Esikhathini sokuqala isifiso sokukhohlisa owesifazane embhedeni yisifiso esivamile sobulili, okungukuthi isifiso. Futhi lokho akusho ukuthi uyakuthanda, kungukuthi nje indoda enesifiso socansi ikwazi kakhulu ngothando olungenakumelana nayo. Futhi lapha kunezizathu eziningana zokuthi kungani uvumela ukusondelana.
Isizathu senombolo eyodwa - usuthanda ngempela futhi awukwazi ukunqaba umuntu othandekayo.
Isizathu senomboro emibili - ngoba ayifuni umsindo, kodwa ufuna nje ucansi, njengaye.
Isizathu senombolo yesithathu ukwesaba kwakho. Yebo, ukwesaba, wesaba ukucasula ngokulahla kwakho, noma ucabanga ukuthi "Ngizolahla, kodwa uzoshiya kwesinye amahloni". Futhi kungenxa ngosizo lwesaba ukuthi amadoda avame ukuxhaphaza abesifazane. "Ngakho-ke awuthandanga nhlobo, angifanele wena, kodwa uLenka ngeke akwenze lokho kimi." Ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa othandekayo wakho, uvame ukuya kulesi sinyathelo. Futhi eqinisweni, ufuna nje ucansi.
Ngifakazela lokhu ngokuqiniseka. Ubuhlobo obuseduze buba nezici ezimbili - ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Futhi ngamadoda aqondiswa yizifo zengqondo, futhi abesifazane bancike emizwelweni. Ukuze ubulili bobulili obuqine kakhulu buxhunywe ngokomzwelo, nakuba ngezinye izikhathi bazibonakalisa ngokucophelela kakhulu, kepha kubesifazane kuqala ukuqonda nokufudumala bese kuphela beyanelisa izidingo. Ngakho-ke, ukuhlukahluka okulandelayo kulandela, ngokusho ukuthi indoda nowesifazane bangaba kanjani abathandi.
Ulindele uthando, uthanda ucansi. Njengoba ukuphila kubonisa, ubuhlobo obunjalo buzohluleka. Futhi ingabe kufanelekile ukuqala nhlobo, ngoba ngaphandle kokudumazeka nobuhlungu, ngeke bakulethe lutho?
Ngokuvamile owesifazane unombono wakhe ebuhlotsheni obuphakathi kobulili nothando: akasoze alala nabangathandwa, uthando lwakhe luchaza imvume yakhe kwezocansi. Ungayiqonda kanjani imizwa yakho ngomuntu? Le mibono efanayo ifakwe kumuntu: kungakanani ayifunayo, kumthanda kakhulu. Kodwa lo muntu ucabanga ngendlela ehlukile. Angamfuna kakhulu owesifazane ngaphandle kokuzwa imizwa ngaye, ngoba nje ebheka ukuthi uyamkhangisa futhi uyakhohlisa.
Wonke owesifazane uzwa isidingo sokuthinta ngobumnene izindebe nezandla. Uthando lwakhe lubonisa ngokusebenzisa ukuthinta, kisses. Indoda egxuma futhi ibanga ibonisa isifiso sakhe esingenakuphikiswa. Akakwazi neze ukuzwa imizwa yomlingani futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo anikeze injabulo yakhe engapheli, abe mnene futhi azwele. Noma yiyiphi yabesifazane, emva kokucindezeleka, ukunakekelwa kanye nokuncoma okungapheli, kuyathandana nomlingani wakhe, ngisho noma engazange azizwele ngaphambi kobudlelwane obuseduze.
Kubantu, futhi lapha konke okuphambene. Uyakwazisa lona wesifazane, uma le nkosikazi eyinkimbinkimbi, ekhululiwe, evumela ukuba aqaphele zonke izifiso zakhe eziyimfihlo futhi ezicacile, zingabangela injabulo enkulu. Kodwa kukho konke lokho, akasoze athanda futhi ngeke alungele ubuhlobo obunzima kuphela ngalezi zizathu. Umthandi omkhulu lapho engekho ezinye izici ngeke abe ngowesifazane othandekayo wesilisa onolwazi.
Futhi, naphezu kokuntula uthando kowesifazane, umuntu olala embhedeni angavuma ukuthi uyamthanda, awugcwalise ngamazwi amathenda, aze athembisa ukushada futhi abe nezingane. Futhi konke lokho kweso kwesikhashana kuphuma ekhanda lakhe ngemuva kokuthola injabulo. Ngokuvamile kulesi sigaba owesifazane uthukuthele uthi "Uthi uyangithanda futhi ufuna ukuxhumana nami ukuphila." Le ndoda iyazibuza ukuthi "Yini engasho, uma usuvele ukhululekile," kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uzama ukuthula, kungenjalo ngeke umbone ubusuku obushisayo.
Ngokwesayensi kuboniswe ukuthi abantu abazenzi nje uma bekhuluma ngothando ngesikhathi sokulala, abakwazi ukuzilawula ngesikhathi sokuvusa. Indoda ejabule, uzosho konke owesifazane ofuna ukuzwa. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi ngalezi zikhathi ucabanga kanjalo. Futhi uyayithanda ngempela futhi uyayithanda owesifazane, lapho ejabule ekhononda ethi "Ngiyakuthanda!", Kodwa uhlangabezana nalezi zinkinga kuphela ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi, ekugcineni lapho isimo sengqondo sabantu sishintsha khona.
Masixoxe ngenhla. Okufanele ukwenze ukuze ugweme ukudumala nokucasuka.
- ungakholelwa ngamazwi abantu ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bumnandi futhi beqiniso kangakanani;
- Ungathathi uthando ngocansi. Ungacabanga ngakho, noma yini, kodwa khumbula, ubulili besilisa ukwanelisa izidingo zomzimba, njengendlela yokunciphisa ukucindezeleka, ukudlala, kodwa hhayi ukubonakaliswa kothando. Kunomngcele ocacile phakathi kothando nocansi.
Manje ngokubaluleke kakhulu, uma usufunda lo mbhalo, ungabaza ukuthi uzizwa kanjani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi udale lolu thando, mhlawumbe, empeleni, akukho lutho. Linda, cabanga, pheqa ubuhlobo bakho ngokusekelwe kolwazi osufunde. Vuma kuwe ngokwethembeka: "Kungani ukhona naye?", "Uyajabula?". Uma impendulo ingekho ngokushesha, ungangabazi, kungcono ukuphula lobu buhlobo. Ungamamatheli kumuntu, kuphela ukwesaba isizungu. Ungesabi ukushiya umuntu ojabulela injabulo yakho. Thatha umthetho oqala ngawo futhi uqhubeke nobuhlobo, kuphela nomuntu okwazi ukukujabulisa. Uma uzwa ukungabaza, ukungaboni kahle ebuhlotsheni, uhlukanise kalula. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kusasa kuyoba usuku olusha nokubonakala okusha. Uthando futhi uzijabulise wena, abesifazane abathandekayo.