Kuyinto eyodwa ukumboza i-dummy engenakufuduka, futhi nakanjani - ingane ekhukhumezayo nekhamulukayo! Eqinisweni, cishe wonke umama osemncane, ngisho nangaphezulu, ubaba, uhlangabezana nezinkinga ezifanayo ezinsukwini zokuqala ngemuva kokukhishwa esibhedlela.
Omama abaningi abalindayo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa bafunda izincwadi eziningi mayelana nenqubo eyenzekayo kubo, nangokuzalwa okuzayo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, bashiya isifundo sezincwadi nomagazini ngezingane kamuva, becabanga ukuthi bangakwenza lokhu ngemuva kokubeletha. Kodwa lapho lapho ...
Ngenxa yalokho, abazali abaningi benza ngokungahleliwe noma balandele iseluleko nezincomo zabamama noma izintombi zabo.
Ukutholwa ndawonye nomntwana ngamunye ekhaya, abazali abaningi banomuzwa wokudideka.
Kodwa-ke, noma ngabe ukwazi ukuthola ulwazi olumayelana nezingane ezisanda kuzalwa, ezimweni eziningi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zivela enjabulweni, noma ngenjabulo, lonke ulwazi nolwazi olutholakalayo liphuma ngokushesha. Ngisho noma ngabe ulele ewadi "Umama nezingane" ngenkathi esesibhedlela, bekukhona njalo umhlengikazi onolwazi kanye nezingane eziseduze, futhi ingane cishe yayithathwe kuwe amahora ambalwa ngosuku, futhi ngokuqinisekile zathathwa ebusuku. Enye iphuzu - ekhaya lokubeletha cishe zonke izingane zichitha isikhathi esiningi zilele ngokulala, futhi lapho zibuyela ekhaya ngezizathu ezingaziwa isithombe sivame ukushintsha, kuze kube yilapho ehluke.
Kodwa, kholwa mina, isimo asiyona into ebuhlungu njengoba kubonakala ekuqaleni, futhi omama abaningi bayakuqonda lokhu uma befunda ukunakekela ingane ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila. Umama ngamunye osemncane emva kokuzalwa kwengane ubonisa ukuthi izilwane eziphilayo zidluliselwa kuye kanye nezakhi zofuzo nonina. Bamvumela ukuba anakekele ingane ngendlela efanele, eqondiswa kuphela ngesimo esisodwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, emva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa uzojwayela omunye nomunye. Funda ukuqonda ingane kusukela egameni lakhe lokuqala (ngokunembile, umsindo), ukuze ngesikhathi sokuxhumana naye, ukumomotheka okujabulisayo nokujabulisayo sonke isikhathi kuzokhanya. Kodwa-ke, ukuze anakekele lokho okuzuzayo kuphela, futhi abazali bayoba injabulo kuphela, kudingeka balandele izimiso ezimbalwa ezibalulekile, futhi ezibaluleke kakhulu, eziwusizo zokunakekelwa nokuxhumana nezingane ezisanda kuzalwa.
Ngakho-ke, kulabo abakhohliwe, sikhumbuza, kodwa kulabo abangakwaziyo sikukwazisa lonke ulwazi oludingekile mayelana nokunakekelwa okufanele kwengane esanda kuzalwa.
Ingane ezandleni
Ngenyanga yokuqala yokuphila, ingane esanda kuzalwa inokuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo kwamathambo nama-muscle systems. Zonke izingxenye zomntwana zibuthakathaka kakhulu, izicubu zazo zikancane, zibuthakathaka. Ngoba ukuthi ubamba kanjani ingane, kuzokuxhomeka ekuqineni kokwakheka kwemigqa yomgogodla, isakhiwo sawo wonke ama-fibre muscle kanye nokuma kwamajoyini.
Kuzo zonke ukunyakaza nokuhamba komntwana, landela le mithetho.
