Ulinde isikhathi eside kulolu suku. Bobabili wena nensizwa yakho nithola injabulo nenjabulo. Kodwa abantu abasha ababuya ebuthweni bakhathazekile kakhulu. Ngempela, okwesikhathi eside babekude nabazali babo, idolobha lakubo, abathandekayo babo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, wawusekhaya ngezimo ezijwayelekile kuwe. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuhlangabezana nesosha ukuze lo mhlangano umsize abuyele empilweni yomphakathi.
Kule ndaba, yonke intombazane ehlangana nesosha, iyabuza: "Indlela yokuhlangana nomfana ovela ebuthweni, ngakho kwakungenakulibaleka?". Siyabona masinyane ukuthi lo mbuzo awunayo impendulo yonke, efanelekayo kubo bonke imibhangqwana. Umgomo wethu uzoba ukuletha kuwe amathiphu ambalwa kuphela azosiza amantombazane, ekulindeni ukuhlangana nomfana wabo, alahlekelwe ngenjabulo, aqoqe imicabango yabo.
Indlela yokuhlangana nomfana ovela ebuthweni
Okokuqala, qiniseka ukuthi uhlangana nomfana esiteshini. Le mizuzu yokuqala ayibalulekile kuphela isosha, kodwa kuwe. Phela, lezi zikhathi zizohlala zikhunjulwe njalo - ngokujabula kwezinyembezi emehlweni akho, inhliziyo yakho iphuma esifuba sakho, uthi into engekho amagama, ukuhlangana okuqinile kuphela. Ekhanda lomfana uzothatha umqondo owodwa: "Wayekulinda! Ngilinde! ".
Manje usungumlobokazi womfana, hhayi nje intombazane ethandekayo eyabhalela izincwadi. Intombazane ethandekayo eye yamlinda, iyobe ilungele ukwenza konke. Uma ufuna ukutshela umfana mayelana nemizwa yakho lapho uhlangana, akufanele ube namahloni ukusho amazwi abumnene, ngoba nakanjani phakathi nesikhathi sakhe bobabili nivame ukucabanga ngalokho ongakhulumisana nomunye nomunye lapho uhlangana. Nokho, ukuhlangana ngamehlo akho, awukwazi ukukhuluma igama, njengoba wonke amagama ehlaselwa. Kulokhu akukho lutho olwesabekayo, futhi okungenani leli gama lizosiza inhliziyo.
Othandekayo wakho angakucela ukuba usondele kuye lapho uhlangana nabangane, abazali nezinye izihlobo. Mhlawumbe ufuna ukukutshela emndenini nabangane bakhe, ukuze babone futhi bafunde ukuthi intombazane yakhe ethandekayo iye yakwazi ukugcina imizwa yakhe ngaye isikhathi eside. Kungcono ukulungiselela lokhu kusengaphambili, thatha usuku emsebenzini, uxwayise ukuthi ngeke ube khona enkulumweni ngalolu suku.
Silungiselela isimanga
Ngesikhathi ulinde umhlangano nomngane wakho othandekayo, ungamlungiselela ukumangala, okufanele unikezwe emva kwemihlangano eminingi nezihlobo lapho uwedwa. Awubonanga isikhathi eside, futhi konke owaziyo ngomunye nomunye futhi wakhumbula kwakushiywe esikhathini esidlule. Ngemuva kwalesi sikhathi ngenkathi umfana ekhonza, nonke nishintshane, imicabango, ukubukwa, isimo sengqondo sishintshiwe. Ucabanga ukuthi uyathandana kanye nangaphambili, kodwa ngoba imizwa yakho nemizwa yakho yayifana nawe ngaphambi kokuhlukaniswa. Akuyona into yokuthi kukhona umbono wokuthi ibutho lihlola imizwa.
Njengoba uhlangane ngemva kokuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside, kuzodingeka ufunde futhi, ujwayele izinguquko zobuntu bakho. Ngakho-ke, kungaba kuhle ukudla nge-candlelight, emva kokuhamba ngezinyawo lapho uhlangana khona noma uqale wabanga. Ukuhleka, izinkumbulo - konke kungaba "ukuvuselela" imizwa yakho, okuzoqhubeka ikulethe.
Kusihlwa, kungcono ukungabi khona noma kuphi, ukuchithe endaweni ehlelekile, ehlala ekhaya, lapho isosha libuhlungu khona. Ungakwazi ukubhuka igumbi lehhotela ngaphambi kwesikhathi, cela noma umboze ithebula egumbini bese uchitha ubusuku ndawonye ngokuthula. Ukumboza itafula ngendwangu yamathambo enhle enhle yeqhwa, uyihlobise ngama-rose petals, ukhanyise amakhandlela, vala ukukhanya, vula umculo ophansi, omnene. Gqoka ingubo yakho engcono, tshela amagama amnandi komunye nomunye, udlala ngothando - kulokhu kusihlwa kungokwakho.
Kuncike ekutheni ubusuku bokuqala buzodlula kanjani emva kokuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside, yiziphi izinkumbulo ezizohlala kumfana obuyele ebuthweni.
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