Izingane azizona injabulo kuphela kunoma yimuphi owesifazane, kodwa futhi zivivinyo olukhulu. Ikakhulukazi owesifazane webhizinisi, owayevame ukusebenzisa isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini wakhe. Ingabe lokhu kusho ukuthi ukubeletha kuyadingeka kakhulu emsebenzini? Akunjalo! Ungathola indlela yokuhlanganisa umsebenzi nokukhulisa ingane, ufihle imvuthuluka yakho kulabo abangathembeka. Kodwa yini okufanele ukhethe - inkulisa, usizo lwe-nanny noma ugogo? Inketho ngayinye inezinzuzo zayo kanye nokuqapha kwayo ...
Akungabazeki ukuthi kungcono uma umama ekhuliswe kusukela esemncane. Kodwa izwe lanamuhla lisho izimo zalo. Iningi loomama bakhetha ukubuyela emsebenzini ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane - futhi lokhu kuyilungelo labo eliphelele. Kodwa sekuyisikhathi sokunquma ukuthi ubani ongamethemba ingane yakho? Izinketho ngokuvamile zintathu kuphela. Ake sicabangele ngamunye wabo ngokuningiliziwe.
Inkulana
Inkinga enkulu lapha ayitholi ingadi efanelekile eduze nendlu. Akuzona zonke izikhungo ezithatha izingane ezincane kakhulu, ngaphandle kweqiniso, izikhungo ezizimele. Kodwa mayelana nabo kamuva. Ezinkulisa ezijwayelekile zoluhlobo olujwayelekile, izingane zamukelwa kusukela eminyakeni emibili ubudala. Futhi emva kokuqokwa emva kokuthunyelwa komsebenzi wezokwelapha. Ingane engakwazi ukuzikhandla (ukudla, ukugcina indebe, ukuya endlini yangasese noma okungenani ibhodlela) ingasheshi ukuthatha engadini. Yilungiselele lokhu. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi akukho mthetho othize noma umthethonqubo ngalesi sikolo, othisha benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuba bangazibekeli "inhlekelele". Inkinga yesibili isimo somzimba wengane. Uma ingane yakho ivame ukugula futhi kunesiqiniseko sezokwelapha ekhadini - ingadi ingala ngokusemthethweni ukuthatha ingane yakho ekhaya lakho. Futhi izoba ngokomthetho ngokulungile. Inkinga enkulu - ukujwayela ingane encane eqenjini lezingane, ukuphila ngaphandle kwekhaya ngokuvumelana nemithetho nemigomo ecacile, ukucindezeleka nokuzihlukanisa nezihlobo - zonke lezi zizathu ezibalulekile zokucabanga.
Izinzuzo
- Enkulisa ingane izoxhumana futhi isetshenziswe phambi kwabantu abaningi ngisho nabantu abangabazi, ngaphandle kokwesaba kwabo. Ngakho-ke, ukuya esikoleni, ingane ngeke ihlangabezane nokucindezeleka okuvela ezinganeni eziningi ezikhuliswe ekhaya. Wayejwayele ukuthi ukunakekelwa akukhokhelwe yena kuphela, ukuthi wayengeyona "inkaba yomhlaba," ukuthi kwakukhona ezinye izingane eziseduze.
- Enkulisa, ukukhuliswa kwengane kuzokwenziwa ngaphansi kokufundiswa nokuphathwa kwabasebenzi abaqeqeshiwe abaneminyaka eminingi abanolwazi.
- Enkulisa, izingane zifunda isiyalo nemisebenzi eminingi ewusizo ekukhuleni kwabo. Bahlakulela ukucabanga, ubuhlakani, namakhono azoba usizo esikhathini esizayo.
Ukungalungi
- Umntanakho angase azizwe ekhohliwe futhi eshiyiwe, nakuba lokhu sekukhathazeka kakade izingane ezindala. Izingane kule ndaba azizweli futhi zijwayele ukujwayela isimo esisheshayo ngokushesha.
- Ngoba izingane eziningi ziya enkulisa - zivame ukusabalalisa amagciwane futhi ingane yakho ijwayele izifo. Cishe zonke izingane ezingena engadini, okungenani kanye, zigula ngezifo ezibangelwa amagciwane. Lokhu kubhekwa njengokujwayelekile.
