Kusukela ezibonisweni zabantu futhi kuphelile nazo zonke izinhlobo zokubonwa kwesayensi kule ndawo. Ngakho-ke ngingavula kanjani kancane iveli lesikhumba? Ngingayithola yini indlela yokunquma ubulili bomntwana kusengaphambili?
Ngokungangabazeki, ukuhlela ubulili bomntwana kuyinkinga ebaluleke kunazo zonke engakhathazeki nje kuphela ngabazali besikhathi esizayo, kodwa futhi nobuchwepheshe bezakhi zofuzo emhlabeni wonke. Ngokwemvelo, ukucacisa ubulili kusengaphambili, ngokusekelwe kuphela ezinkolelweni nezibonakaliso eziningi - akunakwenzeka futhi akunakulungele ngokuphelele. Umuntu angenza konke okusemandleni akhe, aqaphele zonke izincomo ezithile, kodwa nokho igama lokugcina lizohlala lendalo futhi, ngeNkosi yakhe, icala.
Indlela ephumelela kakhulu endabeni yokuhlela ubulili bezingane ezizayo ingaba ukusabalalisa ngokweqile, okuyinto ngokunemba ngamaphesenti angama-90 kuzosiza bonke ukuhlela nokubikezela. Kulabo abangazange baqaphele ukusebenzisa usizo lwezokwelapha zanamuhla, kodwa nokho ngendlela endala esebenzisa indlela evamile yemvelo, kunombono wabantu abaningi, ngezinye izikhathi (ikakhulukazi ngokusikisela okukhuthele kungagcwaliseka ngomlingo). Isibonelo, inkolelo evamile phakathi kwabesifazane abalindele ukuthi uma owesifazane okhulelwe isisu sithuthuka phambili - amathuba okuzalwa komfana amnandi, kepha uma engabonakali kakhulu futhi ekhona endaweni lapho isikhumba esisodwa sasibonwa khona ngemuva - intombazane.
Nazi izimpawu ezimbalwa ezaziwa, indlela yokunquma ubulili bezingane ezizayo kusengaphambili:
- Uma isisu sakho sihamba ngaphezulu ngakwesokudla, kunalokho, kuyoba nomfana, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngakwesobunxele - umama ugqoke intombazane.
- Uma ama-aola azungeze ingono i-pinkish, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi ulindele umfana, abomnyama bayintombazane.
- Uhlukunyezwa yi-toxicosis yasekuseni, enganiki ukuphumula futhi isivele isondliwe kahle - linda le ntombazane. Uma konke kungaphezulu noma okungavamile - umfana.
- Uma ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa unesizathu esithile sakhula ngezinye izikhathi uthanda zonke izinhlobo zokudla okumnandi, okwakungeke kubonwe ikakhulukazi ngaphambili, ujabule - uzothola intombazane. Uma, ngokuphambene nalokho, idonsela konke okusawoti nokudla inyama - umfana.
- Izinwele ezingaphezu kwesisu esiswini somama okhulelwe osanda kubonakala kubonisa ukuthi umfana uhlala kahle kuleli thumba. Isizathu sokukholelwa ukuthi kuyoba khona intombazane yilapho kuvezwa khona.
- Lalela ngokucophelela i-palpitation yengane yakho yesikhathi esizayo. It is beat rhythmically, ngokushesha - ngumfana. Uma kancane kancane, kulinganiswa - mhlawumbe, unentombazane.
- Ngokuvamile kunezinhlobonhlobo zezikhukhula kanye nomkhuhlane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ngakho-ke, izimpawu zabantu zithi uma esikhathini sokuqala uhlushwa yizikhukhula, lungela ukuzalwa kwendlalifa. Futhi uma ungenasizathu salo, amathuba okuzalwa kwentombazane aphezulu.
