Futhi yonke imisindo engenhla ingabe ibuhlungu, eqinisweni, iningi lezinkinga ezinganeni kuze kube unyaka, umuntu angabhekana nokunakekelwa okuhlelekile kwengane, okubandakanya ukubeletha, ukulala kwezingane ezinempilo, ukuhamba ngaphandle, ukubhusa kanye nezinsana zokuzivocavoca. Izinsuku zokuqala zengane ezingu-365 aziyona ize: izidokotela zezingane zibiza ngokuthi igolide, ngalesi sikhathi isitho somntwana "ngokuphelele" i-gutta-percha "- ngibonga ngokubonga yonke imizamo eyenziwe ekuthuthukiseni impilo yakhe nesimo sempilo.
Isihambeli esivamile
Ingane izalwa, futhi umama osemncane ulindele ukumangala kokuqala: akafani neze njengoba ayekulindele. Naphezu kwentando nenjabulo, umuntu akanakusiza kodwa uqaphele ukuthi ingane esanda kubonakala ingabonakali njengesithombe se-puppy ye-pink-cheeked kusuka ekukhangiseni. Unenhloko enkulu, uma eqhathaniswa nomzimba, isikhumba singabomvu, sibomvu noma siphuzi (ngenxa ye-jaundice yangempela). Izingane zibukeka njengomfokazi omncane noma umfokazi ovela emazweni akude. Ungesabi. Nika ingane isikhathi sokuhlala ezweni lethu. I-jaundice izodlula, ubomvu budlula, ikhanda lizogcina lilingana nomzimba. Izingane zizoqala ukuthola isisindo, ukumomotheka, i-agukat, ukuhamba ngenkuthalo futhi maduzane nje kuzothola isithombe salowo lengelosi ophuzayo kusuka ekhasini lomagazini. Futhi msize kulokhu, yiqiniso, wena.
Ngithande, njengoba ngikuthanda!
Kuze kube yilapho ingane ikhuluma futhi ifunda ukubiza amagama ngokucacile, ama-syllables noma umane ubonise ukuzithokozisa akudingayo, indlela kuphela yokuxhumana nezwe kuye iyakhala. Ngakho-ke, umntwana uvumela unina ukuthi uyazi ukuthi udinga okuthile. Kodwa yini ngempela, ayikwazi ukucaciswa. Okokuqala, i-crumb ingalamba. Ukukhala kungabangela ukukhathazeka ngokomzimba: okumanzi, okungahambi kahle, okwesabekayo okwethusa. Esinye isizathu sokubamba izinsana kungabikho komama oseduze. Futhi lapho ukukwenza khona, akucacile! Ngakho udinga ukubiza ucingo lwakhe. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzofunda ukuzwa ingane yakho, uqonde ukuthi yini engekho kulo mzuzu. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ukubopha - ukuxhumanisa okungabonakali phakathi komama nengane, kumvumela ukuba amqonde kusukela ku-half-word futhi azizwe ekude. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufunde kahle kangakanani futhi usesikhundleni esingokwenhlalo ungubani, ezweni lomntwana wengane yakho, ungazivikelekile njengalowo mama ongenayo imfundo noma izikhundla. Ngizosho okuningi, ngezinye izikhathi zonke lezi "zenzakalo zamanje" azizisi, kepha, ngokuphambene nalokho, zivimbela umama ukuba azivumelanise nomntanakhe.Uye wajwayele ukucabangela ngeso lengqondo, kunzima ukuba "aqhubekele" ingqondo yakhe futhi ahambe ngendlela yakhe yokufunda. Futhi udinga nje lokhu. Ukhohlwe "yi-self-modern" futhi ubuyele esimweni sokuqala. Okhokho bethu abakude babengazicabangi ukuthi bangabelisa yini abantwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi babeke izingane zabo ukulala, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bayithwala ezandleni zabo, bengesabi ukuzincipha.Benza kanjalo. ingane ngokuvamile ibona umama wayo njengengxenye yakhe.Uzalwa ukuthi uzobe enceliswa futhi eqhutshwa njalo ezandleni zakhe.Kusobala ukuthi lokhu kungaphikisana nezithakazelo zakho.Akunjalo bonke abafuna ukuncelisa isifuba, akuwona wonke umuntu ongathola i-lactation, engenakusho ukuthi abashade ngamunye akakubekezeleli e siqu embhedeni sabo somshado, "ingxenye yesithathu", ngisho noma kuyinto kwendlalifa