1. Ngenkathi ingane ingafundile ngokuzimela futhi ngokuqiniseka ukuba ibambe ikhanda, kufanele uyisekele ngemuva kwentamo nentamo. Awuvunyelwe ukubamba ingane ukuze ikhanda liguqulwe emuva.
2. Awukwazi ukuthatha usana oluthile ngesandla esisodwa bese ulukhulisa ngezandla.
3. Ukuphakamisa nokunciphisa ingane kulandela ukuhamba okushelelayo, okuhamba kancane, ngaphandle kwezingubo ezibukhali kanye nama-jerks.
4. Khuluma ngaso sonke isikhathi nge-crumb, smile, ungalokothi umemeza futhi ungafungi ingane. Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa ziphendula kakhulu ngisho nangemisindo engekho kakhulu. Ingane ithatha isikhathi ukujwayela imisindo emisha namazwi akho.
Ukondla umntwana
Ngomntwana osanda kuzalwa, ukudla okunomsoco kuyindlela ebaluleke kakhulu futhi ebalulekile. Kusukela ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kukhona ukugxuma okuphawulekayo ekukhuleni kwengane nokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo, kumele avuselele amandla namandla.
Ukudla okungcono kakhulu komntwana ubisi lwebele. Iqukethe zonke izinto ezidingekayo, kanye nama-antibodies omzimba, okuyivikela ezifweni ezihlukahlukene. Indlela yokuncelisa ngaphandle kwezinkinga?
1. Ngesikhathi sokudla, umama nomntwana kufanele bathathe isikhundla esikahle kakhulu - ukuze bakwazi ukubamba, ngaphandle kokuzwa kabi, isikhathi eside kakhulu. Khumbula ukuthi inqubo yokudla ingathatha kusukela kumaminithi angu-10 kuze kube ihora lonke nangaphezulu. Lapha udinga ukugxila ezidingo zengane yakho.
2. Uma kungcono kakhulu ukuthi ukondle uhlezi, khona-ke i-crumb kufanele ifakwe ubuso nobuso futhi ivale ngokwanele esifubeni sakho engadingeki ukuyifinyelela. Ukumncenga ngobumnene ingane eduze kwayo, yilungise ngokuqondile, ukuze ikhanda nesiqu zisendleleni efanayo. Ikhala lomntwana kufanele livuleke futhi lilingane nengono. Ikhanda liphenduka kancane. Lungisa i-crumb, ibambe ngekhanda namahlombe. Khetha imodi yokudla, okokuqala, ukugxila ezidinga kanye nezifiso zengane, futhi kuphela lapho okuthandayo.
4. Ungagijimi ingane futhi ungathathi isifuba kuye, uma ubona ukuthi akakudli okwanele. Qaphela ukuthi isikhathi sokugcwalisa zonke izingane sihlukile. Kuncike esibonelweni sobisi esifubeni, ubukhulu bezinkoma zobisi kanye namandla abantwana abancinyane ngobisi. Ezinye izingane zingadla okwanele, zibhubhise lonke isifuba emaminithini angu-10, ezinye zilale, ziphuza ubisi, ihora nokuningi. Khumbula ukuthi okuwusizo kakhulu kubisi lwezingane - ngemuva - kuza kuphela ekupheleni kokudla.
5. Hlola eduze izibonakaliso ukuthi ingane elambile inikeza. Ngokujwayelekile, izingane ziqala ukushaya, zihambisa izindebe nezindebe zazo, ziphendule, zivuselele izingalo nemilenze, ngaleyo ndlela ziveza ukunganeliseki kwazo. Ungaholeli ekhala. Ngalesi sikhathi uphinde ulimaze isimiso sezinzwa wena nomntanakho.