Nanny
Ngokujwayelekile ama-nannies asetshenziswe ngalabo omama abafuni ukukhulisa ingane yabo "phakathi kwabanye." Bafuna ukuzungezela ingane ngokufudumala nokukhathalela, ngakho-ke wayehlala ezindongeni zendlu, engahambi ndawo. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo zama ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi nokuxhumana nengane ngesikhathi esifanele kubo. Kunezinkampani ezingenakubalwa ezihlinzeka ngezinsizakalo zokunakekelwa kwengane ingane, okuqinisekisa ukuthi u-100% ubuchwepheshe. Kungcono ukuqasha umntanakho ngesincoma sabangani, okungenani kunemibuzo embalwa emihle mayelana nayo. Ngakho-ke uvikelekile kancane ngokwakho wena nomntanakho kusuka kumuntu ongewona ochwepheshe noma ngisho nomenzi wokuhlambalaza osanda kusha. Kungcono uma umhlengikazi enemfundo okungenani yesibili. Uma unesidingo esikhethekile se-nanny (isibonelo, uma ingane yakho idinga ukuphuza imithi ngesikhathi esithile) yenza uhlu lwezidingo. Kusuka kuso kuyacaca ukuthi izidingo zakho akufanele zithathwe phansi. I-Perfect yi-nanny esifundeni esiphezulu se-kindergarten, ngoba unesipiliyoni esikhulu esebenza nezingane.
Izinzuzo
- Ubeka isikhathi somntwana, kuye ngokuthi ukhululekile kangakanani kuwe. Ngisho noma ushiya ekuseni kakhulu emsebenzini noma ufuna ukuhamba ngesidlo sakusihlwa ebusuku - i-nanny izoba usizo lwakho futhi usize
- Ingane yakho izothola ukunakekelwa ngabanye, ngokungafani nezingane zokubeletha, lapho ingane yakho ingahlala khona emthunzini (ungondli kahle, ezinye izingane ziyambhidliza, zilele kabi, njll).
- Uma ungafuni ukuthumela ingane yakho enkulisa, nogogo nomkhulu basasebenza, futhi udinga kakhulu umuntu ongayilandela ingane - nanny yisinqumo sakho esihle kakhulu.
Ukungalungi
- I-nanny iyiphilisi ebiza kakhulu, kodwa ungathatha umfana onomsebenzi wesikhathi esithile.
- Kunzima ukumethemba, ukwazi ukuthi usuku lonke umfana - umuntu, ngokujwayelekile omunye umuntu - usendlini yakho.
- Ingxenye ebalulekile yemfundo yezingane nokukhuliswa ngaphandle kokubamba iqhaza kwakho kubalwa yinanny. Futhi uma ungathandi isifundo afundise ingane yakho, ngeke ukwazi ukubuyela, njengoba bethi "eminyakeni emithathu edlule", ukulungisa isimo.
Umkhulu
Lokhu kuyindlela ejwayelekile kakhulu yokuhlanganisa umsebenzi nokukhulisa ingane esimweni lapho owesifazane ekhetha ukuqhubeka nokwakha umsebenzi. Uma kunjalo, ugogo akasebenzi noma. Ungumuntu owaziyo futhi ingane ezozizwa iphephile. Akekho ugogo olungcono, othanda abazukulu kakhulu futhi uyabakhathalela ngothando nangokunakekelwa. Njengawe, futhi bayajabula, ngoba bachitha isikhathi esiningi nengane. Lena inketho ekahle. Kodwa ...
Kunezimo eziningi lapho izinkinga emkhayeni ziphakama ngokuqondile ngenxa yalokho. Ukuthi ingane ikhula ngaphansi kwethonya likagogo. Futhi umama uhlala "engekho emsebenzini." Kunamakhulu amakhulu amakhulu, abagogo abanomthetho abafuna ukuphoqelela intando yabo ezinganeni ezingaphezu kwamaphutha. Kulesi simo, ingane iba impahla yakhe, ngakho-ke uyayithola. Kunzima kakhulu isimo lapho ugogo (umama kamama) ephikisa uyise wengane futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Lokhu kungaholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu esikhathini esizayo.
Izinzuzo
- Uyothola ukuzola, ngoba ingane isesandleni esihle.
- Lena inketho eshibhile ohlwini.
- Ngokungafani no-nannies kanye ne-kindergarten othisha, ugogo wayengenalo ulwazi lokuxhumana nabantwana "abafokazi". Ugxila enganeni eyodwa kuphela.
Ukungalungi
- Ngenxa yothando lwabo nokunakekelwa kwabo ngokuvamile ukhulukazi benza ingane ephangiwe ngaphezulu ezoba nezinkinga esikhathini esizayo.
- Esikoleni esiphansi, engazijwayele iqoqo elikhulu lezingane ezungeze, ingane izobhekana nokucindezeleka. Ngeke ahlale enganakwa, uzozwa ubuhlungu futhi aphumele.