Indlela yokunqoba ukuncika ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi

Namuhla kubhekwa njengokujwayelekile, ukuvuka phezulu embhedeni, ukuhlola i-akhawunti yakho, kumanethiwekhi omphakathi.

I-Facebook, i-Vkontakte, i-Twitter, i-Odnoklassniki nezinye izingosi zokuxhumana, ngokugcwele futhi zigcwalisa isikhathi sethu, futhi ukuthi kungenangqondo kanjani ukuthi ngeke kuzwakale, kodwa kungokuxhumana nomphakathi okusivimbela ithuba lokuxhumana nabathandekayo. Khumbula, emva kwakho konke, esikhundleni sokumanga isoka lakho / intombazane ekuseni, uqale uqale ukuhlola amakhasi akho: bangibhalele, bangaki "bathanda" bathola izithombe zami ezintsha kubo bonke, abathumele ukuthi yiziphi izikhala, abanolwazi, nokunye. Ngamafuphi, ukukhulumisana kwansuku zonke minyaka yonke nokulahlekelwa phansi kweqiniso.

Cha, yebo, kuhle kakhulu ukuthi ungakwazi ukuxhumana nabantu abaseduze manje abakude, kodwa, ubona, ukusesha lapha futhi akuveli endaweni. Kunjengokudla amaswidi amaningi: njengokuthi kufanele ujabule, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uqaphela ukuthi kukhona okungalungile. Uma ungeke uphile ngaphandle kwe-Facebook usuku, yisikhathi sokuhlala kancane ungaxhunyiwe ku-intanethi futhi wakhe ubuhlobo bakho nabathandekayo. Ungakwenza kanjani lokhu? Sikunikeza izindlela ezinhlanu eziphumelelayo.

1. Gwema izilingo.

Okokuqala, susa zonke izinhlelo zokuxhumana zenethiwekhi kusuka kumakhalekhukhwini: kungani uzama futhi. Tshela abangani bakho ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngeke ube esiteshini - vumela abangani bakho bazi ukuthi ulungile futhi awufanga. Uma ufuna ukumema abangani emcimbini noma ubuze okuthile, tshela kubo - vele ubabize. Ubuciko bezingxoxweni zezwe, namuhla, bekungenakwenzeka ukuba kube nzima. Khumbula, ikhono lokuqhuba ingxoxo njengemisipha: idinga ukuzivocavoca! Ngakho-ke, fihla ikhompyutha yakho lapho kude - futhi, ukuze "ungaphuli", futhi uma ungenakukwenza ngaphandle kwakhe, sebenzisa kuphela ngezinjongo zokusebenza.

2. Funda izincwadi zangempela.

Uthanda ukufunda? Funda onempilo, kodwa kuphela izincwadi zangempela, iphepha, ongayibheka, iphunga amakhasi ashicilelwe, noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, agqoke eminyakeni edlule. Yiqiniso, lokhu akukona okwezimali njenge-e-books, kodwa ungathenga okungenani incwadi eyodwa. Iyini ukusetshenziswa? Iqiniso liwukuthi ukufunda incwadi yamaphepha kunomphumela omuhle ebuchosheni. Kufaka isandla ekugxileni ngokugcwele, ngoba awuphazanyiswa emlandweni wezindaba, ngokuchofoza izixhumanisi ezitolo ze-intanethi. Ukuhlala isikhathi eside kwi-intanethi, ubuchopho bethu buba nezimo eziguquguqukayo, okungukuthi, amakhono okuthatha izinqumo okusheshayo akhula. Kodwa ngokufanayo nalokhu, ikhono lokugxila emsebenzini owodwa isikhathi eside linciphisa. Ngakho-ke kungcono ukuhlanganisa ukufundwa kwe-elekthronikhi nephepha ukuze kuthuthukiswe ubuchopho.

3. Hamba ngezinyawo.

Kubaluleke kangakanani esikhathini sethu ukuba siphile umzuzu wamanje. Kulapha futhi manje uhlala, ngakho ujabulele lo mpilo ngokugcwele! Hamba uhamba emoyeni omusha, ujabulele imvelo, ungakhohlwa ukushiya ifoni yakho ekhaya, mp3 nokuthi yini enye ohlala nayo njalo. Namuhla awudingi. Zinike ithuba lokuzulazula emigwaqweni, ungene ekuzindleni okuthakazelisayo.

4. Thumela ikhadi lokuposa.

I-Facebook namanye amanethiwekhi omphakathi ingenye yezindlela ezivame kakhulu ukusekela ukukhulumisana nabangani, kodwa ukuthumela iposi leposi kumngane kuyathakazelisa kakhulu, futhi kuyamjabulisa kakhulu ukuthola. Futhi khumbula ukuthi kuyoba isikhathi eside kunomyalezo ovamile kwi-intanethi. Ngakho-ke, uma unesikhathi sokuhalalisela omunye wabangane bakho - yenza ngekhadi lokuposa, bazoliqonda. Impendulo ngeke ikugcine ulinde. Kungenzeka ukuthi maduzane uzothola impendulo enhle.

5. Cabanga.

Ukubuyekeza nokuhlola amaphrofayela akho kumanethiwekhi omphakathi, yebo, kukukwenza ucabange ngezindlela ezahlukene. Kodwa, ulawula konke lokhu? Ukucabanga ngento ethile imizuzu embalwa ngosuku, ungakwazi ukukhulula ukucindezeleka, uphumule futhi ugxilise imicabango yakho ngendlela oyidingayo, futhi ukwenze ngokuthula.

Uma ufuna ukukhulula isikhathi esengeziwe sokuthile okubalulekile, ngakho-ke kunengqondo ukususa wonke ama-akhawunti akho. Isihluthulelo nje ukudala imikhuba emisha:

Ngeke ube ungaxhunyiwe ku-Intanethi ku-intanethi, kodwa impilo yangempela ilula kakhulu futhi iyathakazelisa!