Ake sikhulume ngokukhululekile, nini lapho ugcine ukunikeza amadoda izipho? Futhi lapha akusho neze ukukhuluma ngalabo "podrkah-oblavalkah", isibonelo, ngosuku lokuzalwa noma ngo-Mashi 8. Yebo, nebhokisi lama-chocolates avela kumngane osebenza nabo, kanye netimbali zezimbali ngosuku lokuqala "ngokuphuphuthekisa" kusuka kumfana, ngeke sibale. Khumbula ukuthi thina besifazane sidalwe ukusiza abameleli bobulili obuqinile babonise izimfanelo zabo ezinhle kakhulu - kubandakanya amandla nokuphana. Vumelana ukuthi umuntu onamandla kuphela ongakwazi ukupha, futhi umsebenzi wakho lapha kunoma yisiphi isimo ukukwazi ukuziphatha, ukuze umuntu enze izipho.
Dala "isakhi sakho"
Awazi yini ukuthi uziphathe kanjani ukuze umuntu wakho enze izipho? Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukwakha isimo esihle salokhu. Sonke siyazi ukuthi isikhathi esivuna kakhulu izipho siyisithelo se-candy. Yingakho umsebenzi wakho ungafaki ubuhlobo bakho esikhathini esizayo bese uzama ukuwagcwalisa ngothando. Ukukhumbula futhi ukubonisa okwedlule, kanye nomzamo wakho wokuba umuntu okhethekile okwakuhlale elungele ukuthola "inkanyezi evela esibhakabhakeni" ngeke iqondwe - mhlawumbe, kusihlwa uzolindela isipho esimangazayo.
Yazi ukuthi ungajabulela kanjani ngempela izipho
Ngisho noma isipho sakho akuyona indandatho yedayimani, kodwa umbukiso omncane noma umsebenzi owenziwe ngezandla ovela othandekayo, zama njalo ukuveza ukuncoma okuphakanyisiwe. Ukuziphathamela kuwukuthi ukuziqhenya kwamadoda kunambithekile. Lokhu kuzokwenza ngokungahambisani nhlobo umsebenzi wokuxhaswa komfaki, okuhloswe ukuveza isipho, ngoba ukujabulisa owesifazane kuhlale kunemizwa emihle.
Ukuphawula okungafani
Abesifazane ekukhanjweni kusuka kumadoda okulayini okuqondile banamasu amaningi futhi abaqaphele. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ukuphefumula okuyisigidi esibucayi esikhangisweni yizinto zokuthenga ezibizayo kunika umphumela omuhle kunombhalo olula: "Darling, ngithengele ingubo!". Kodwa lapha into eyinhloko akuyona ukuyiqeda ngokuqondile kwakho nangokungaqondile: indoda kufanele ibe nombono wokuthi awuzange umphoqe ukuba athenge into entsha, kodwa wanquma ukukujabulisa.
Cacisa imininingwane
Uma ugcwalise ngokunembile konke okuchazwe esigabeni esandulele, wena, naphezu kwanoma yini, usengozini enkulu .... Isibonelo, esikhundleni sokugqoka okwesimidwebo nesitayela esivela kuLouis Vuitton uthole i-calico sarafan elula. Lokhu, okokuqala, kungenxa yokuthi ngamunye wethu unombono wethu wezwe. Kungenzeka ukuthi lapho umuntu engathandwayo engazi ukuthi uyathandeka, awuboni njengowesifazane ophelile, kepha njengengubo ethi "sweet" futhi enamafutha, okuyinto engaphezu kwayo yonke ingubo epholile, kunokuba i-sexy. Ngakho-ke, zivikele ezihlakalweni eziphikisana nesitayela sakho nazo zonke imininingwane, bhala kabusha i-athikili kusukela kwelebuli yento oyifunayo, bese uyihambisa kumnikeli wakho.
Khuthaza ukutshala imali kuwe
Uma echitha isikhathi sakhe kuwe, ukunakekelwa okukufanele kakhulu. Uma unenhlanhla ukuhlangana endleleni yakho yokuphila akuyona umlusi ohahayo, ungaziphathe ngokuzivimbela futhi ungamphathi ngokuphindiselela ngamazwi athando, ukuncoma. Uma ufuna ukukunika izipho, yiqaphele futhi ungayinaki izifiso zomzwelo zomnikeli wakho. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukuze angenayo imizamo yokukusola ngokuthi ungumuntu ozikhonzile. Mhlonipha njalo futhi ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene, hhayi nje ezinsukwini zokupha isipho.
Nikeza izibonelo ezifanele
Uma isipho sakho singasetshenziswanga kakhulu ku-chevalier yakho, lungisa isimo ngokunikeza ngezikhathi ezithile ulwazi mayelana nokuthi ezinye izithandani zonakalisa kanjani abesifazane babo ngezipho ezinhle kanye nezimangalisa ngakho nangaphandle kwazo. Umgomo wakho ukuthi akufanele kube yikhokhwa, umlayezo.
Yiba yilowo ofuna ukwenza izipho
Lapha, uma ufuna ukwenza izipho, kuzomele uzibuke ngamanye amehlo. Isibonelo, yakha isithombe sephrinta: iya ku-salon beauty, uvuselele ikhabethe lakho, zama njalo ukubukeka kahle, ukwakheka kwemfashini, izinwele. Khumbula ukuthi kuphela amakhosazana avuzwa ngokuqaphela amadoda nezipho. Zama lokhu!