Njengoba sebezwile iseluleko esinjalo, omama abasha abafisa ukuthanda ingane yabo ngobuqotho, benqabe ngokuphelele izinwele. Ungabathengisa ezingcezu ezingu-10, bese ushicilela. Futhi ugogo onakekelayo ngokweqile, ezama njalo ukuchaza ukuthi yini ewusizo ekushintsheni izingubo zengane esanda kuzalwa, phinda ungakhathali ukuthi akudingeki ukuba ususe ingane. Amakhulu ugogo abathukuthele, ahlambalaza abasha abashadile futhi athi basuke behlekisa ingane engenalutho. Ubani phakathi kwabo olungile?
Ukuthola, kubalulekile ukubuyela ekuqaleni kokuqala, ngesikhathi ingane isaphila esiswini somama. Namuhla, izincwadi eziningi kanye nezihloko zemagazini zichaza ngokuphila komntwana ngaphambi kokuzalwa, futhi sekuyisikhathi eside kungeyona imfihlo ukuthi umntwana we-intrauterine angabona, azwe, aphunga futhi anambithe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ingane ikwazi ukuhlangenwe nakho kwayo kanye nesimo sakhe sengqondo emhlabeni ngaphambi kokuzalwa.
Ukuqala kokuqala kwengane kubalulekile, okungukuthi, kuzwa ngokucacile ukuthinta. Ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa (ngaphambi kwamasonto angama-16-20), ingane ikwazi ukugibela ngokukhululekile emithonjeni yamaminerali. Ngokusobala akathinti izindonga zesisu futhi angakwazi "ukuhamba" ngokukhululekile. Kodwa njengoba ingane ikhula, lesi sibeletho siba nzima kuye. Uhlangana nazo izindonga futhi uzizwa njengemingcele. Kodwa lolu shintsho aluboni njengokunciphisa izwe elizungezile, kodwa njengolwazi lokuqala mayelana nesimo somzimba wakhe.
Cishe emavikini angama-34, i-fetus ekhulile ekhulile isebenzisa yonke indawo ye-intrauterine. Izindonga zesisu zimbathisa. Ngenxa yokuzwa okuthinta inhliziyo nokuthinta, ingane ikwazi ukuthola umqondo womzimba wayo, efana nokuma kwesibeletho. Ngakho ekupheleni kokukhulelwa okuthile okuvela ngaphakathi kwe-intrauterine kuvela enganeni, ngokusho ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ukuba ibhola, ngokuqondile, i-ovoid (efana neqanda).
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi uma umzimba uphoqelelwa futhi uvinjelwe ukuhamba, ingane izwa kahle. Kakade ezinyangeni zokugcina zentuthuko, ujwayele ukujwayela isikhala esinqunyiwe kanye nokuhleleka okunamandla okubangelwa ukuma kwesibeletho. Uvalwe, ugxilile isifuba sakhe esifubeni sakhe, ebopha izandla zakhe esifubeni futhi ecindezela amadolo aguqe ngamadolo. Futhi kulesi sikhundla ukuthi uzizwa ekhululekile, ekhululekile futhi ephephile.
Kodwa lapha kufika isikhathi sokuzalwa futhi umntwana uzalwa. Ngakuye konke, konke kwashintsha ngokuphawulekayo: wangena ekukhanyeni okukhanya okuvela ebumnyameni obumnyama, wangena endaweni enkulu yomthamo oseduze. Uzoqonda kalula lokho okuhlangenwe nakho kwengane, uma uzama ukucabanga ukuthi uzozizwa kanjani uma uhlala ebhokisini eliqinile izinyanga ezimbalwa bese uvele usuke ungena emgwaqeni ngosuku olukhanyayo futhi uphoqeleka ukuba uhambe ngokukhanya, ukuhamba kalula. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzothola imizwa engakwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi i-positive: iso lidla ukukhanya okungajwayelekile, akunakwenzeka ukuqondisa, imilenze ayigudluki - konke lokhu kuveza ubuhlungu obukhulu nobuhlungu obukhulu.
