Uthando lungumzwelo obuseduze kakhulu, kodwa lungahlukana zibe izingxenye ezine eziyinhloko: isifiso, ugqozi, ukuhawukelwa kanye nozwela. Uthando alukhuni ukudideka ngalunye lwalezi zingxenye. Nokho, uthando luzoqala njalo ngesifiso.
Phakathi kwabantu abanothando kunjengensimu yamagnetic, okuyinto ngaso sonke isikhathi idonselana komunye nomunye, ngifuna ukuba basondelane kangangokuthi kakade akekho omunye wabo ongase azihlukanise nomuntu okhethiweyo, ahlangane nonke - engabonakali. Abathandi, njengengaphansi kwe-hypnosis, aboni lutho futhi aboni lutho, ngaphandle kwabo ngokwabo.
Isifiso sabo sikhumbuza ama-reindeer rushes. Lapho inyamazane, ezwa iphunga elimnandi lezinsikazi zalo ngaphesheya kwamakhilomitha, lihamba libhekene nazo zonke izithiyo, kuphela ukuthi lizuze elilodwa elilodwa ukuba libe nayo. Kuthatha isikhathi eside ukumthinta, ukuwa phansi ngamadolo phambi kwakhe, ngakho-ke, nakuba uphelile, uwuthole, uphinde uhlangabezane naye, mnandi kangaka, oyifunayo, owamnike le kholi. Phela, uthando luzoqala njalo ngesifiso.
Kodwa isifiso akuyona nje ukukhangwa komzimba okulula, kungenakwenzeka kwengqondo okwesikhashana ukuthi ungenzi ngaphandle kokukhethwa. Umphefumulo uhlangabezana nokuzwa okukhulu, okuvuthayo emzimbeni wabathandi, isidingo esingenakulinganiswa, esiphuthumayo sokuqothula emphefumulweni womunye - nokukugcina nokuhlala phakade. Kokubili umzimba nomphefumulo njalo bafuna ukwandisa ukusondelana kwabo nomunye umphefumulo oyifunayo, futhi uma izolo ingxoxo yayiphathelene nezincwadi, ubuciko, noma ezombangazwe, namuhla, ngaphandle kwakho kanye nami, ngaphandle kwethu nangothando lwethu, ayikho enye ingxoxo. Ngifuna ukukutshela futhi ngikhulume ngokukhathazeka kwakho kuphela - wena naye, kuphela ngothando lwabo oluvuthayo. Kubo, emhlabeni akukho muntu futhi akukho lutho olukhona. Kubo, mina neyakho akusekho, kubo konke kungokwethu.
Umphefumulo nomzimba womunye umuntu kuyinto eyinhloko yesifiso. Ukuze lo mzimba ube ngowami, umphefumulo wami wawuvulekele kimi kuphela, ngilinde futhi ngidlulisela imizwa, kuphela ukuhlangana nami. Konke okukhona emhlabeni, wena, imicabango yakho kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho, ingqondo iphenduka amandla amakhulu, ekuthwaleni oya kukhethiweyo wakho. Futhi umuzwa ongaqondakali, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ongaqondakali kakhulu, uhlanganisa wena ngokuphelele - futhi awusekho ngokwakho manje.
Uthando luqala ngokuphefumulelwa. Isimiso sokuqala mayelana nokuqala, noma uthando olungenzeka, kuyinkululeko engaqondakali, engaqondakali ukuthi yena naye, engakaze ahlangane nakho, ngokuhlangenwe nakho okungazelelwe lapho ekhona.
Uthando luqala ngothando. Ubona phambi kwakho isidalwa esiphelele kakhulu, "esimhlophe futhi siphelile", ukuthi ngifuna ukuyizungezile ngokucophelela, futhi ngivikele njalo ezintweni ezizungezile futhi ngingavumeli noma ubani amcasule, ngisho nokumthinta.
Kodwa kaningi kunalokho, uthando luqala ngesifiso. Lesi yisikhathi lapho ubona isidalwa esiphambi kwakho esivumelana nayo yonke imibono yakho, mayelana nokuhle, ngamazinga akho, njengokungathi kwenziwe ngokuya kwe-templar yakho, okhethiwe. Uyakhathazeka kakhulu, uqala ukuhlukumeza ngalomuntu, uzizwa ungenalutho olungaphakathi, okuwukuphela kwakhe, okhethiweyo wakho, ongagcwalisa ...
Uthando luqala ngesifiso, futhi kuphela lapho, uma, ngempela uyingxenye eyodwa yesigamu sodwa, ukhula othandweni lweqiniso, nayo yonke imizwa, ngesisa nokukhuthazwa, ngokuthembeka nangokwentando. Ngesifiso siqala, kodwa sizoba ngumlilo wangempela wothando.
Isiphetho esivela kulokhu yilokhu: zonke izinto eziphilayo emhlabeni wonke zizinikele ekuthandeni nasekuphileni uthando, zizalwa, ziphila, bese zifa ngenxa yothando. Uthando abantu abakutholayo aluveli kubo, kodwa kubalingani babo. Ngakho-ke, kumelwe sithande kokubili uthando kanye nabalingani bethu othandweni.