6. Ukuvimbela ukuvuvukala kanye nokuphahlaza kwamantombazane ngemuva kokudla, kunconywa ukuba usule nge-diaper ehlanzekile eyomile, ususe ngokuphelele umswakama osesele. Ukugeza njalo ama-teats kwandisa ingozi yokuqhekeka. Ukugcina ukuhlanzeka kwesifuba kuyinkqubo yamanzi evamile. Uma kunezinzwa ezingathandeki noma ezibuhlungu, emva kokudla kokubili, gcoba izingono ngokudonsa ubisi lwakho lwebele noma ukhilimu okhethekile wokuphulukisa esifubeni.
Sebenzisa isikhathi sokudla kuphela ukuphumula nokuxhumana nomntanakho. Ungaphazanyiswa ezinye izinto, hamba ujikeleze indlu noma uguquke njalo, ngaleyo ndlela uphazamise imvuthu. Esikhathini esizayo, uzokhumbula izikhathi zokuncelisa ukubeletha njengenkathi ejabulisa kakhulu futhi enhle kunazo zonke ekuphileni kwakho ndawonye.
Kanjani kahle ukubeka ingane esifubeni?
Okokuqala, faka isifuba esinesundu ukuze iminwe emine ibekwe phansi, futhi enkulu - ngaphezulu kwesifuba. Gcina esifubeni cishe esisekeleni sebele, kanti iminwe kufanele ibekwe kakhulu kunombono, kude kube ngu-5-10 cm, kuye ngobukhulu besifuba. Uma le-crumb ingasabeleli esifundeni esihlongozwayo, yithinte nge-ingono yakho ezindebe zakhe. Uma evula umlomo wakhe, kumele asuswe eduze kwesifuba sakhe, hhayi ngokuphambene nalokho! Umlomo wengane kufanele uvuleke kakhulu, izindebe zihlangene ne-tube, ulimi lukhona ngemuva kwegamu eliphansi. Umlomo ophansi kufanele uqhubeke kancane ukuze umlenze uthinte esifubeni. Iphunga liyakwazi futhi ukuthinta isifuba somama, kodwa ungaphazamisi ukuphefumula komntwana. Kubalulekile ukuthi ingane iqoqe yonke ingono kanye nesikhumba esizungezile (i-areola), ngoba lapho isondeza izindebe, izinsini kanye nolwimi lomntwana lucindezela indawo ezungeze ingono, hhayi isikhumba ngokwayo.
Ngesicelo esifanele samathunga ebantwaneni agxilile futhi asebenza ngenkuthalo. Uma kungenjalo ukuthunjwa kwesifuba, ukugcwalisa okwanele kwezimpumputhe kanye nokuvela kwemifantu noma omunye umonakalo esifubeni sikamama. Uma uzizwa ubuhlungu ngenkathi uncelisa isifuba, ngomusa ucindezele umunwe omncane emlonyeni ophansi wengane, uzovula umlomo. Bese ususa isikhumba esifubeni bese uzama ukusebenzisa i-crumb kuya esifubeni futhi.
Uma ukondla ingane yakho ngesifuba esisodwa ekudleni kwesinye kanti enye ngakwesinye isilandelayo, okokuqala ungarekhoda ukuthi yisiphi isifuba owayekayo. Uma isifuba esisodwa sincane, nika amabele kokubili ukudla. Futhi ukondla okulandelayo kuqala ngesifuba owaqeda ngaso. Ungathatha kanjani ingane ezandleni zakho?
Ingane ilele ngemuva
Uncike phezu kwengane ukunciphisa ibanga phakathi kwakho nengane. Iminwe yesandla esisodwa iphakamisa ikhanda. Bese uqonde ngokuphelele isundu sakhe, usekele intamo nasemhlane wekhanda lomntwana. Nika esinye isandla ngaphansi kwesinqe. Khulisa ingane kancane kancane bese umcindezela kuye.
