Ukukhethwa komphathi womshado kungenye yezinto eziyinhloko abantu abasha ababhekana nazo ekulungiseleleni umkhosi omkhulu. Umholi noma i-toastmaster ngumsebenzi, lo ngumuntu okholelwa kulowo mkhosi womshado, okuwukuqala kokuphila komndeni. Ungakhetha kanjani umethuli womshado?
Ngabe iziphi izimo udinga umethuli emshadweni?
Izivakashi emshadweni inomboro ehlukile. Uma unabantu abangaba ngu-20 emshadweni wezivakashi ezifunwa, awukwazi ukumema umphathi wezinsikazi. Thatha indima yomsingathi kungaba DJ. Isibonelo, angakwazi ukumemezela ama-toasts, umdanso wokuqala, ikhekhe lomshado, njll Kodwa uma kwenzeka abantu abaningi bemenyiwe, awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle komethuli.
Ukuthi uma ukhetha umgqugquzeli, udinga ukucabangela
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukucacisa ukwakheka kwezivakashi. Ngamanye amazwi, ngubani ozoba ngaphezulu emshadweni, abantu abasha noma izivakashi ezindala. Lokhu kudlala indima ebalulekile ekukhetheni umethuli womshado. Kuncike ekutheni umshado uzohlelwa kanjani - noma uzokwakhiwa ngokuyinhloko emincintiswaneni ehlukahlukene yeselula, noma emkhathini onokuthula onobuchopho obuningi. Uma inani labantu abasha kanye nenani labantu asebekhulile lizofana nalokho, inhlanganisela efanelekayo kokubili iyadingeka. Khombisa ekuqaleni komshado ukukhetha ngokuvumelana nalokho okushiwo "isethi" yezivakashi.
Yini ongayibheka ukuze ukhethe umshado we-toastmaster
Uma uhlangana nomethuli okhethwe nguwe, anelisekile ngezimfanelo zakhe zangaphandle, kanye nendlela yakhe yokukhuluma, ngezwi lakhe, uma eheha wena njengomuntu, khona-ke udinga ukubuza amanye amazwana. Lokhu kungumsebenzi wakhe, nokuthi bangaki abantu abasebenza emishadweni. Ukuze wazi izici zomkhosi wayo, mhlawumbe, unayo "i-zest" yayo. Qinisekisa ukuthi ufunda uhlelo olugcwele aluthandayo. Buza ukubonisa izinto zevidiyo kusuka kumicimbi yangaphambilini yomshado ephethwe umethuli. Buza ukuthi i-toastmaster izobukeka kanjani, mhlawumbe e-suit ekhethekile, noma mhlawumbe e-classic. Futhi uthathe isithakazelo emincintiswaneni ezoba khona ngesikhathi somshado, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyinhlamba, yini okufanele ithenge (amabhola, imiklomelo, izibambo, ama-candies, njll).
Futhi hlola ukuthi i-smart and quick the toast ingafaka amazwana ngalokhu noma leso simo, sashintsha ngokuzumayo, ngesikhathi esisodwa noma esinye, uma isimo sayo esivamile sizodingeka sishintshe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umethuli akayona nje umculi ovelele kakhulu, kodwa futhi oyingcweti yengqondo. Akudingeki ukuthi ubambe imincintiswano kuphela, tshela ama-toasts, amelela izivakashi, kodwa futhi akwazi ukuheha izivakashi ezimenywe ukuba zihlanganyele. Phela, isimo esikhululekile emshadweni yisiqinisekiso somcimbi ongenakulikhumbula futhi omnandi.
Ukuze ukhethe umshado we-toastmaster, kufanele uthathe isinqumo ukuthi ubani ofuna ukubona kule ndima, owesifazane noma indoda. Muva nje, abantu abasha abaningi bakhetha ukukhetha amadoda ngendima yomethuli. Unesibindi, uqaphele, uthatha umsebenzi wakhe ngokungathí sina. Le nkosikazi ithatha isithunzi nesizotha. Abesifazane abanomphefumulo wabo wonke bahlangabezana nalesi senzakalo, ngakho-ke bawagcina ngokujwayelekile. Kodwa abantu abasha ngokwabo kufanele banqume ngokuzikhethela, ngezinye izikhathi kwanele nje ukukhuluma nomuntu ukwenza isinqumo esifanele. Futhi ungaxoxa nabangani bakho asebevele badlala emshadweni, mhlawumbe babe nomshado "ngesilinganiso esikhulu". Mhlawumbe bahlale bexhumana nomphathi wezinsikazi, zama ukuxhumana naye.
Kufanele ucabangele lapho ukhetha umethuli odinga ukuhambisana nomculo. Ezimweni eziningi, wonke umphathi we-toastmaster usebenza no-DJ wakhe. Ukuhola kochwepheshe ngaphandle kwanoma yikuphi. Ngemuva kwalokho konke, i-DJ kumele isebenzise izenzo kanye nezinye izimpawu zomsingathi ukufaka ukuhambisana komculo (ama-fanfares, amapads, njll), ngesikhathi esisodwa noma kwenye. Uma kunjalo, uma ukhetha umethuli, uzokwazi, bese esebenza yedwa, bese uqaphela. Umholi omuhle yimpumelelo yomkhosi obalulekile, ngoba umshado uyisiqalo sokuphila komndeni, okuzohlale kukhunjulwa ngaso sonke isikhathi.