- Ukuze usebenzise indlela elandelayo yokunquma ubulili bezingane ezizayo, uzodinga indandatho nomcibisholo. Xhuma intambo ibe ngendandatho. Bamba isakhiwo ngenhla yesandla sakho sesobunxele. Kwenzekani? Indandatho iqala ukuphuma phezulu-kungenxa yokuzalwa komfana. Uma i-ringlet iphenduka nxazonke engxenyeni yesandla sakho - kunalokho, intombazane.
- Ngezinkolelo zaseJapane, kunetafula elikhethekile lokunquma ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa, kusekelwe eminyakeni yobudala bendabuko nendaba kanye nokubala okunye. Ukuze uzisebenzise le nqubo, udinga ukuhlukanisa iminyaka yomama ngamathathu, kanye nobudala babababa ozayo - abane. Kulabo abasala kakhulu - lokho kanye phansi kuzoba ingane yakho. Ngokwehluleka, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi le ndlela yinto engacabangi kakhulu, ngoba indoda nowesifazane bangaba nezingane eziningi zobulili obuhlukile, kodwa lezi zibalo ngeke zishintshe futhi okusele kuzohlale kube komunye umuntu oqondile. Akucaci nokuthi kufanele wenze kanjani ezimweni lapho ibhalansi ilingana khona, mhlawumbe lokhu kungubufakazi bokuthi uzoba namawele - umfana nentombazane.
Ungazama futhi uhlele ngokuzimela ubulili bomntwana ngaphambi kokukhulelwe, ngokulandela ukuhlakanipha komuntu othile. Ngezansi sinikeza izincomo ezifanele ekuqaliseni ucansi oluthile. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi lezi zeluleko zingabonakala zingenangqondo ngokuphelele, kodwa ngokuzumayo othile uzokusiza.
Ngakho-ke, uma uphishekela umgomo wokukhulelwa umfana, udinga:
- Vula iwindi noma iwindi ekamelweni lapho isenzo sokukhulelwa sizokwenziwa khona
- Indoda ngandlela-thile kufanele ibe nesifiso esikhulu sokufuna ingane kunomfazi
- Ngokuqinisekile umkakho kufanele alale ngakwesokunxele somyeni wakhe othandekayo
- Yenza uthando lungcono esimweni sokuma
- Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi indoda yakho ifinyelele i-orgasm phambi kwakho
- Zama ukuthi ungangeni ngokushesha ezandleni zikaMorpheus ngemuva kokwenza uthando
- Ingabe kuyana? Ukukhulelwa kokuthunyelwa ngaphambi kokuqala kwesimo sezulu esishisayo
Uma umgomo wakho ukukhulelwa intombazane, kufanele:
- Unganciphisi ngokukhulelwa okuphazamisayo futhi ukhulelwe futhi
- Bonisa isinyathelo esiningi kwezocansi ngangokunokwenzeka kuwe
- Yenza uthando ngokuphindaphindiwe emphakathini wendabuko (isibonelo, indoda evela phezulu), kanti kufanele ufinyelele i-orgasm ngaphambili kunomlingani wakho.
- Awufuni ukulinda isimo sezulu esishisayo? Yenza uthando emvuleni futhi mhlawumbe uzoba nentombazane
- Amabele akho kabili ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa? Hhayi, mhlawumbe, ukhula intombazane
- Phuza ijusi le-orange. Yebo, yebo. Bathi ukuthi futhi kunomthelela ekukhulelweni kwentombazane.
Uma uhlela intombazane, indaba yakho yokugcina kufanele ithathe izinsuku ezimbili kuya kwezintathu ngaphambi kwesikhathi sokuvuthwa.
Uma lo mfana engena ezinhlelweni zakho, kufanele ubale ukulala ngokocansi kungakapheli isonto ngaphambi kokuqala kwe-ovulation. Ngokwemvelo, lokhu kuzodinga ukulungiselela kwangaphambili. Ukuze unqume kusengaphambili ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa, kuzodingeka uqale ufunde ukucacisa usuku oluqondile lokuvota.
Zonke lezi zindlela, ngeke zikunikeze isiqiniseko esiphelele sezocansi ezifunayo zengane engakazalwa, kodwa ungazama, awulahlekelwa lutho.