Isigqi sesimanje sokuphila sishiya impendulo yakho empilweni yethu yomzimba ikakhulukazi yengqondo. Ukucindezeleka okungapheli. Ukungabi nesikhathi sokuphumula okufanele. Izinkinga emndenini nasemsebenzini. Kunzima ukubhekana nalezi zinkinga. Ngisho nokuxhumana nentombi akusizi ngalesi simo. Lapha udinga usizo lochwepheshe. Okuthiwa - isazi sengqondo sezobuchwepheshe.
Asisho ngisho nokusola ukuthi ukukhulumisana kwengqondo kwengqondo kungenza kube lula kanjani ukuphila. Azikho izinkulumo zenhliziyo nezinhliziyo ezingeke zisisize njengoba nje sisebenza nochwepheshe. Esigabeni se-psychologist ochwepheshe, umkhuba ocebile. Uhlangabezane nezimo ezahlukahlukene futhi wakhula indlela yokusiza iziguli esimweni ngasinye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esihle sinesithakazelo kulowo osebenza nabo futhi samukela okungcono kakhulu.
Ungasheshi ukubhekana nomakhelwane wakho ngezinhlungu zakho. Yiqiniso, uma ungathola othile ukuba akhale ku-vest yakho, kuzoba lula kuwe. Kodwa okwesikhashana nje. Isimo esibuhlungu sizobuyela futhi. Ukuze ubuyisele ibhalansi yengqondo, izinyathelo zamakhadikhadi ziyadingeka. Khumbula ukuthi ukucindezeleka akusona umqondo ongaqondakali, kepha isimo esibuhlungu somzimba. Futhi ngaphandle kokusizwa isazi sezengqondo sokuthola ngokugcwele asikwazi ukubalwa.
Emazweni aseNtshonalanga, ukuvakashela isazi sezengqondo kuvamile, njengathi - ukuvakashela umuntu wezinwele. Abantu baseYurophu nabaseMelika bayasebenza "kuze kube". Futhi uma isazi sezengqondo asizange sisize, angeke akhokhe imali eningi kumasevisi abo. Ngakho-ke, kuzuzisa ukufunda okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo.
Ezweni lakithi, abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe baphendukela ezingqondweni zengqondo ukuze basize. Izinsizakalo zabo azitholakali. Futhi akuyona indlela yokuqeqeshelwa ubuchwepheshe kuphela engalimaza. Ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha isazi sengqondo esifanele. Isazi sezengqondo, lokhu kungumhlobo we-manipulator. Uma engene esithembeni kuye isiguli, angathonya ukuqonda kwakhe, anqume izinqumo nezenzo.
Ngakho-ke ungakhetha kanjani isazi sezengqondo esifanele futhi ungawi ukukhwabanisa ku-fraudster?
Isazi sezengqondo sikhethwe ngendlela efanayo nodokotela okhethiwe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi u-regalia unayo, emhlanganweni wokuqala uyamhlola ngezinga elimnandi. Futhi uma ungathandi into ethile, mhlawumbe kufanele ubuke esinye isazi. Ezingqondweni, njengokungabikho ndawo, udinga ukuxhumana okuthembelayo phakathi kwakho nomqondisi wezokwelapha. Emva kwakho konke, kuzodingeka umethembe ngobuhlobo obuseduze nobuhlungu kakhulu.
Uma unqobe ubandlululo futhi wanquma ukubuyela ochwepheshe, ungabi ovilapha kakhulu ukubuza abangane nozakwabo. Mhlawumbe othile usuvele enesipiliyoni esihle ngusizo wesazi sengqondo futhi angancoma udokotela othize. Lokhu kusindisa isikhathi esiningi nesishukela.
Uma uthola ochwepheshe, ungangabazi ukuthola iziqu zakhe ngokuningiliziwe. Okokuqala, kufanele abe ne-diploma. Buza ukuthi yiluhlobo luni lwemfundo nolwazi olukhethekile. Akungabazeki ukuthi ingane yengqondo yengane izosiza owesifazane osekhulile ngobuchule.
