Vikela ingane yakho kuma-maniac nabadlwenguli

" Ukuba ngumzali ukujwayela umqondo wokuthi kusukela manje enhliziyweni yakho uzohamba ngaphandle komzimba wakho," kusho omunye umuntu ohlakaniphile. Futhi, mhlawumbe, kunjalo ngempela. Sikhathazeka ngabantwana, asiphephile uma singazibonanga ngisho nangaphezulu uma singaqiniseki ukuthi ziphi. Futhi ngezindlela eziningi ukukhathazeka kwethu nokwesaba kwethu kulungile - izwe elisizungezile alisizo njalo kubantwana. Vikela ingane yakho kuma-maniac nabadlwenguli, ngoba awukwazi ukushiya ingane yakho ingalindelwe. Ake siqale ngezibalo namaqiniso - omile, kanzima, kodwa, ngeshwa, wangempela. Njengoba uphenyo olungaziwa lubonisa phakathi kwezingane ezifunda esikoleni, cishe ingxenye yesine yamantombazane nabafana abangaba ngu-15% abaneminyaka engaphansi kwengu-16 baba yisisulu salokho okushiwo ulimi lweCode Criminal oluthi "izenzo zokungcoliswa." Akungabazeki ukuthi lesi sibalo siphezulu nakakhulu - izingane eziningi aziqapheli ukuba zingagwegwesi ngisho nasezimweni zokungaziwa. Lokhu kuyiqiniso. Yini okufanele siyenze, bazali? Indlela yokuvikela, ukuvikela, ukulondoloza ingane yakho?

Imithetho yabazali
Awukwazi ukushiya ingane yakho ingalindelwe. Lena i-axiom! Vikela ingane yakho ku-maniac nokudlwengula, zama ukulawula izindawo zokuhamba kwakhe, ukuvimbela ukuhamba wedwa ezindaweni ezingase zibe yingozi (izindawo zokwakha, izinkulisa kanye nezikwele kusihlwa). Uma ungeke ukwazi ukulandela ingane, xoxisana nabazali bezinye izingane ukuze zilawule eyakho.
Izingane ezifuywayo ezifuywayo kahle iyisifiso somdlwenguli: uyathemba, ulalele futhi usetshenziselwa ukwethemba abadala. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba ingathintana nomuntu ongaziwayo, ngisho nangaphansi kwesizathu esicacile - ukusiza ukubheka inja, ukuvula umnyango, ukuqala imoto, njll.

Ama-Maniac ahlakaniphile : aphendukele indawo yokudlala futhi ezwa izingxoxo zalabafana, angabuyela kumntwana ngegama, azethule njengomngane papa, osebenza naye umama. Kuvame ukukhumbuza ingane, bakhombise ukuthi akekho okhona lapho abazali bengaboni lutho. Ingane kufanele ilalele wena kuphela! Ngaphezu kwalokho, akekho umuntu omdala ozofuna usizo kumntwana. Fundisa indodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho ezimweni ezinjalo ngobuhlakani, kodwa uphendule ngokuqinile: "Cela usizo kubantu abadala." Futhi ukhohlwe okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho, lesi senzo sihloniphekile kumuntu ongaziwayo noma cha.
Ingane kufanele igweme ukuxhumana nabantu abasengozini. Lezi - izidakamizwa, izidakamizwa, ezibekwe icala. Uma abantu abanjalo bekhona phakathi komakhelwane bakho, vimbela ingane ukuba ixoxe nabo. Akukhona amadoda kuphela asezingozini eqenjini eliyingozi. Ngokuvamile, izidakamizwa, izidakamizwa nezidlwenguli ziyizivolontiya ezihlala kuzo, zikhuthaza izingane ukuba zihlasele. Abafana basuke bethemba kakhulu abesifazane.

Abantu baseMelika bafundisa izingane zabo : uma bebanjwe endaweni egcwele abantu, udinga ukukhamuluka: "Usizo, angazi, ngithunjwa!" Khona-ke bayomsiza empeleni, futhi ohamba ngezinyawo cishe uzophonsa isisulu esikhethiwe, esesabisa abanye. Uma ingane ikhala kuphela noma izama ukuphunyuka, abadlulile-bangase bacabange ukuthi ingane isuke ingabi naughty, futhi iyodlula.
Ukudlwengulwa okuningi kwezingane kuzinikezele emakhaya - ku-attics, ku-elevators noma nje eminyangweni. Zama ukuvikela ikhaya lakho ngangokunokwenzeka. Yini engenziwa? Cela ngaphakathi ehhovisi lezindlu ukufaka iminyango yensimbi emnyango, e-attic kanye naseklasini, futhi futhi, ukuze ihlale ivalwe, futhi ingahlali imile. Uma kukhona i-elevator endlini, kudinga ukuthi abaqaphi babelane izinkinobho "bayeke" futhi "shayela i-dispatcher". Yiqiniso, lokhu kudinga izindleko ezithile, kodwa ukuphepha kwengane kuyabiza kakhulu.
Yenza konke ukuze ingane ingabhubhisi ukubukeka komoni. I-Nimfets akufanele igqoke i-mini skirt, amasitokisi kanye nezinye izimfanelo zomuntu omdala. Akudingekile ukugqoka ubucwebe begolide obubi kakhulu.

Kukhona amacala lapho umenzi wobugebengu ehlasela isisulu esicebile, kodwa, ezwa ukuthuthumela kwesisulu, umuntu ohamba ngezinyawo wavuswa kuwo. Ngokuvamile, ama-maniac ane-fetish (isibonelo, i-pantyhose emhlophe). Uma unomdlwenguli endaweni, futhi amaphoyisa abikile idatha kuye, gwema ukugqoka ingane kulezo zinto ezingase zibe yisabelo kuye.
Ngeshwa, inani elikhulu lamacala lirekhodwa lapho ingane ingcoliswa umngane omncane womndeni noma ngisho nesihlobo. Futhi izingane ezinjalo, cishe njalo, zithule "ungamcasuli umama," ngakho-ke umuntu ohamba ngezinyawo angakwazi "ukudlala" nabo iminyaka. Uma ubona ukuthi othile ovela kumngane wakho uqala ngokuzumayo ukubonisa isithakazelo entombazaneni yakho (ngokuvamile ephakathi kweminyaka engu-12 no-15), okwenza "ukuncoma" kumncoma, "ukuxosha izandla zakhe" kuyisignali esesabekayo. Yeka umuntu onjalo ekhaya. Uma ubona ukuthi into ethile isongela ngisho eyakho, kodwa ingane yomunye umuntu, inhlobo ethile yezinto ezingaqondakali - ungadluli, zama ukumsiza.

Kumanothi
Abanye opharetha beselula banikeza abazali isevisi ekhethekile ebizwa ngokuthi "Mayachok". Uma ingane yakho ineselula, ngokuthumela isicelo, ungabona indawo yakhe kumephu yedolobha. Lokhu kuyinto elula futhi ngoba ungamdonsa ingane ngezingcingo eziqhubekayo kanye nama-emesk, ukuthuthukisa kuye "okuyinkimbinkimbi yokuqondisa".