Yimiphi imikhuba emshadweni?

I-suit suit, i-tie, izicathulo, konke okusha nokuhle. Ukugqoka ezimhlophe, iveli, izinwele, umakoti uhle futhi uyingqayizivele. Yeka ukuthi kuhle kangakanani, lapho usuku olunjalo luzungeze ukumomotheka nokuhleka okujabulisayo. Wonke umuntu uyajabula, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, abantu ababili abakhulu kulo mkhosi bangumakoti nomkhwenyana. Abantu abane kuphela kulolu suku bazokhala, ngenjabulo - abazali basanda kushada. Konke kuzokukhunjulwa, kusukela ebuntwaneni, njengoba abantwana bekhula futhi bengenangqondo ngalesosikhathi, manje abadala manje sebedala umndeni wabo. Ngakho ngokushesha washesha isikhathi, futhi manje ebusweni bomkhwenyana nomkhwenyana ujabulisa ujabule, injabulo, ngoba batholana.
Ukumaketha . Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngaphambi komshado, abazali bomyeni bafika kubazali bomakoti futhi bavumelana ngomshado. Umbuzo unqunywa lapho umcimbi uzobanjelwa khona, zingaki izimenywa ezizokwamenywa, ukuthi yiliphi inani elidingekayo ukuba libale. Abesifazane banquma ukuthi yiziphi izitsha ezizokhishwa. Umbuzo ngezingubo kumele uthathwe ngumkhwenyana, izingubo kanye nomgqobo womkhwenyana, kufanele athenge. Esimweni esinobungane wonke ama-nuances alo mcimbi obalulekile acaciswa.

Wedding . Ukuhlengwa komlobokazi. Lapho umkhwenyana efika kumlobokazi, abangane bakhe, abakwa-matchmakers bavuka endleleni yakhe, futhi bafuna isihlengo. Inkokhelo yomakoti ingacelwa noma yikuphi, nakanjani ezindaweni ezinengqondo. Omunye ucela imali, futhi othile unobhodlela lobisi. Futhi umkhwenyana kufanele ahambe esitolo ukuze enze isihlengo. Uma umkhwenyana uye wahlangabezana nazo zonke izidingo futhi wajabulisa "abaphangi", khona-ke umakoti unikezwa. Khona-ke umkhwenyana uyabingelwa abazali bomakoti ngesinkwa nosawoti, bephuzile, bese behamba endleleni. Kuye ehhovisi lokubhalisa, labo abasanda kushada kumele bahambe ngezimoto ezahlukene. Kunenkolelo enjalo, awukwazi ukugqoka iwashi lomshado womkhwenyana noma umakoti.

Ngemuva komdwebo , labo abasanda kushada nezivakashi ngokuvamile bagibela ezindaweni ezingakubaleki zedolobha, noma ngaphandle kwedolobha. Indoda nomkayo manje bahamba emotweni efanayo. Isibonakaliso sithi ngalolu suku akukho lutho okumelwe lube phakathi kwabashadile. Uma ngesikhathi sokudubula isithombe noma ividiyo, othile uzoba phakathi kwalabo abashadile, lokhu kubi kakhulu. Zama ngalolu suku, ngaso sonke isikhathi ndawonye, ​​bamba izandla, futhi ungavumeli ukuhamba. Ngisho noma othile ebuzwa ukuthi abe phakathi kwakho phakathi nomncintiswano noma umdlalo, ungazinikeli.
Abazali bahlangana nabazali, ngesithonjana, isinkwa nosawoti. Bathi noma ubani owehla ucezu olukhulu lwesinkwa uyoba yinkosi yendlu. Bese baphuza i-champagne bese bephonsa izibuko ze-crystal phezu kwabo, badinga ukuba babe izingcezu ezincane, bathi "Ukuze Injabulo".

Ngesikhathi sedili , imisebenzi ejabulisayo (imincintiswano, imibuzo) iqhutshwa. Isenzakalo sesibili esibalulekile salolu suku, emva kokushada, empeleni, ukweba komlobokazi. Ngokuvamile izihlobo noma abangane bahlela, futhi baheha umakoti yodwa, baphazamise umkhwenyana. Kodwa empeleni, udinga ukukhathazeka ngomngani, ngoba kuyomsebenzi wakhe ukuthenga umakoti. Isenzakalo sesithathu esibalulekile, ukuthunjwa kwezicathulo, umakoti. Ngalokhu, futhi, umngane wami izimpendulo. Kungenzeka ukuthi kufanele aphuze ezicathulweni zakhe. Umculo, izingoma, ukudansa, kuvame ukuhlala kuze kube sekuseni.

Ngamandla avuselelwe ngosuku lwesibili . Ukusebenza kwamahlaya noma ukuguqulwa kwamadoda ezembatho zebesifazane (okuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi amaGypsies) kuhlelwe. Futhi ukuze angene, wonke umuntu kufanele aphuze "ukungena". Ngosuku lwesibili lomshado, umuntu obalulekile ungumngani nomngani. Ngosuku lwesibili bathatha umngane, bese beba izicathulo zakhe. Kuphela manje isihlengo kufanele sikhokhe umkhwenyana (osanda kushada). Ngakho-ke, umshadisi womshado ongashadile, encwadini yamahlaya, zama ukusiza ukuhlela impilo yomuntu siqu. Kuqhubeka konke kuze kube sekwephuzile ebusuku.

Kuze kube manje , emizaneni kukhona inkambiso, ukutshala abazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana enqoleni, nokugeza emfuleni. Futhi kuyamukelwa, uma abazali betha indodakazi encane (yokugcina) umshado, ukubopha isigxobo esigcekeni noma eduze kwayo, ngakho-ke akukho mishado nemishado ephindaphindiwe phakathi kwezingane. Lokhu kwenziwa nguyise womakoti.