Ngesikhathi sokuxhumana, kufanele uxwayiswe ngesithembiso semiphumela esheshayo. E-psychotherapy, noma yikuphi ukuqinisekiswa akufanelekile. Futhi kufanele uxwayiswe ngesifiso sezengcweti ukuze "wazi kangcono". Oxhumana nabo ngabanye bayisimo semvelo engenzi lutho. Yiqiniso, awukwazi ukuyala inhliziyo yakho, kodwa kuzomele uphinde ubheke esinye isazi sezengqondo. Ngendlela, eziningi zefilimu zidutshulwe kule ndaba.
Izimpawu zengozi nazo zihlanganisa nesifiso sokuphoqa ifilosofi kuwe. Futhi uzama ukunxusa ukuba usebenze eqenjini (ngaphandle uma kungumbuzo wokuphatha ama-socibia). I-psychologist engalungile ekuphishekeleni inzuzo inenzuzo kakhulu ukwamukela amaklayenti amaningi ngesikhathi esingaphansi.
I-psychologist yezobuchwepheshe akufanele isebenze ngemigomo yenkolo nemifanekiso. Uma ecela ikholo, engazi ngesimo sakho sengqondo enkolweni, mhlawumbe ungumphikisi wezinkolo.
Isazi sengqondo esingesona udokotela. Njengomthetho, unemfundo ephakeme kubantu. Akufanele asebenzise imithi. Musa ukudideka isazi sezengqondo nomuntu wezifo zengqondo kanye nomqondo wezifo zengqondo. Isazi sezengqondo sizokusiza, uma unganandaba njalo, uhulumeni ocindezelekile, ohlukumezekile. Uma ungenalo ubuhlobo emndenini noma emsebenzini. Uma udinga usizo ingane yakho.
Udokotela wezifo zengqondo kanye nengqondo ye-psychotherapist banemfundo ephakeme yezokwelapha. Bayazi kahle izindlela zomzimba zomsebenzi we-psyche nokusebenzisa imithi yokwelapha. Kuyiphutha ukucabanga ukuthi izifo zengqondo ziphatha abantu abangenangqondo kuphela. Bazosiza umuntu onesifo sokucindezeleka okungapheli, ehlushwa ukukhathazeka okwandayo, izimo ezikhungathekile, ukulwa nezifo ezihlukahlukene. I-psychotherapist inolwazi olujulile lwe-psychology kanye ne-psychiatry. Usebenza namacala anzima kakhulu. Emsebenzini wakhe angasebenzisa ukukhanya kwe-hypnosis kanye nemidlalo yokudlala indima. Uchwepheshe wezokwelapha usiza ukubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa okwesabekayo okukhulu okuhlobene nobudlova, ukulahlekelwa othandekayo, osinda enhlekeleleni noma engozini. Ngakho-ke, unqume ukuthi yikuphi usizo oluthile oludingayo.
Ungakwazi ukwazi inani elikhulu lama-psychotechnics, usebenze ngegama lesikhumbuzo, kodwa ube yisazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esibi. Uma ochwepheshe ngokwakhe engazange azixazulule izinkinga zakhe, wayekhathele abantu, wayeka ukuzwelana nokuqonda izinkinga zabanye abantu, ngakho-ke usizo lwakhe lwaluzoba lukhulu.
Futhi kufanelekile ukunaka isitayela somsebenzi wesazi sengqondo. I-professional kufanele ihambe kumaklayenti, futhi ingasabi, imtshele ukuthi iklayenti ifuna ukuzwa. Lena iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu. Uma umuntu etshelwa okungaphezu kwalokho akulungele ukuyiqonda, uzozivala "egobolondo lakhe" noma angesabi. Uma usho okuncane - uzoshiya ehhovisi enomuzwa wokuthi isazi sezengqondo asikwazi ngokwanele. Futhi ukwethemba kuleli bhizinisi kubaluleke kakhulu. Mhlawumbe, kuyithemba ukuthi yilona ukwelashwa okuyinhloko ekuvuseleleni kwengqondo yakho.
I-Psychology ingumsebenzi we-jeweler. Futhi ukulindela ukuthi emva kokuvakashelwa kwesinye isazi zonke izinkinga kuzoxazululwa ngokwabo, musa. Kumele usebenze ngamabili. Phela, isazi sezengqondo, ngokungafani nodokotela, asiqondisi umuthi, ngemva kwalokho uzozizwa uthuthuka ngokushesha. Kufanele uzilungiselele ukuthi ukubambisana okunjalo kuwumsebenzi onzima futhi onzima.