Izingane zilele phezu kwesisu
Letha isandla esisodwa ngaphansi kwesifuba somntanakho ukuze isisindo sakho sesithupha nesinxele sisekelwe ngokulandelanayo ngengane nentamo yakhe. Beka esinye isandla ngaphansi kwesisu. Kungcono uma wenza lokhu kusukela ngezansi naphakathi, phakathi kwemilenze yengane. Ngakho ubuso obusungile buyoba mkhulu. Uncike phezu kwengane futhi uyiphakamise kancane kancane. Ukubamba umntwana ngezandla zombili, cindezela kuye.
Indlela yokugcina ingane?
Ezandleni zakhe, ebhekene naye
Hlela ingane esandleni sakhe (njengasekukhunjini), uyicindezele ngokuqinile esifubeni sakhe. Ikhanda lakhe kufanele libe phezu kwezimbambo zakho. Ngehlombe lakho nangaphambili, ulungisa amahlombe wengane. Ukusekela izandla zakhe nembongolo ngesandla sakhe. Esinye isandla sithatha imilenze yakhe, isikhumba nesifuba. Kulesi sikhundla i-crumb ikhululekile kakhulu, isikhundla sikhulu kakhulu sokugula okuhambayo, futhi nalapho ingane idinga ukuqinisekiswa.
Ezandleni zibheke phansi
Beka isisu somntwana phansi kwesibhamu sakhe. Kule ndaba, ikhanda nensipho yengane ilele ehlangothini, futhi ihlombe lakho nesigxobo sesigxobo silungisa ezinhlangothini. Esinye isandla sidlula phakathi kwemilenze yengane futhi sisekela iziqhwa nesisu. Iminwe yezandla zakho kufanele ibekwe kabanzi kakhulu ekulungiseni okungcono kwesisu nangemuva kwemvuthu. Lesi sikhundla siphumelele kakhulu ukunyakaza kwesikhathi eside, ngoba kuvumela ukuthi izinyane libheke nxazonke.
Esifubeni nasehlombe endaweni eqondile
Beka umntwana esifubeni nasehlombe lakhe, ulibeke endaweni eqondile. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, isidumbu sakhe kufanele sithathe ingxenye enkulu yesifuba sakho, futhi ikhanda lakho likhululekile ehlombe lakho.
Ngesandla esisodwa, bamba ngemuva entanyeni nasentanyeni ye-crumb, enye-yilungise ngaphansi komhlane nasemilenzeni, uyihlanganise nge-forearm nesundu.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubamba ingane, ngokucindezela ngokuqinile nokusekela ingxenye yayo engezansi ye-trunk. Lesi sikhundla sisiza nge-colic, njengoba umzimba wakho uvuselela isisu somntwana. Qinisekisa ukubamba ingane ngesimo sokuma ngemuva kokudla, ngoba le ndlela igalela ukugaya kangcono ezinganeni ezisanda kuzalwa, ikhuthaza ukukhululwa komoya okuboshwe esiswini. Beka ihlombe lakho noma i-napkin ehlombe lakho, kuzodingeka uma kwenzeka ubisi lwezingane ubisi oluningi.
Indlela yokubeka umntwana?
Uma i-crumb ilele ezandleni zakho, ngakho-ke ukuze uyishintshe (isibonelo, ungene esikhaleni), udinga ukuyikhipha kancane kuwe, bese uyigoba futhi uyibeke ngobumnene, ngaphandle kokudonsa izandla ukuze azizwe izinguquko. Uma ingane iqhubeka ilele kahle, emva kwemizuzu embalwa, susa kancane kancane izandla zakho. Ngaphambi kwesikhathi, faka i-diaper efudumele noma ingubo embhedeni, ngakho-ke le nto ayikwenzi ngokushintshwa kokushisa nombuso. Uma udinga ukuhambisa ingane kusuka endaweni eyodwa kuya kwesinye (isibonelo, kusuka eseceleni kuya esihlahleni), yibeke emgqeni omkhulu noma kumabhati wezingane.
Ingane kufanele iqhutshwe kanye nomcamelo (matetha), uyibeke ngobumnene endaweni yekhanda, emuva nangemilenze.