Ukukhathazeka okukhulu kubhalwa kahle ukuthi ifenisha isendaweni yokuhlala, kungukuthi amaShayina akhokha. Ngamanye amazwi, ochwepheshe e-feng shui - ubuciko base-Chinese basendulo, obuhlanganisa ukuvumelanisa kokugeleza kwamandla (qi), okuhamba emzimbeni hhayi kuphela komuntu ngamunye, kodwa futhi nezwe elizungezile. Yilokho, ukuthembela kulezi zindlela, sizozama ukuthola indlela yokulungisa ifenisha endlini yakho.
Sizoqala ngabangcwele abangcwele ezindlini zethu zokulala. Lapha kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele iqiniso ukuthi ngesikhathi sokuphumula ebusuku (umuntu olele) ukuthi umuntu uyingozi kakhulu ezweni lakhe langaphakathi nangokomoya. Futhi amandla ayo ahlala esiteshini sokugcwaliswa kabusha futhi ngenxa yalokho, ubuthakathaka kakhulu futhi buthakathaka. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ukuze uqondise kahle futhi ngokulinganisela ukubuyiselwa kwamandla akho, kumbhede wakho udinga ukuthola indawo enjalo ezuzisa kakhulu umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi. Okufanele kakhulu kulungiselelo lombhede ukuhlelwa kwalo ngendlela yokuthi umuntu ophumayo, elele kuwo, angabona umnyango wekamelo. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi indawo yokulala ekamelweni lakho ingavumeli leli lungiselelo lombhede, ungathukutheli. Okuhle kakhulu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo indlela elula yokuphuma kule simo, ungaba isibuko esijwayelekile. Yilungise egumbini lokulala ukuze libonise umnyango wegumbi, futhi wena, ngokulala ulele embhedeni, usibone ngalokhu kucabangela. Lowo ngumbuzo futhi wanquma. Kodwa lapha akuyona into engafanele ukukusho ukuthi uma wena, ngemuva kwakho konke, ikamelo lakho lokulala likuvumela ukuba uhlele umbhede "ngombono womnyango", kufanele uyenze ukuze ngesikhathi sokuya kwakho, imilenze yakho yayingekho ukuqondisa kulezi zinyango. Leli lungiselelo lomuntu olele ezinyaweni zakhe emnyango wegumbi lingase lidale ubudlelwane obuhlobene nokufa. Futhi leli qiniso kufanele likhunjulwe njalo futhi libhekwe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kudingeke sikhumbule ukuthi indawo engakalungi kakhulu eduze kombhede, ingavela khona lapho ifenisha enkulu futhi enzima. Kuyinto ikhabethe enkulu noma ikhabethe eduze kombhede wakho, kuyoba "umgoqo" oyinhloko futhi oyinhloko phakathi kwakho nokugeleza kuka-qi amandla. Ukuhluleka ukuhambisana nalezi zimiso eziyisisekelo zokusakaza kahle ifenisha ekamelweni lokulala, kusongela umuntu ngokumtholela njalo esimweni esicindezelekile nesicindezelekile. Ngendlela, kanye nakho konke, awukwazi ukuphumula njalo futhi uthole ukulala ngokwanele, ngisho noma uchitha isikhathi esiningi sosuku ekulala kwakho.
Uma ushada, kufanele uhlale ematithini owodwa aqinile futhi aqinile, oklanyelwe ukulala kabili. Uma wena noshade naye nilala ematithini amabili ahlukene axhunyiwe munye, khumbula ukuthi lokhu kungaholela ezimpikiswaneni ezihlukahlukene emndenini. Futhi ngaleyo ndlela, umshado wakho ungavele unikele "ikhefu". Kungcono ukuya empumalanga, kulesi sici okudingeka ubeke umbhede. Inhloko yombhede, eqondiswe kulolu hlangothi, izosiza ekubambeni amandla welanga eliphumayo ngomzimba wakho. Kodwa ngaphansi kombhede uqobo, akukaze kudingeke ukugcina izinto ezingenasidingo nezinto ezihlukahlukene ezingadingekile. Konke lokhu kungaholela ekuqotheni komuntu. Futhi, njengoba kuyaziwa, ukulala ubuthongo yisitha esikhulu sezempilo.
Emadongeni okulala kuphela, kodwa nakwezinye amakamelo, kunconywa ukuthi ube nezithombe ezikhombisa izimbali noma ezihlukahlukene zezindawo. Yilezi zici zokuhlobisa kahle futhi zithuthukisa futhi zisebenze kahle futhi zibhebhethekise imvelaphi emibi nezinhlobo ze-chi. Kodwa ngokuqondene nezinambuzane ezinkulu eziphansi nezitepikithi ezinokulingana okukhulu, khona-ke lokhu kufanele kuqaphele kakhulu. Izakhi zokuhlobisa okunjalo, eziningi kakhulu, zithinta kabi umfaniswano kanye nendawo efanele yamandla endlini. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuhlela le mikhiqizo kusuka ku-ceramics, udinga ukucabangela ngokucophelela ukuthi kufanele ibekwe kuphi nokuthi kufanele ibekwe kanjani.
Ukuxhumana okubaluleke kakhulu ehholo kuyisimo sokuchuma. Iphuzu elinjalo, uma uyibheka ngenkathi emnyango wokungena ekamelweni, njalo uhlale ekhoneni elingenhla elingakwesokunxele ekamelweni lokuphumula. Kule ndawo lapho ochwepheshe bancoma ngokuqinile ukubeka izindlu zangaphakathi ezimbizeni ezinamaqabunga amakhulu kakhulu, ahlangene. Lezi zimbali zingafakwa phansi, itafula elikhethekile noma ukuma kwangempela, okwenziwa ngokukhethekile ngamapulangwe.
Uma unedeski endlini yakho, njalo uyibeke eduze kwefasitela. Khumbula ukuthi imisebe yokukhanya kufanele iwa ngokulinganayo ebusweni bonke bedeskithophu yakho. Kodwa etafuleni uqobo ungafaka ama-trinkets ahlukahlukene aletha injabulo. Ngendlela, ama-trinkets afanayo kumele afakwe emakethe. Njengomthetho, ama-trinkets anjalo angaba: igobolondo lolwandle lamakhulu amakhulu, amakristalu e-rock crystal, amanye ama-talismans noma isitatimende lapho uqiniseka khona ukuthi zikulethela inhlanhla nokuchuma.
Kodwa ekamelweni labantwana, ungalokothi ubeke umbhede eduze kwefasitela, noma umnyango. Zama ukukugcina ngaphansi kwendonga engathathi hlangothi nongaphandle.
Ekhishini, ifenisha kufanele ihlelwe kahle ngendlela yokuthi ithebula lokudlela lisendaweni okuthiwa ikhululekile. Okungukuthi, wema ngaphandle kokuthinta odongeni lwanoma yiliphi lamacala alo, futhi azungeze khona izihlalo. Leli lungiselelo letafula, linomphumela omuhle endleleni yokuthola ukudla ngumndeni.
Ngakho sikutshele ngemithetho eyisisekelo yokuhlela ifenisha endlini. Manje uyazi ukuthi ifenisha efanele kufanele njalo ibe endaweni efanele. Njengoba bethi: "konke kunendawo yayo". Inhlanhla kuwe!