yakhe siqu. Akekho ongakwenqabela ukuba wenze njengoba ubona kufanelekile. Lalela inhliziyo yakho futhi uyenze njengoba ihlambalaza. Kodwa wazi ukuthi isimo semvelo (ukuncelisa, ukulala ndawonye, ukugqoka ezandleni zakho) kuzokusiza ugweme ubunzima obuningi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sihlobisa kanjani isikhala somntwana esinama-ruffles nama-canopies, futhi eduze noMama umntwana usalokhu elala ngokuqinile futhi elala kalula. Futhi incazelo yalokhu ilula kakhulu. Umama esiseduzane, iphunga lomzimba kamama, ukushaya kwenhliziyo yakhe - konke okujwayelekile kuye, okusho ukuthi konke kulungile, konke kusemandleni, umntwana uzolile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngemva kokuba elambile, uqala ukububula ephusheni futhi, lapho ezwa lokhu, unina ngokushesha umnika ukuba ancelise ubisi, ngaphandle kokulinda ukuba akhale. Ngenkathi ukulala ngokwehlukana kuzodingeka ngizwe, ngakho umama wezwa futhi weza. Uma umama ehlala ekhona, futhi umntwana ujabulela ukuqinisekisa ngothando lwakhe nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, inqubo yokuzivumelanisa nezwe lethu kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kokucindezeleka kokuzalwa okuhlangene nazo zonke izingane ezisanda kuzalwa kulula. Kukhona ngisho nemfundiso yokuthi ukukhala kwengane, okungakabi inyanga nengxenye, kuxhunyiwe hhayi kakhulu ngezimbangela zomzimba njengokwesaba okusha nokungaziwa, ukuthi izwe libonakala liyizwe lethu. I "nerves" ithinta konke, ngisho nentuthuko yentuthuko yengane nokuzuza kwesisindo.
Miracle Massage
Kwaphela izinyanga ezingu-9, ingane yayisesimweni esiqinile, futhi cishe ingxenye yaleso sikhathi "yashukumisela" lapho kancane. "Ukungahambi kahle nokubuthakathaka kwemisipha kuholela ekubeni izingane eziningi zihlushwa i-hypertonic noma hypotonic muscle". , uma ungeke ukwazi ukuvula isundu somntwana, uhlale uvalwe ngokuqinile emakhameni, futhi izingalo nemilenze ziyi-half-bent.Hypotonus ibuye ibonwe nezihluthulelo ezibucayi.Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane izalwa ngokungafani nokuphila ngaphandle kwesisu, futhi empeleni kuseduze unokuningi okumele akufunde futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuba abe nomzimba wakhe, okokuqala i-crumb izobamba ikhanda, khona-ke uzofunda ukuhlala, ukukhahlela, ukuguqula kusukela emuva kuya emathunjini, uhambe ... Imisipha yakhe kufanele ibe namandla, futhi iyosizwa ngokusilalisa futhi ukuvocavoca, ukusikwa kwebele kungenza izinto ezimangalisayo.Siye sakhuluma ngokunyuka noma ukunciphisa ithoni ye-muscle, futhi kulokhu ungangezelela izinkinga ezifana ne-hypoplasia yamajoyini we-hip (isimo esivame kakhulu phakathi kwezinsana) kanye ne-torticollis. I-massage therapist eqeqeshiwe ngokukhethekile kufanele ihambise ukusikhipha. Nini? Kuxhomeke emibonweni yodokotela wezingane zakho, ojwayele ukucaciswa kwentuthuko yengane yakho. Njengomthetho, isikole sokuqala sokuphuza ukubeletha senziwa uma ingane iphendulela inyanga eyodwa ubudala. Bese-ke bangabuyekezwa njalo ezinyangeni ezintathu. Uma umema i-masseuse okokuqala, mcele ukuthi akufundise indlela elula ozoyenza ngayo nengane nsuku zonke: ukushaya, ukuvivinya ukukhanya kwemipeni nemilenze, isibonelo. Uma umntwana ezalwa ene-hypoplasia yamajoyini we-hip, ungachithi isikhathi. Iqiniso lokuthi emasontweni okuqala emva kokuzalwa kwengane lingasombululwa ngokuzivocavoca kanye nokusikhipha umzimba, khona-ke liqedwa ngezindlela eziphansi kakhulu - ngokusebenzisa isondo elungiselela imilenze ye-crumb endaweni ethile.
