifazane kunothando. Lo mzwelo uyasisusa sonke isikhathi: ukuqala ebhentshini yesikole nokuphela eminyakeni ekhulile. Kungabonakala kaningi, kepha kungaba izikhathi ezimbalwa ekuphileni. Futhi uthando luvela njalo kumantombazane ngokuzumayo. Futhi kuyesabeka ukuthi noma yiyiphi intombazane iholela ekudleni noma ekucindezelekeni. Inketho yesithathu ayikho isikhathi eside. Kuyinto uthando oluqhubekisa abesifazane abaningi ezenzweni ezingenasici futhi ezingenangqondo. Futhi asikwazi ukukusiza. Njengoba bethi, awuniki inhliziyo enhliziyweni yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi uthando olusha luphela emshadweni oqeda emva kweminyaka eminingana. Ngezinye izikhathi kungadlulela ukuphila kwakho konke, kepha lezo zimo zivame kakhulu.
Ezigaba zokuqala zokuthandana, asikwazi ngokuphelele ukuphawula komlingani wethu. Futhi yilokho inkathazo yonke. Phela, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lapho imizwa iba buthakathaka, siqala ukuhlola isimo ngokucophelela futhi ngezinye izikhathi siyazibuza ukuthi sihlalaphi. Ngezinye izikhathi uthando ngezo zonke izinhlobo zokububula kanye ne-ahampererastaet ngokumane nje kube ocansini.
Kuwo wonke wesifazane, uthando yilokho aphefumulela khona, uhlala. Kuye, lokhu kuyisisusa esihle. Futhi naphezu kwazo zonke iziphukuphuku esizenzayo ngothando, singaphetha ngokuthi kufanelekile.
Umshado
Kwabesifazane, isigamu somshado yisimo. Ukushintsha isikhundla sabo somphakathi, sifuna ukwenza umqondo kwabanye, futhi nhlobo. Lokhu kuhlanganiswe ngokujulile ekucabangeni kwethu. Ukuvumelanisa emshadweni, sifuna ukufakazela kubazali ukuthi bakhule futhi baba abazimele, abangani - ukukhombisa ukuthi ngihle kangakanani, ukuthi bangikhethile njalonjalo. Futhi abesifazane abaningi abashadile bakholelwa ukuthi bayabukela. Kodwa-ke, isizathu esiyinhloko esenza amantombazane ashade ukuvikeleka komphakathi. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngamunye wethu ufuna ukuba abe buthakathaka futhi abe mnene, ukuthola ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa kumuntu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba eshadile, intombazane iyaqonda ukuthi ngeke kudingeke ikhathazeke ngenxa yokungakwazi ukusebenza okwesikhashana emsebenzini, ukukhulelwa, ukubhekana nezinkinga zezimali, imisebenzi yasendlini. Emva kwakho konke, kuyoba nehlombe elinamandla nelithembekile eduze kwalo.
Labo besifazane abazokwazi ukuziqhenya emishadweni bajabule kakhulu. Kodwa, ngeshwa, azikho eziningi kakhulu.
Ngemva kokuhlola amaphuzu amancane besifazane ezintweni ezibucayi, singakwazi ukuqhubeka nokubukwa kwesilisa kulezi zinto ezifanayo. Kulesi simo, ngeke sicabangele isigaba samadoda asebenza ngokocansi kuphela. Isithombe sethu sihlakaniphile, siqinile, sihlala isikhathi eside, sinezinzwa zensimbi kanye namandla, indoda. I-Ithaca ayiyona encane kakhulu, njengoba kubonakala ngathi.
Ubulili
Ubulili buyingqayizivele yomuntu siqu futhi obuseduze. Yingakho, ngesikhathi singaveza izinto ezihlukene, okungazange sikwazi ukuqagela ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Ngesikhathi socansi, indoda isengozini kakhulu, ivulekile futhi ingenakuzivikela. Ngakho-ke, ngandlela-thile, ubulili bungabhekwa njengento yokwethemba. Kule ndawo lapho umuntu eyeka ukuqina futhi aphenduke "isilo esithandekayo." Ukuze umuntu abonise imizwa yakhe akulula, kepha uma enza lokho, qiniseka ukuthi, amantombazane, ukuthi uyethemba ngokuphelele. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ngesikhathi sokulala, lo wesilisa uyamangalisa. Uzama ukujabulisa umlingani wakhe futhi enze umqondo kuye. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, udinga ukwanelisa izifiso zakhe futhi ngezinye izikhathi kubonisa ukuhlakanipha.
