Kanye nezithembiso zothando olungapheli nokuthembeka, ngamunye womshado naye uthatha imithwalo yemfanelo kanye nezibopho, okuvela manje kufanele kulandelwe ngokucacile, uma kungenjalo ukuthula noma ukuthula emndenini kungakhola.
Lokhu kusebenza nasemisebenzini yasendlini yomyeni ngamunye. Indlela yokusabalalisa imithwalo yemfanelo emndenini, ngenkathi yenza konke ngesikhathi nesikhathi sokunene, okuyinto ezobe ibuhlungu kabi iminyaka engaphephile.
Ngokushesha, kungcono.
Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi indlela yomndeni yokuqhuba umndeni emndenini ngamunye uhlukile. Ukwakhiwa komndeni omusha kusho ukudala umyalelo omusha ozosekelwa ezinhlobonhlobo zokuziphatha kwabazali, ngokucabangela izithakazelo zohlu oluhlukile. Emva kwakho konke, uzovuma, kuvela ngokungathembeki, uma umuntu onomusa eqotho futhi ehambisana nemizwa enakekela konke, kanti owesibili kuphela kufanele amukele izithelo zomsebenzi womlingani wakhe. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngokushesha noma kamuva iqembu labasebenzi lizofuna ukubuyiselwa, kodwa ngeke lihambisane. Ngokuvamile, indima yesisebenzi sokuhlonipha ithathwa ngabesifazane. Ukulungele ngenxa yabathandekayo ukuba baphathe umthwalo phezu kwakhe, kuze kube yileso sikhathi, amandla namandla nokubekezela okwanele.
Ngakho-ke, ukusabalalisa imisebenzi nokubeka umyalelo wokuziphatha komndeni. Phela, impilo iyisici esiyinhloko empilweni yethu. Uma kungenjalo, abathembekile bayosheshe basebenzise "mina", futhi ngobuqotho asiqondi izizathu zokuthukuthela kwakho okwengeziwe ngalokhu.
"Owesifazane kumele" futhi "indoda esendlini."
Sekuyisikhathi eside yonke imisebenzi yomsebenzi ihlukaniswe yaba yisilisa nabesifazane. Lesi sigaba kanye nemisebenzi yezomnotho neyomndeni yabashadile ayidlulile. Ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho okudala kokhokho, usengakwazi ukuhlangana nalabo abaqiniseka ngokuqinisekile ukuthi kukhona imithwalo yemithwalo yemithwalo yemisebenzi, futhi indoda ayinabo ubuhlobo obuncane kubo. Yiqiniso, imfundo idlala indima enkulu lapha, kodwa ilungiselelo elifanele lezinto ezisemqoka ngokushesha ngemva kokuba umshado, noma ngisho nangaphambi kwalo, kuzosiza ukuxazulula le nkinga empande. Ngokuvamile lo mbono uhambelana kakhulu namadoda azibonela wona kuphela endimeni yokudla ukudla futhi ayenze kahle endlini, uma kwenzeka ukulungiswa nokwakhiwa komsebenzi. Nakuba ezweni lanamuhla, ukutholakala kwenani elikhulu lezinsizakalo ezihlukahlukene, liba nobuvila kule ndawo. Kodwa owesifazane kufanele njalo futhi kufanele. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, iqiniso lokuthi ngaphambili owesifazane wayengenalo ilungelo lokusebenza wayekhohliwe ngokuphelele, ngakho-ke wayengena ekhaya kuphela. Abesifazane banamuhla banamalungelo afanayo namadoda, baphumelela ebhizinisini, futhi emkhayeni womndeni bangabuye badinga ukusabalalisa imisebenzi, nokwenza umsebenzi wesikole kusuka kumadoda. Ikakhulukazi uma benosuku olufanayo lokusebenza futhi hhayi umehluko omkhulu emkhakheni wezemisebenzi.