Ngomntwana osanda kuzalwa, yonke imizwa yokuzalwa ifana nalabo abathola umuntu omdala esimweni esichazwe ngenhla. Udinga ukulutha kancane kancane ekushintsheni okunjalo emhlabeni wonke ekuphileni. Ukuze kugcinwe ukuzwa komntwana okuthakazelisayo ezweni lapho azithola khona, kubalulekile ukubuyela kuye lokho okwakujwayelekile kuye, umbono wefomu lomzimba wakhe. Kumntwana akudingeki ukuba agxile kule ndawo enkulu futhi ahlale eyesaba, udinga i-diaper yendabuko evamile ebuyisela "iparadesi" elahlekelwa ngokungenakuqondakala isikhathi somuntu omncane.
Ngakho-ke, ukuthungana nosana akuyona nje insali yesikhathi esedlule. Lapho nje ingane iguqulwa, imnike ukujwayela okusemthethweni kombungu, ngokushesha iyancipha. Njengoba uqonda manje, lokhu akukwenzeka nje. Kulesi sikhundla ukuthi uzizwa induduzo nokuphepha okukhulu. Ugogokazi bethu abahlakaniphile babengazi kahle ukuthi i-swaddling iyasiza ngani. Bayazi okuhlangenwe nakho kanye nokwesaba kwezingane ezisanda kuzalwa futhi yingakho beza nale ndlela elula yokunciphisa ukuguquka kusuka kwendawo yokuhlala ngaphakathi kwe-intrauterine eya ngaphandle, emhlabeni.
Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, izinto eziningi ziye zashintsha, kodwa indlela yokubeletha izingane iye yahlala efana, ngakho-ke kumele siqhubeke sisebenzisa i-diapering ngenhloso ehlosiwe. Futhi ungesabi ukuthi lokhu kuzokhawulela ukuthuthukiswa kwengane. Ekuqaleni, izinsana zivele zipholile ngokushesha nje lapho ziboshwe ensikeni, zizwa isikhala esivamile esiphelele. Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva zidonsa kancane kancane emapeni e-diaper, ezama ukuzondla. Lokhu kungukuqala kwesigaba esilandelayo, lapho umntwana efuna ukuphinda abuyele isithombe esiphelele sempilo yakhe yangaphambilini ye-intrauterine. Esesiswini umntwana uthatha isibhamu noma umunwe kusuka emavikini angu-16 okukhulelwa.
Ngakho-ke, ungakhathaleli ukukhululwa kwezingubo zomntwana njengesifiso sokususa i-diaper ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Emva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, cishe amasonto amabili noma amathathu, umntwana uqala ukubonisa isithakazelo ezweni elikuzungezile: uqala ukubuka ekamelweni, ebuka ubuso babantu abakuzungezile, ezintweni ezehlukene eziwela emkhakheni wakhe wombono. Khona-ke uzozama ngempela ukukhulula izandla zakhe kusukela emkhunjini. Noma yimuphi umama onothando nonomusa uzobheka lokhu njengesignali esicacile ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuyeka ukukhwabanisa ingane ngezibambo.
Iningi labantwana libonisa isifiso sokulala isikhathi eside - kuze kube yizinyanga ezimbili. Lokhu kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nokubeletha okunzima, lapho iqiniso lokubeletha libonwa ngumntwana njengengozi enkulu. Kulesi simo, izingane azikwazi nje ukujwayela iqiniso elisha. Khona-ke indlela engcono kakhulu ukunikeza ingane ithuba lokujwayela kancane kancane umhlaba omusha, ngokushesha nje lapho engakwenza khona ngokwakhe. Ukuphoqelelwa kwezenzakalo kulokhu kungenza umonakalo omkhulu kunokuhle. Ngakho-ke ungesabi, ugibele umntwana wakho osanda kuzalwa kuze kube yilapho yena ngokwakhe eveza isifiso sokuphuma ku-diaper. Ngakho uzonikeza umlutha kancane kancane ezimweni ezintsha zokuphila, futhi isimo somntwana wengqondo ngeke sihlupheke.