Kumuntu, ubulili, okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuqinisekiswa ngokwakho. Kumuntu wangempela, njalo konke nokunye kufanele kube kuhle. Khona-ke uyazicabangela yena ngokwakhe.
Uthando
Amadoda ambalwa kuphela abonisa imizwa yabo, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu abakhombise obala esidlangalaleni. Ngakho-ke, njengomthetho, indoda enothando izama ukubonisa uthando kumuntu othile. Uyobe ethandana nomndeni wakhe onothando, kodwa emphakathini angaholela ngokuhluke kakhulu. Kodwa ekhaya uzobe esilungele ukwenza konke: ugeze izitsha, wenze isidlo sakusihlwa futhi uhlanze ngisho nefulethi uma ebuzwa ngakho.
Vumela la madoda angabonakali ngokucacile imizwa yabo ngamazwi, kodwa alungele ukuzinikela. Bazama ngazo zonke izindlela ukuthi ukuphila komuntu othandekayo kube lula, kungcono, kukhanye, kuyathandeka futhi kugcwaliswe kakhulu. Ukuphila ngenxa yentombazane, egameni lakhe. Lo mzwa ungahlala iminyaka yobudala.
Ngakho-ke, madodakazi othandekayo, kukhona amadoda angempela. Futhi njengoba ubona, bayakwazi ukuthanda kakhulu futhi banomdlandla njengoba senza. Kodwa ngokuvamile bavame ukubonisa uthando lwabo ngezenzo, hhayi ngamagama.
Umshado
Kulesi sinyathelo, bambalwa kunqunywa. Abanye badinga isikhathi esiningi sokushada. Futhi akukhona ngemizwa. Iqiniso liwukuthi umuntu wesaba izinguquko ezinjalo. Phela, abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi uma ushada, inkululeko ilahlekile, ebaluleke kakhulu kubaningi. Abanye abangekho abahlakaniphile kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, ukuhlukanisa kwenzeka ngenxa yephutha lamadoda. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuba unikeze isandla nenhliziyo kwintombazane, kudingeka ucabange ngokucophelela: "Ulungele ukwakha umndeni futhi uthathe umthwalo wemfanelo?". Ukushada, udinga ukulwa nezifiso zakho, izimiso nezifiso zakho. Indawo yokuqala kufanele ibeke izithakazelo zomfazi nezingane. Emahlombe amadoda ashadile alala lezo zinkinga ezingabakhathazi nhlobo. Futhi into esabekayo kakhulu yindoda ukuthi manje ngeke ibe yedwa kubo, kodwa nakwezinye izingxenye. Futhi isiphetho sabo bobabili manje sizoxhomeka kubo.
Umshado ngumthwalo omkhulu, okwesabisa bonke abamele abesilisa abesilisa. Futhi akukho lutho olungenziwa ngalokhu. Ngesikhathi umfana ngokwakhe engaqapheli ukuthi usekulungele isinyathelo esinzima kangaka, akukho okuhle okuzovela kuwo.
Njengoba ubona, amadoda nabesifazane bahluke kakhulu. Thina, madodakazi, sinobubele futhi sithandekayo, sithinta imizwelo futhi sinesimo esihle. Amantombazane - ngokuphambene, angathandi ukubonisa imizwelo futhi akhulume okuningi ngothando. Kulula kubo ukuveza konke ukuziphatha. Kodwa-ke, uma uthola indoda yangempela enezindinganiso eziphakeme zokuziphatha, khona-ke ungaqiniseka kukho amaphesenti ayikhulu. Ngalo muntu, intombazane ngayinye izozizwa ivikelekile, ithandwayo futhi ijabule.