Odadewethu abathandekayo, ngaphambi kokuba ubuze, okuthile okuvela kumyeni wakhe kufanele kucatshangelwe, nokuthi iqiniso lakho konke okusemandleni akho okuphila okuthembekile, futhi angabi nalwazi mayelana nezinkinga nezinkathazo zansuku zonke, njengoba benza abazali bakhe ngempumelelo . Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokusabalalisa imithwalo yemfanelo emndenini, kubambisene bokuqala babe nesineke nokubekezela. Futhi ungamangali uma isicelo sakho sokuqala ukukhipha udoti, noma ukugeza izitsha ukuze uhlangabezane nokuphazamiseka kwangempela, futhi uma sekuqedile, khona-ke kunjalo, uma nje kucatshangwa. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uma ungakwazi ukumelana nesikhathi okuthiwa "ukujwayela", indoda izojwayela imithwalo yakhe yemithwalo yemfanelo, futhi ngeke ibonakale iyinkimbinkimbi futhi ingena emcimbini wendlela yokuziphatha nemigomo.
Isicelo nesikhumbuzi.
Imibhangqwana esemisha kufanele icabangele iqiniso elilodwa lokuthi isicelo sakho sesikhathi esisodwa, mayelana nento ethile, futhi ngokuvumelana nokusebenza kwayo, akusiyo ingxenye yakho yesibili ngokushesha. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma uthanda, isibonelo, ukuthi umyeni uthatha izicathulo zakhe esitolo sesigqoke futhi engashiyi izinyawo emgodini, ungalindeli ukuthi emva kokuqala kokukhuluma, izicathulo zizohlala zimi njalo . Isicelo sakho sokuqala sokulandelana komyalelo othile kufanele sisekelwe izikhumbuzo ezihlala zithulile, kuphela kulokhu ungafinyelela umphumela oyifunayo. Into esemqoka ayihumushi izikhumbuzo ezingeni lokuthi ziyokwenza intukuthelo nokucasuka.
Zama ukusabalalisa zonke izinto ngokulinganayo, futhi uhlele konke ngendlela yokuthi ngamunye wesibhangqwana eshadile angenza zonke izinhlobo zomsebenzi wesikole ozichaza njengento evamile. Kuphela kuleli cala uzokwazi ukuhlola ngokucophelela umsebenzi womlingani wakho futhi umbuzo wokuthi ngubani noma nini "osebenza ngokweqile" ngeke kube nzima kakhulu.
Lapho unquma ukuthi uzosakaza kanjani yonke imisebenzi yasendlini emndenini, ungase ucabange ngokuthandayo. Kukhona abantu abajabulela okuthile noma ukufutheka okuqotho uma benza lokhu noma lolo hlobo lomsebenzi. Ngakho-ke, uma bobabili bobabili bevumelana, imisebenzi ethile ingahlukaniswa ngokuvumelana nezintandokazi, ukuze kugcwaliseke njengoba bekusho ngezizathu zokuzithandela.
Ukukhuthazwa.
Noma yimuphi umsebenzi kufanele uvuzwe. Akukho okunye nokusebenza kwemisebenzi yasendlini. Lokhu akudingekile ukuthi uthumele uhlu lwamanani esiqandisini, futhi ukhokhele umholo (yiqiniso, lokhu kuyindlela ethakazelisayo), kwanele, nje ukubonga omunye nomunye usizo, noma umsebenzi owenziwe, ukudumisa uma umphumela womsebenzi uphumelele, nokuthola indumiso - lapho kungenzeki konke okwenzeka kahle. Ukwamukelwa kwakho nokubonga kwezenzo zesigamu sakho sesibili kuzoba yisisusa esihle sokuphindaphinda. Ngempela, sijabule kakhulu ukuletha injabulo kubantu esibathandayo futhi sibone ukumomotheka kwabo, ukuthi ngifuna ukukwenza kaningi.
Ngakho-ke, singaphetha ngokuthi into esemqoka ekusatshalaliseni imithwalo yemfanelo yomndeni ukuhlonipha, ukubekezela nokubekezela. Futhi, isimo sengqondo esihle nokudala ngeke kuphazamise. Ngikholelwa, ukuzikhandla kancane futhi uzophumelela. Uthando, hlonipha, futhi njalo ulungele ukusiza, ngoba ukusiza othandekayo kungukubonakaliswa okuvelele kokuthembeka nokujula kwemizwa yakho.