Beka umntwana ngemuva bese uzama ukuhlanza amadolo akhe aguqe ngamadolo. Uma bengavumeli "ukuvula" ngokufana netafula elishintshayo, abavuli kuze kube sekupheleni, umasuseuse ngokuqinisekile uzokweluleka ukuba enze umsebenzi "Frog" (ukuguqa kwamadolo aguqa ngamadolo) noma "Butterfly" uma uzama ukugcoba ngobumnene futhi uhlaziye imilenze yemvuthu (njengamaphiko butterfly), njengoba ivumela, futhi uma uhamba ngezikhathi zokusikhipha noma ukuvocavoca ngezimiso ezijabulisayo, lokhu kuzoba umsebenzi wokwakha wangempela.
Ake sihambe sibhukuda
Uma nje ufika nge-crumb esibhedlela, uzoba nokugeza okuthakazelisayo kokuqala. Esikhathini esizayo, uzokwenza lokhu nsuku zonke, kaningi - njalo ebusuku, ngaphambi kokudla kokugcina nobusuku bokulala. Futhi lokhu akuyona nje inqubo yokuhlanzeka. Njengoba ugogo wayevame ukusho ukuthi, "Uma ubhukuda, izinsana zikhula." Ngeke ukwazi ukuba ngumzimba wakhe, ingane ihlangabezana ne-catharsis yangempela ngesikhathi sezinqubo zamanzi - umzimba wakhe ukhulula, isikhumba (kuze kube yilapho izigulane zomshukela zomsana zenziwa ngokuphelele, isikhumba sithatha umsebenzi osebenza kakhulu ukuhlukaniswa komzimba) kukhishwa, futhi ingqondo iyancipha.Ukugeza kusiza ukukhanya okuncane ukulala ebusuku bese usuka emidlalweni esebenzayo kuya esikhathini sokuthula. Uqinisile, ulungele ukudla futhi uye ezandleni eziqinile zikaMorpheus.
Ukuhamba!
Umoya omusha uyingxenye yendlela yokuphila enempilo njengokudla kwemvelo nokulala kahle. Ukuhamba emoyeni omusha ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila imvuthuluka uzoba okuningi futhi kaningi. Konke kuqala kusukela kumaminithi angu-10-15 okokuqala. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ubude bokuhamba buyanda, kufinyelela emahoreni ambalwa 1-2 ngosuku. Abanye omama abafuni ukuphuma nabantwana abasha. Futhi akekho ozokulahla. Yenza njengoba ucabanga ukuthi kulungile futhi njengoba kuzoba ngcono kakhulu wena nomntanakho. Ngokuvamile, ukwenqatshwa kokungabi khona emsebenzini ekuqaleni kubangelwa ukuthi umzimba womama udinga ukubuyiselwa ekubelethweni, uzizwa ungakulungeli noma ungaqiniseki neze indima yakhe entsha njengomama, futhi ukukhumbula okufushane kumsiza ukuba alulame kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Kodwa noma kunjalo, ungenqabe ukubeka umkhumbi wengane ebhaleni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlanzekile kanjani indlu, umoya omusha usaqhubeka uphila kahle - hhayi njengothuli futhi owomile njengoba kuvame ukuhlala emakhaya ethu .Uma kunjalo, ungahambi emathafeni. , noma uzame ukuyilungisa ngendlela enhle ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngesikhathi sokuqala i-lactation isethwe kuphela, ingane ingase icele isifuba yonke isigamu sehora noma ngaphezulu. Ngakho-ke, kufanele inikezwe ngokufinyelela unomphela esifubeni. Uma ungafuni ukuhamba ngendlu, njalo uma "ukhahlela" umntwana ngiya ekhaya, thola i-slime Nkulunkulu. Ngiyabonga, i-crumb izoba njalo eduze kwakho, okusho ukuthi ayikho isizathu sokukhathazeka. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ungakwazi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi unamathele umntwana esifubeni sakho, esembozwe ngendwangu. Ingane izokhula ngokukhipha iminyango nemingcele. Futhi kuyoba ngukulala kancane kancane ekuhambeni, futhi banesithakazelo ngokwengeziwe ezweni elikuzungezile. Ngakho ukuhamba ukusuka emcimbini wokuphila kuhle ekugcineni kuzoba umsebenzi wokuthuthukisa noma isizathu sokuzijabulisa okujabulisayo. Kunezinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo emgwaqweni! Futhi kuze kube nonyaka sinesikhathi esiningi!