Indlela yokuthola indlela kumfana?

Ufuna ukufunda indlela yokuthola indlela kumfana? Ayikho into elula, yenza nje isazi sengqondo esaziwa kakhulu. Thola indlela - ngamanye amagama, tame insizwa. Ufuna ukuthi akulalele, athembele, agcwalise izicelo zakho kanye nezimpendulo zakho.

Ngelinye igama, ufuna ukuqhutshwa ezandleni zakho. Ukuze uthole lokhu, udinga ukusebenza kancane. Qhathanisa nesoka lakho enja. Cabanga ngokuthi yiziphi izazi ze-cynologists zisebenzisa izindlela zokudambisa umngane wabo onyawo ezine noma ukuthola indlela yesilwane.

Yonke inja iyakuthanda futhi ithande . Indoda ayifani nabangane bethu abaqotho. Ufuna nesithakazelo.

Kwenzekani lapho inkosi ifika ekhaya? Inja imhlangabeza kanjani? Ngokufanele, inja igcwala injabulo, iphendukela ezinyaweni bese icela ukuba ilandelwe ngemuva kwendlebe.

Amadoda ayojabula futhi uma, lapho ehlangana nawe, uzomomotheka, futhi uyamamukela.

Amantombazane amaningi acabanga ukuthi umhlangano ojabulisayo awuyize. Futhi akekho. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Jabulela ukuhlangana naye, ngaleyo ndlela uzoxazulula izinkinga ezinkulu esikhathini esizayo.

Indoda kufanele ilwele wena futhi iqonde ukuthi ujabule nomhlangano naye.

Izinja zenza imiyalo ecacile kuphela . Ingabe ufuna ukuthola indlela kumuntu? Funda ukuhlela izicelo zakho ngokucacile nangokucacile, kubaluleke kakhulu. Amadoda azokujabulela ukufeza isicelo sakho uma ungakuletha kuye ngolimi olucacile.

Njalo umangale amantombazane akholelwa ukuthi umfana ngokwakhe kumele aqagele ngezifiso zakhe. Othandekayo, ingabe insizwa yakho iyingqondo? Yena ngokwakhe akasoze acabange. Khumbula lokhu - akakho! Futhi ungakhubeki futhi umenze abe yihlazo. Funda ukuba ube yingqungquthela futhi uxhumane nezicelo zakho ngqo kumfana. Khona-ke uyokwenza ujabule.

Ungabi namahloni. Vula futhi uthembekile. Ubuchopho besilisa busebenza ngokuhlukile, kudinga ukucaca.

Izinja zithanda ukudlala . Amantombazane nabesifazane abaningi babhekisela ekuzijabuliseni kwamadoda - ukudoba, ukubhokisana, ukuvocavoca, ukuzingela - njengokungabi nalutho okungenasici.

Amantombazane, baqonde into eyodwa, ngaphandle kwalezi "zinto zokuzilibazisa "ezingenangqondo" amadoda asheshe abe yisimungulu, ashade ngamafutha, alahlekelwa isithakazelo empilweni futhi, ngisho. Owesifazane wakho othandekayo. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukujabula futhi uthole indlela kubathandekayo bakho, ungamvimbeli ukuba ahlale ejabulisa, njengoba efuna.

Izinja azibekezeleli iziqu ezincane . Mnike lo muntu ithuba lokuphumula. Ungangeneli esikhaleni sakhe siqu. Ukusebenza njalo, ukuxhumana nentombi yakhe ngeke kube yindoda eyodwa. Wonke umuntu ngezinye izikhathi ufuna ukuhoxisa kuye futhi alale embhedeni, ashintshe iziteshi.

Amadoda, kanye nezinja, abakwazi ukukhuthazelela lapho begqoka ama-leashes amancane. Imibuzo yakho njalo: uke waphi? Wayengubani? Ngubani obize? Kungani sekwephuzile kangaka? Uzofeza kuphela lokho ngokushesha noma kamuva, umfana wakho osemusha kanye othandekayo uzoshabalala empilweni yakho. Funda ukuthembela kumuntu wakho.

Izinja zithanda ukudla ngokumnandi . "Indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu ilele esiswini sakhe." Ngicabanga, lapha zonke izintombi nabesifazane bazobe becacile futhi becacile. Noma, uma unenhlanhla, futhi indoda yakho ingumfana wokupheka, ungashiya le nto, ngoba awudingi ukuma ngesitofu uphinde ucabange ngesinye isiphuzo sokudla.

Izinja zidinga ukufundiswa futhi zijeziswe ngokungaziphathi kahle . Futhi nabantu. Uma umfana ekuphatha ngokungenhlonipho, kuzomele ususe masinyane izenzo ezinjalo. Uma kungenjalo, wena ngokwakho umvumele ukuba abe nesibindi - hlala entanyeni yakho bese ubeka imilenze yakho phezulu. Iqiniso eliyaziwa ukuthi indoda ithatha owesifazane njengoba nje naye emvumele. Ngakho-ke, ungaphumuli, gcina indoda ngethoni eqhubekayo.