Indlela yokuhlela idethi enhle yothando

Ayikho imingcele ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabantu abanentshisekelo komunye nomunye. Kuzo zonke izinto zibalulekile, konke okunye - imibono yokushintshanisa umbhangqwana okhulayo noma okhona, amagama abakhulumisanayo, isiteji sezwi, esho la mazwi, ukuziphatha nokuziphatha. Ukuthandana yilokho okusinika ukudla ngothando, into esizoyikhumbula yonke impilo yethu. Ngokwemvelo, wonke umuntu ufuna ukumangala futhi ngaleyo ndlela anqobe okhethiweyo wakhe noma wakhethiweyo.

Futhi ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi akukho lutho olungasungulwa ngalokhu, nokuthi akukho amandla anele nesibindi. Into eyinhloko okufanele uyenze futhi uzame! Ngokweqiniso, kulula kakhulu ukuhlela usuku lothando, wonke umuntu angabhekana nalo msebenzi. Futhi-ke, kanjani ukuhlela usuku oluhle lothando? Ake sibheke izinkomba ezikhona.

Uma usuchithe isikhathi esiningi ucabanga ukuthi ungahlela kanjani umhlangano wothando futhi konke kungenalutho. Ayikho imibono ebalulekile evelele. Kuyafaneleka ukusebenzisa isipiliyoni somunye umuntu. Izibonelo zokuvakashelwa ngothando uzothola yonke indawo - emakhasini ezincwadi, ezindabeni zabangane, kusukela ekubukeni ama-movie.

Ungakopishi konke ngokuqondile, ngokuvumelana nalokho okubonayo ku-movie noma funda encwadini. Ukubukeka kwezigcawu ku-movie kusekelwe ekubuyiselweni. Ngesizathu esithile kubonakala kimi ukuthi ngeke unikeze umngane wakho noma umngane wakho ukufunda iskripthi sosuku lwakho lomshado. Thatha "isikhali" kuphela umqondo, futhi ukubonakala kwayo ukushiya intuition kanye nezifiso.

Akudingeki ucabange ngalokho okwenzayo, kuyinto nje injabulo engadingekile. Udinga ukucabanga ukuthi ubani oqale lesi senzo. Mhlawumbe, wena nokho okuncane, kodwa usuvele unesikhathi sokufunda mayelana nokuthandwa kwabakhethiweyo bakho. Uthandani, uthini ukuthi uyithandana nokuthi yini engekho.

Uma wazi kancane futhi wanquma ukuhlangabezana "ngaphandle kwalabo abangabazi", ungabe usengozini ukuyeka ukukhetha kwakho kwenye inguqulo exotic yosuku lokuqala. E-banal "izimbali - zokudla" nazo aziyeki. Umgomo wakho ukuthola ukunakwa, futhi ungabonisi njengomunye wezixuku ongazikwazi ukuzibala.

Indlela yokuhlela idethi enhle yothando . Izixazululo eziqinisekisiwe.

Usuku lomshado - into ebuseduze, hhayi ezethameli, kuyinto elula futhi ejabulisayo. Bambalwa abantu bacabanga ukuthi uthando luyingozi kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ukhethe idethi esimweni esithulile, esingathathi hlangothi, ngamakhandlela ngobumnyama obumnyama obuhle futhi obumnandi, umculo othulile.

Indawo yosuku lokuqala kufanele kube ukuthembela nokuvumelanisa - lokhu kuyinhloso yakho. Kuyafaneleka ukukhetha i-cafe kusihlwa ngesimo esiphuthumayo nesincane sezivakashi.

AmaClub kanye nama-discos njengendawo yosuku zikhomba izinto ezisheshayo, ezingabambezeli.

Indawo yaseshashalazini ingavela uma wazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi ukusebenza kwakho owathengile amathikithi kuzokwenzakala kokubili.

Okumangazayo

Isitha sayo yonke imihlangano isisulu futhi sinomusa. Ngisho noma uhlele i-dinner ejwayelekile ngokukhanyisa amakhandlela, okungenani akufanele usitorele phezulu "ekusebenzeni" ukuncoma. Zizenzele wena. Kuyasiza kakhulu ukufika ngokumangalisa okumnandi, kungcono hhayi eyodwa enkulu, kodwa eziningana ezincane futhi ezingenacala.

Uma umlingani ohlala njalo anganikeza okuthile okubiza ngokuhlela usuku, khona-ke kumuntu ongajwayelekile lokhu ngeke kulungele. Njengemiklomelo-izipho, izimbali ezivamile, izethulo ezincane, izincwadi noma ama-CD anamabhayisikobho amahle noma umculo angenza - lapha into enkulu akufanele ilahlekelwe.

Uma uqiniseka ngamakhono akho, khona-ke funda umngane wakho ubhale izinkondlo, ubonise umdwebo othile, futhi ube ngcono isithombe osibhala ebusweni bakhe. Isebenza ngaphandle kwezinkinga, into esemqoka ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ungayenza. Kodwa konke kudinga isilinganiso. Ukudideka akudingeki wena noma umngane wakho, ngakho-ke ukucula izingcezu zezintambo ngaphansi kwamafasitela akufanelekile.