Indlela yokumazi umuntu ku-Inthanethi? Kubonakala sengathi lo mbuzo olula kakhulu, lapho kukhona impendulo elula, yebo, ukuya endaweni yokuthandana futhi lapho ukhetha khona umuntu oyedwa noma amadoda ayishumi nambili bese uyaziwa. Cha, akulula kakhulu kule internet.
Okokuqala, udinga ukugcwalisa lemibuzo ngokufanele, ungabuka amaphrofayli asebesifazane asevele ekhona kusayithi futhi ufunde kuwo ukuthi ungagcwalisa kanjani uhlu lwakho lwemibuzo. Ukuze uthole umphumela omuhle, kubalulekile ukubhala okwesikhashana futhi ngokuthakazelisayo, amadoda abathandi ukufunda inkulumo ye-abstruse futhi eside. Okulandelayo, udinga ukuthatha izithombe ukuze uzibonise kuphrofayela yakho, ungawafaki ngaphandle kokuqaphela izinhlelo zokuhlela, kungcono ukuthi umuntu aqonde ngokushesha ukuthi ubhekene nobani. Kodwa ngisho nesithombe esabekayo kakhulu akufanelekile, amadoda ayesithanda kuqala ngamehlo abo, nakuba athi adinga umphefumulo.
Ngemuva kokuba uthumele idatha yakho, amadoda amaningi azoqala ukukubuka, azobhala. Ungagijimeli kokuqala oyokumema ngosuku, ukhulume kahle, okungenani ngesonto naye kusayithi. Hlola isithombe sakhe, uma umuntu engabonisi isithombe sakhe, kusobala ukuthi uyashadile. Ubuso bakhe bunokuningi okushoyo ngobuntu bakhe. Ngenkathi yokuxhumana buza imibuzo ekhohlisayo, kuphela ehlanganisiwe, ukuze angaqondi ukuthi uyalibala. Uma kukufanele, umxoshe ukuze akumeme ngosuku.
Usuku lokuqala kufanele ngempela lube khona endaweni egcwele, awukwazi ukuthi ungumuntu onjani ngempela. Kukhona ama-maniac amaningi kakhulu kumasayithi wokuphola ku-Intanethi. Ukuqala kokuqala komuntu kuhlale kulungile, lalela intuition yakho. Bheka eduze indlela aziphatha ngayo, ukuthi ukhuluma kanjani, ukuthi ubheka kanjani. Amanye amadoda avumela ukuba bafike ngosuku lokuqala, abangabanjwanga, ezingutsheni ezingcolile, ngisho nangaphandle kwemali. Abakwazanga ngisho ukumema ku-cafe, bahlale phezu kwekhofi.
Ngakho-ke, uma uhlukanisa indoda emashalofini, ungathola iziphetho ezilandelayo ngomhlangano wokuqala.
Uma, le ndoda ingcolile, ke ayihloniphi yena kuphela, kodwa futhi nawe ekuqaleni.
Indoda isebenzisa ulimi lwakhe oluhlambalaza, ngokushesha ucabange ukuthi udinga yini indoda.
Indoda ayikumemeli ku-cafe, ekhuluma ukuthi akanayo imali, ungasho ngokunemba kwe-100% - mhlawumbe isiceli, noma uhaha, noma ayihloniphi ngokuphelele.
Ufikile ku-cafe, uthola i-akhawunti, indoda yenza amehlo amakhulu futhi ithi ukhohliwe isikhwama sakhe esikhwameni ekhaya, futhi uhlinzeka ukukukhokhela, futhi kuthiwa uzokubuyisela imali, lokhu kungu-100% wegigolos nomqambimanga.
Indoda ngokushesha ikucela ukuba umhlangabeze endlini yakhe, noma ugibele imoto. Lokhu kushukunyiswa okucacile kobudlelwano bocansi. Ubuhlobo obunzima nomuntu onjalo ngeke kusebenze.
Le ndoda iqala ukukhathazeka umkakhe wokuqala futhi konke kusihlwa kukhuluma ngaye. Khumbula lokhu ngesikhathi esisodwa, uyamthanda futhi ngeke ujabule. Kuyoba isikhathi sokuphila ukukhumbula okwangaphambili.
Indoda isitshela konke kusihlwa ukuthi yindodakazi enhle kangakanani, noma yindodana enhle kangakanani, ukuthi ichitha kanjani ngempelasonto emangalisayo ndawonye. Lapha kuwe futhi hhayi indawo, kuwo idyll, yizingane zayo.
Indoda yonke kusihlwa ikhuluma kuphela ngaye, ngomsebenzi, mayelana nezenzo zokuzilibazisa. Cabanga ukuthi ungaphila yini nomuntu onjalo yonke impilo yakho, uma nje ulalele kanye nesithunzi sakhe.
Kodwa akuzona zonke izinto ezimbi njengama-8 amaphuzu wokuhlaziywa kwendoda. Akubona bonke abantu abanjalo. Uma enesibindi, weza usuku lokuqala ngezimbali (nge-chamomile engashadile esikhwameni se-cellophane), ukumemela ku-cafe noma endaweni yokudlela, futhi wahamba waya endlini yakhe emotweni yakhe noma itekisi. Izingxoxo zenhlalo eziqhutshiwe futhi zikubuza mayelana nokuphila kwakho, khona-ke kungaba yindoda yakho.
Esikhathini esizayo, lapho uthola isikhulu sakho kule ndaba yentombazane ebizwa nge-intanethi, khansela iphrofayli yakho futhi ungaphumi lapho kunanini ngaphambili, ngisho nangenxa yentshisekelo engenzi lutho. Gcina injabulo onayo.